Outcall with Young Children in the House

[Nia Hope]

Agreed personal sex lives should be off topic, easiest way to ensure that is not mention it then no comments would be made to how others conduct theirs x

[Grumpy Cow]

Agreed personal sex lives should be off topic, easiest way to ensure that is not mention it then no comments would be made to how others conduct theirs x

Exactly!  It was only picked up as it was offered as some sort of vindication for this outcall.  Now it was confirmed it was unrelated to past sex work it's not relevant

[tigerlily]

I suspect I may have been on an outcall where sleeping children were present the other day. I find it amusing

It's not really just on the punter though is it, you as a human have a responsibility to look out for others, especially vulnerable children (whether you uphold it or not is up to you, but we all as human beings have that responsibility

Where on earth does the amusement come from, we're talking about children

Okay, sure. In the sense that it could be dangerous for a wg if the punter's wife or family found out - as evidence from other threads on saafe - then, yes maybe there is some responsibility to yourself to not go through with an outcall like this. For your own safety. This I'll agree with.

As far as amusement, of course I'm not saying 'haha funny that a kid's around.' I only meant that once I walked away and started putting the pieces together I put together a little speculation of my own. And then this thread came up. And of course it's only heresy, but it's a reminder that you never know the full story.

[TheLittleMatchGirl]

I suspect I may have been on an outcall where sleeping children were present the other day. I find it amusing

It's not really just on the punter though is it, you as a human have a responsibility to look out for others, especially vulnerable children (whether you uphold it or not is up to you, but we all as human beings have that responsibility

Where on earth does the amusement come from, we're talking about children

Okay, sure. In the sense that it could be dangerous for a wg if the punter's wife or family found out - as evidence from other threads on saafe - then, yes maybe there is some responsibility to yourself to not go through with an outcall like this. For your own safety. This I'll agree with.

As far as amusement, of course I'm not saying 'haha funny that a kid's around.' I only meant that once I walked away and started putting the pieces together I put together a little speculation of my own. And then this thread came up. And of course it's only heresy, but it's a reminder that you never know the full story.

Ummm my concern was not at all for the wg's safety, I'm talking about as a responsible caring human being looking out for those around us and how we affect their lives ie. kids, the only people i was saying were of concern is the children. The punter and hooker make their own decisions, the children in this situation do not.

I don't know how else to simplify it, other than a stranger fucking their father while their mother is out is not a comfortable situation for a child to be aware of, and it's selfish to take the chance for a few quid from a hooker perspective. Each to their own but if I found a woman in my house doing that with children/minors/kids there, whether they were mine or not it's not ok from where I stand, I guess I just put children before

[luciefate]

Well after all our debates - the twat cancelled just before I left for the booking.

I wasn't that disappointed as I would have been so annoyed with myself if the kids had woken up. Money isn't everything but I've not had a good week and the 'some business is better than no business' was tempting. In the end, I'm glad it didn't amount to anything and 1) I will never take a booking from him again and 2) I will not agree to meet anyone who has anyone in the house (kids or otherwise). Anyone who wants an escort in his house with his kids in bed is probably not that nice a guy.

It's difficult sometimes knowing when we are about to cross the line in this job, which is why this forum is a godsend.

Thank you for all your contributions, they are always appreciated even if we have differing opinions.

Stay safe xxx

[Grumpy Cow]

On the one hand, I am sorry to hear that business might be slow right now but I am glad for you that you ended up not being put in that situation.  I am sure most of us had moments when we faced a mountain of bills and then a booking pops up that we would probably dismiss out of hand when money isn?t quite so tight.  At those moments, I think we are at our most vulnerable when we put aside niggles and gut instincts.  Not just for our immediate personal safety but long term emotional health, it?s pretty important to not overstep our own boundaries.     

[Lara69]

Oh no that is an absolute no no for me. Could you imagine if they woke up and came into the bedroom? I am glad on your behalf that he cancelled! I just think that is morally incorrect. You can have fun and adultery is pretty normal these days, but thats too far.

[mimi_]

Oh no that is an absolute no no for me. Could you imagine if they woke up and came into the bedroom? I am glad on your behalf that he cancelled! I just think that is morally incorrect. You can have fun and adultery is pretty normal these days, but thats too far.

I've read this thread with interest and am pleased it's remained as a well balanced debate. Up to this point I had nothing to add; however, I'm wondering why you felt the need to post this almost 48 hours after the thread has finished, posting something about selective morality?! Nice to know that you feel adultery is fine (probably quite a good stance to hold if you are a prostitute!!) 

[MsDee]

I am sorry I am with G C who said earlier on that even though we as WG's are considered lower than low does not mean we have no morals or standards.  i would never in a million years ever consider taking an outcall to someones house with children in it asleep or not.  It is just a big fat no, how would you feel if you had a partner and kids at home only for him to book a prostitute to suck his dick while the children are in the house.  Personally I would kill!

Sometimes if you are prepared to go to such lengths to make money you need to re evaluate your work ethics, whether the door is locked or whether you are having a slow week you just never cross the line.

[Linzi Dawn]

Evening ladies

I was touring in Northampton on Saturday, i was having a lovely day busy, and i was with my friend who I hadnt seen for a while so with the bank holiday also imminent was in a jovial mood until ........

I took a call from a guy called *Joe* asking for an outcall to Rushden (10 mins drive) so as he wasnt an AW member i asked for a deposit which he agreed to so everything seemed hunky dory.     I asked him to send me his address and this is the response I got:

*Linzi, can you please wear the shortest dress possible*
* Are there any services you dont provide?*
*I HAVE MY 3 YEAR OLD SON IN THE HOUSE BUT DONT WORRY HE WILL BE ASLEEP

It has really upset me, I havent said anything before but I need some advice from you girls as it is really playing on my mind.   God knows what was going through his mind.      Do you think he was genuine ?    I ignored him as soon as I received the text and he text again saying *i take that as a no


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[amy]

I've merged this and tidied it up, since it's now part of a general discussion rather than a warning about an individual who poses no apparent threat to any sex worker. It's also worth remembering that any punter could book an outcall with children in the house and not mention it at all either before, during or after (which I think is discussed further up the thread somewhere) rather than making it clear on the phone.

Since upon rereading it appears to be an emotive subject, we'll all remember to keep it civil, too .

[curvywench]

Nowhere in the OP is there any mention of another half, wife, gf, etc
Maybe he was a single dad, looking for a bit of company and not ab, le to get a babysitter, pay for a hotel.
Maybe the poster should have clarified that first, jimho

[Lushblossom]

Personally I would refuse to go through with the encounter.

[BibiofLeeds]

I think he came across in general as abit of a fantacist probably just wanting a reaction.The texts leading up to the comment about having a child with him would have set the red flags going.Asking you to wear a short dress to rock up to an outcall...discrete not!Asking you what you don't do..he would surely know things like that before booking you.He may or may not have been for real and he may or may not have had a child there.Personally I wouldn't have gone either.

[katrina]

Yes maybe he didn't even have a child in the house, could have been just testing your reaction, whatever he sounds a weirdo I wouldn't have gone either.