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storm

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incalls advice for creating a relaxed mood
« on: 01 August 2015, 06:21:35 pm »
for the last 5 years or so, I've been an 'outcall only' escort... economic climate is not good for these anymore (at least for me) and I'm now doing incalls...
I need some help girls,
i'm totally unrelaxed being the 'host' -outcalls I just feel so much more 'in control' of the situation and don't struggle at all breezing into a room and filling the gaps...
incalls I get tense, its so strange I feel this way.
like when I open the door, what do you say to your clients? I try to say, 'make yourself at home' but find the incall clients seem so much more nervous compared to when they are hosting me :(
Is there any little tips you use to get them and the atmosphere nice and relaxed when they come into your space? I don't host from a full living space, so can only can make use of a hotel room with bed/possibly a chair etc
Sorry if its a silly question but it would help me greatly thanks


justsophie

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Re: incalls advice for creating a relaxed mood
« Reply #1 on: 01 August 2015, 07:32:38 pm »
Everyone will be different but I generally welcome them with a big smile and offer them a drink etc. I also have candles lit as I personally love candles and find it helps set the mood. x

Fabulassie

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Re: incalls advice for creating a relaxed mood
« Reply #2 on: 01 August 2015, 08:03:33 pm »
I think on outcalls, it's more common to sit and have a little chat before starting. However, with incalls I think it's somehow easier to just get started with a kiss. If you do kissing, then a good kiss as a greeting tends to get things off to a good start. Loosen their tie while looking into their eyes and kissing them a bit and ask how they're doing and if they would like a shower. If they want a shower, show them to it and before they go in ask if they'd like to sort the paperwork. If they don't want a shower, lead them into the bedroom and ask for the money then help them undress. Basically, just get stuck in right away. From what I've read, guys generally really like that.

avery

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Re: incalls advice for creating a relaxed mood
« Reply #3 on: 01 August 2015, 08:24:11 pm »
I agree with fabulassie. Guys really like it when it's personal and getting the money out of the way is a good start, I always make them shower but I'm the mistress so there is no way for them to refuse.

I always get them a drink (water, soda) and chat while touching them and walking to the shower upstairs. A flow in which they join because I lead the way as if it's the most ordinary thing.
Remember: it's your place, you are in charge. If you feel in control and get your own 'routine', it will be only time to get the flow of hospitality!

Princess

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Re: incalls advice for creating a relaxed mood
« Reply #4 on: 01 August 2015, 09:02:29 pm »
General chit chat, "how has your day been?" & "have you been working today?" those sorts of things, I take my clients straight to the bedroom I don't entertain in my living space, in there I have plenty of room, some where to sit and chat etc.

Shower and paper work out the way, and while they are in the shower I'll go get them a drink, depending on the type of booking I will take off my top layer (dress/dressing gown) and lay on the bed or do some saucy pose for them to walk into. A massage I find is a great way to relax both parties gives you breathing time and both of you a chance to get used to each other.

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Re: incalls advice for creating a relaxed mood
« Reply #5 on: 01 August 2015, 11:04:03 pm »
If you be relaxed it will create a relaxing atmosphere many clients  praise how relaxed they are with me.

storm

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Re: incalls advice for creating a relaxed mood
« Reply #6 on: 03 August 2015, 08:57:57 pm »
thanks so much for your replies ladies :)

Fabulassie

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Re: incalls advice for creating a relaxed mood
« Reply #7 on: 04 August 2015, 12:12:44 am »
Whenever a client shows up and tells me how beautiful I am, I just giggle and say "thank you! You haven't even seen my dick yet!"

Then I go, "I'm just kidding! I don't have a dick.... any more."

That really puts them at ease.

;)