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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by Miss star on Today at 10:51:08 am »
Things are finally picking up for me now.
To see the phone ringing all day is heaven after constantly checking to see if I had a signal all of march

Hopefully things are turning a corner.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by Gypsy on Today at 09:37:57 am »
Yes, busy here too; thankfully my last booking cancelled because I was knackered - I only took it because of the long weekend, but I was relieved.

One good week + one shit week last week makes two OK weeks, I suppose. And four days off now :D

I seem to follow this pattern, too, Amy. Swings and roundabouts. Although I'd say about 80% of my clients are returnees and regs. This is why I worry if I did have to take time out for whatever reason I'd lose my base income and when I started again it would take me aaaaaages to build back up.
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Almost all of the above

I don't like the job itself but it does add a bit of spice to my life
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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by amy on 28 March 2024, 10:51:07 pm »
This week has actually been a big week for me, I had a lot of prebookings (i don't usually have many prebooks) and they all turned up.....phone has been dead though, have had a few regulars ring for bookings......Best week I've had in weeks

Yes, busy here too; thankfully my last booking cancelled because I was knackered - I only took it because of the long weekend, but I was relieved.

One good week + one shit week last week makes two OK weeks, I suppose. And four days off now :D
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Questions and Answers / Re: How to proceed in the event of a false bank transfer.
« Last Post by amy on 28 March 2024, 10:49:16 pm »
No I wasn’t saying to actually go to the police and report it as rape, I agree it would be pointless. However the message may have made him think twice, or maybe not.

No offence committed?? It’s definitely an offence to agree to see a swx worker, have sex and then not pay!

It isn't, because sex based contracts are not legally enforceable and never have been. That's why the first rule of sex work is get the money first. The cases regarding condoms apply to everyone and aren't relevant here - it's shit, but it's the law.

I absolutely agree with you Florence. The consent is based around receiving money for sex, you take away the money and you've removed my consent.

If the SW in the OP didn't agree to sex without being paid, then she shouldn't have had sex without being paid. She didn't wait to make sure she had her money and gave the service anyway, therefore she agreed to unpaid sex.
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No I wasn’t saying to actually go to the police and report it as rape, I agree it would be pointless. However the message may have made him think twice, or maybe not.

No offence committed?? It’s definitely an offence to agree to see a swx worker, have sex and then not pay!

Just like it’s an offence to remove a condom. It’s an offence because the consented sex was on the basis of using a condom. Removing a condom without permission is an offence. The same as non payment. However you want to look at it is up to you. It’s a grey area. But there’s ‘experts’ and even courts in Australia that absolutely consider non payment as rape.

In some jurisdictions, courts have found that when a person cons a sex worker – refuses or evades the agreed payment for sex – such acts constitute rape, because consent for the sexual act was obtained fraudulently.[i/]
From article: Google: ‘It absolutely should be seen as rape’: when sex workers are conned

I absolutely agree with you Florence. The consent is based around receiving money for sex, you take away the money and you've removed my consent.
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Reporting (Persistent) Timewasters, Phone & Text Pests / Re: Abusive man
« Last Post by SAAFE on 28 March 2024, 09:23:04 pm »
Could you please add the location and AW username and edit the phone number so that the missing digits are there with the last two censored lime this 012345678**? Then it can be searched :)
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Reporting (Persistent) Timewasters, Phone & Text Pests / Abusive man
« Last Post by Miss Blueberry^ on 28 March 2024, 07:42:56 pm »
0753713

The guy made a booking via aw and since been back and forth constantly changing dates, time.
When I refuse to meet him he turn aggressive saying he will leave me a negative review ( the meet never took a place ) .
Threatening me with the fact he will call the police to report me to the police and stated his girlfriend is one here and clients eye.


Animal …
Girl be aware


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Blather and Babble / Re: the term prostitute?
« Last Post by Karena on 28 March 2024, 05:45:45 pm »
Sorry to come back to this but I think it's important that people know.

I was worried about this DBS thing and so was my friend who's reported a robber in the past who attacked her whilst working (he was caught, publicly named and shamed, and prosecuted). She contacted the police who were in charge of her case and they have assured her - and also contacted the DBS department for clarification -  that no mention of sex work would ever be disclosed on a DBS certificate if a person has reported a crime against them.  It's only the person's convictions that go on the DBS certificate, and no mention of escort work should ever be included.

The officer in charge of my friend's case says (And I've read the email myself) that under no way, shape or form would a victim of any offence have this disclosed as part of DBS checks.

It's good that the DBS comes to you first so you can double check before it goes anywhere else - and if the sex work thing ever did come up on it, then you should be able to get it removed. 
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Hi
I am interested. Is it still available? My WhatsApp is 07519508319
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