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Like we have said, experience counts in this game, so we have gathered some at-a-glance quotes and recommendations from girls to give you some further food for thought.......

Always have at least 10 pounds on you - if like me you charge £150 per hour its surprising how many guys say 'i've only got 20's on me" and try and get away with paying 140 and, it means if something feels wrong when you get to booking at least you have the money to get home. 

Free hepatitis jabs are available at your local GUM clinic and we recommend everyone in a close contact profession (including paramedics and such) should get one.

Be honest with the GUM clinic about what you do. Insist on regular checks including throat swabs, urine samples and HIV tests as not all clinics offer these as standard.

You don't have to put up with unclean or smelly clients - offer and if necessary insist on them showering if you feel their hygiene is not up to scratch. Don't be embarrassed to mention it, guys should have the respect to turn up as fresh as possible or ask for a shower.

Get well informed about what STIs can look like - be vigilant - its your health and so very important.

Some girls can be bitchy (no you don't say!), others are extremely helpful and supportive so choose your friends well.

Friends may not always turn out to be true friends in this business, some people will be your 'friend' while you are of use to them and then disappear when you need them.

Read and digest the manufacturers 'using a condom' guidelines - they are there for your health and safety. Note: some condoms (eg Durex Extra Safe) contain nonoxly-9 which may irritate some ladies and has been reported to actually increase risk of HIV infection - see www.stopn9condoms.com for more details.

Always trust your instincts and think about how much information you are giving away to clients (and other ladies) about yourself- set boundaries and stick to them.

To help get organised for your tax return, purchase a 12 leaf file from Tescos or similar and have a section for each month from April through to March and put all your receipts and record of earnings  away as you go. At the end of the year when the tax return comes round, you'll at least have everything filled by month which will be more manageable.

On outcalls, get the client's full name and address or hotel details. Call them on a landline to make sure they are where they say they are. Let someone else know where you are going and to whom.