First time for newbies

[Lara69]

I didn't really find a group where you can write about your first experience. So I just though I'd start a new one.

I had my first outcall last week and was very nervous. I had a good read through some of the topic on here and I find them so useful. Especially how to deal with the consideration. I thought it would be uncomfortable to bring up, so I made clear beforehand that I wanted it at the beginning.
It went surprisingly well ( it started very weird though). I was at his house (slightly worried about that) but he hand good taste and it was clean. He was really forceful though. I didn't really know what to expect so I just went with it but what and when is it actually too much? As soon as I entered the front door, he grabbed me and dragged me to his bedroom and it really just went from there. I almost wanted to run off, but then there was something about it that I liked so I decided to stay. Even though the sex was forceful, I kind of got it after a while... it was really just his fantacy and afterwards we spoke for a really long time. Such an interesting character. We was very interested in me and not just the physical part. So sweet even though rough. He payed for my taxi home. (so glad I didnt need to jump on the tube after my slightly weird new experience!!!)

Im sure there are some interesting people out there and I am now curious to meet them.... When will my next encounter be...?

Really interested in your first time experience!!!

 

[Caledonia]

Did you get the money before anything happened?

The moment you feel uncomfortable is when it has went to far, you don't need to do everything the client wants, you can say no.

[Aqua Allegoria]

Your security check?
Did you get the money before he "grabbed" you?
You're saying he was "forceful". Sex was "forceful"?

Well if you liked it then I guess it's ok though he could have just grabbed you, forced you and have you kicked out right after...without actually paying you:((

[Vichyssoise]

I like to hear about others first experience also. Mine was a month or so ago and I had booked a hotel for two days. I had three booked the first day.The first client through the door was a smart business man who had booked two hours. He was smart clean and chatty. He offered the to get the paper work out the way without me having to ask. The sex was ok and we did a lot of chatting but he didn't stay the two hours. Said he had a meeting to go to. Don't know if that was true or if he just wanted to go. The second came through the door like a bull in a china shop, it was during the very warm weather and he was wearing a heavy suit and I think was a little hot. He pushed passed me declaring Christ Carmel it's bloody hot in here, straight to the window to open it, it was already open and there was a fan on in the room. Next he was latched onto my mouth with some force and he was a little forceful but not aggressive. I just responded with like. It was rather good. He then went on to tell me how he had fallen for another WG and the rise and fall of that relationship. Then he spent the rest of the time reciting poetry, very sweet really.  The last guy turned out to be a reg and is role play which was and still is good fun. I spent those two days in a bubble, surreal and other worldly. It was my birthday as well. So my husband and I (he is my security) celebrated in the hotel restaurant with the ill gotten gains. That was a birthday to remember.

[Lara69]

So nice to hear so many responses

Yes, he gave me my donation just as I entered the door. He put it in my bag... and then it went from there.
I know that I could say no, but I think there was a thrill of having a man making the decisions. I guess maybe I was lucky... of course it could have gone wrong and perhaps I am too naive, but it went all well and afterwards it was really nice so I would actually like to see him again. At least now I am prepared.
Also, I dont have a security check.... I have no one to tell where I am... My friends would not approve  of my secret little life.

And Carnal Carmel... Sounds like you had a real good birthday treat! And dont you just agree when someone is a little forceful, you just relax in an odd way and respond with like... TOTALLY AGREE! There are some real gentlemen out there...
What does actually WG men?

[Bluetits]

My 1st outcall experiences were great as I only started off doing outcalls from a well known free site and I didn't even do checks but they went well. My 1st incall was a disaster (that's why I still remember) as he knew I was new and he insisted I used his condom and it broke. I did check it though as I put it on him but a pinprick could've done it or there's a chance I spose it wasn't tampered with. Lesson learned though.

[Caledonia]

So nice to hear so many responses

Yes, he gave me my donation just as I entered the door. He put it in my bag... and tihen it went from there.
I know that I could say no, but I think there was a thrill of having a man making the decisions. I guess maybe I was lucky... of course it could have gone wrong and perhaps I am too naive, but it went all well and afterwards it was really nice so I would actually like to see him again. At least now I am prepared.
Also, I dont have a security check.... I have no one to tell where I am... My friends would not approve  of my secret little life.

And Carnal Carmel... Sounds like you had a real good birthday treat! And dont you just agree when someone is a little forceful, you just relax in an odd way and respond with like... TOTALLY AGREE! There are some real gentlemen out there...
What does actually WG men?

WG just means working girl.

Always count and check the money when the client gives it to you, that way you know before anything has happened if he has short changed you or gave you fake notes.

You might feel it awkward to do this especially in front of the client, but dont be you are running a business.

Also never let clients know where you keep the money, if they do see you putting it somewhere then move it when they are in the bathroom.

[TheLittleMatchGirl]

So nice to hear so many responses

Yes, he gave me my donation just as I entered the door. He put it in my bag... and then it went from there.
I know that I could say no, but I think there was a thrill of having a man making the decisions. I guess maybe I was lucky... of course it could have gone wrong and perhaps I am too naive, but it went all well and afterwards it was really nice so I would actually like to see him again. At least now I am prepared.
Also, I dont have a security check.... I have no one to tell where I am... My friends would not approve  of my secret little life.

And Carnal Carmel... Sounds like you had a real good birthday treat! And dont you just agree when someone is a little forceful, you just relax in an odd way and respond with like... TOTALLY AGREE! There are some real gentlemen out there...
What does actually WG men?

WG working girl

Just something to remember next time, you say he put the money in your back for you, it may seem awkward but always count it out yourself, that's the reason you are there.
Once I had a not horrendous but not great booking, I'd put the money in a different place but for about half an hour thought I'd forgotten to get it, cried my eyes out (Til I found it) it wasn't about the actual money either it was like I'd done all that for nothing, luckily all was fine but I'm just saying you don't want to take any risks with getting ripped off

[TheLittleMatchGirl]

So nice to hear so many responses

Yes, he gave me my donation just as I entered the door. He put it in my bag... and tihen it went from there.
I know that I could say no, but I think there was a thrill of having a man making the decisions. I guess maybe I was lucky... of course it could have gone wrong and perhaps I am too naive, but it went all well and afterwards it was really nice so I would actually like to see him again. At least now I am prepared.
Also, I dont have a security check.... I have no one to tell where I am... My friends would not approve  of my secret little life.

And Carnal Carmel... Sounds like you had a real good birthday treat! And dont you just agree when someone is a little forceful, you just relax in an odd way and respond with like... TOTALLY AGREE! There are some real gentlemen out there...
What does actually WG men?

WG just means working girl.

Always count and check the money when the client gives it to you, that way you know before anything has happened if he has short changed you or gave you fake notes.

You might feel it awkward to do this especially in front of the client, but dont be you are running a business.

Also never let clients know where you keep the money, if they do see you putting it somewhere then move it when they are in the bathroom.

Oops should have read the lot, I've just reiterated your thoughts, but hey ho

[indieandflo]

My fiancee started doing this about 5months ago, her first was with a guy who looked like wormtail from Harry potter and ran off with her money! Then a few hours later she saw a Turkish man who didn't know what a condom was. He also got naked and said "discount?"
Mine was 4 months ago. A guy who looked too much like my uncle came in. Got the money first ( I learnt from Flos mistake!). He STANK of weed and kept spitting on me the whole time. It was disgusting, I had about three showers and a bath after! It was also my first ever time with a man! Not the best of experiences.
Now me and Flo only do it together. The first time we did it together was with a really lovely young guy, he'd never been with two girls before and came within 5 minutes. He'd paid for half an hour so we asked if he wanted a massage or to go again but he got dressed and ran out the door! Very strange.

[TheLittleMatchGirl]

My fiancee started doing this about 5months ago, her first was with a guy who looked like wormtail from Harry potter and ran off with her money! Then a few hours later she saw a Turkish man who didn't know what a condom was. He also got naked and said "discount?"
Mine was 4 months ago. A guy who looked too much like my uncle came in. Got the money first ( I learnt from Flos mistake!). He STANK of weed and kept spitting on me the whole time. It was disgusting, I had about three showers and a bath after! It was also my first ever time with a man! Not the best of experiences.
Now me and Flo only do it together. The first time we did it together was with a really lovely young guy, he'd never been with two girls before and came within 5 minutes. He'd paid for half an hour so we asked if he wanted a massage or to go again but he got dressed and ran out the door! Very strange.

A lot of guys want to get out straight after, can be nerves, guilt etc.
God what an awful first time! It can be hard to be assertive when you start but it's perfectly reasonable to not allow spitting. Lots of guys like it but I've never met one that didn't ask first and then accept a refusal!
It's great you can work together though

[indieandflo]

My fiancee started doing this about 5months ago, her first was with a guy who looked like wormtail from Harry potter and ran off with her money! Then a few hours later she saw a Turkish man who didn't know what a condom was. He also got naked and said "discount?"
Mine was 4 months ago. A guy who looked too much like my uncle came in. Got the money first ( I learnt from Flos mistake!). He STANK of weed and kept spitting on me the whole time. It was disgusting, I had about three showers and a bath after! It was also my first ever time with a man! Not the best of experiences.
Now me and Flo only do it together. The first time we did it together was with a really lovely young guy, he'd never been with two girls before and came within 5 minutes. He'd paid for half an hour so we asked if he wanted a massage or to go again but he got dressed and ran out the door! Very strange.

A lot of guys want to get out straight after, can be nerves, guilt etc.
God what an awful first time! It can be hard to be assertive when you start but it's perfectly reasonable to not allow spitting. Lots of guys like it but I've never met one that didn't ask first and then accept a refusal!
It's great you can work together though

It was awful! I practically burnt my skin in the shower trying to get it all off. Spit is one thing I've never been able to deal with. Makes me feel very ill. Now im more experienced I'd have no problem saying no, but as a newbie I didn't want him to get mad and take his money back.
It is really nice working together as we look out of each other

[TheLittleMatchGirl]

My fiancee started doing this about 5months ago, her first was with a guy who looked like wormtail from Harry potter and ran off with her money! Then a few hours later she saw a Turkish man who didn't know what a condom was. He also got naked and said "discount?"
Mine was 4 months ago. A guy who looked too much like my uncle came in. Got the money first ( I learnt from Flos mistake!). He STANK of weed and kept spitting on me the whole time. It was disgusting, I had about three showers and a bath after! It was also my first ever time with a man! Not the best of experiences.
Now me and Flo only do it together. The first time we did it together was with a really lovely young guy, he'd never been with two girls before and came within 5 minutes. He'd paid for half an hour so we asked if he wanted a massage or to go again but he got dressed and ran out the door! Very strange.

A lot of guys want to get out straight after, can be nerves, guilt etc.
God what an awful first time! It can be hard to be assertive when you start but it's perfectly reasonable to not allow spitting. Lots of guys like it but I've never met one that didn't ask first and then accept a refusal!
It's great you can work together though

It was awful! I practically burnt my skin in the shower trying to get it all off. Spit is one thing I've never been able to deal with. Makes me feel very ill. Now im more experienced I'd have no problem saying no, but as a newbie I didn't want him to get mad and take his money back.
It is really nice working together as we look out of each other

That's good that you've got the confidence now.
So do you only do duos or work separately same time?

[indieandflo]

My fiancee started doing this about 5months ago, her first was with a guy who looked like wormtail from Harry potter and ran off with her money! Then a few hours later she saw a Turkish man who didn't know what a condom was. He also got naked and said "discount?"
Mine was 4 months ago. A guy who looked too much like my uncle came in. Got the money first ( I learnt from Flos mistake!). He STANK of weed and kept spitting on me the whole time. It was disgusting, I had about three showers and a bath after! It was also my first ever time with a man! Not the best of experiences.
Now me and Flo only do it together. The first time we did it together was with a really lovely young guy, he'd never been with two girls before and came within 5 minutes. He'd paid for half an hour so we asked if he wanted a massage or to go again but he got dressed and ran out the door! Very strange.

A lot of guys want to get out straight after, can be nerves, guilt etc.
God what an awful first time! It can be hard to be assertive when you start but it's perfectly reasonable to not allow spitting. Lots of guys like it but I've never met one that didn't ask first and then accept a refusal!
It's great you can work together though

It was awful! I practically burnt my skin in the shower trying to get it all off. Spit is one thing I've never been able to deal with. Makes me feel very ill. Now im more experienced I'd have no problem saying no, but as a newbie I didn't want him to get mad and take his money back.
It is really nice working together as we look out of each other

That's good that you've got the confidence now.
So do you only do duos or work separately same time?

We only do duos. Occasionally have some men who think they are clever saying "I just want to see one of you, can i have a discount? I saw one of you last week." not realising that we are an actual couple who live together and would know if one of us saw someone individually.

[Lara69]

Yes some people just constantly try to get around you and ask for discounts for the oddest reasons.
Its nice to see how you can do this together as a couple though, and maybe especially because you are a couple and not just any duo, it might be a better experience for the client because you are so comfortable with each other.

About the spitting: definitely tell if its something you dislike! You might be an escort but that doesnt mean you sign up to everything and anything can be done to you. Have your limits and boundaries and stick to them.

I had my first time around two weeks ago and I have met few people recently, and it is incredible how fast you learn from your mistakes. As much as you can read about it, some things just need to be experiences. 3 in 5 clients I saw asked to do bareback and offered some extra money. But If they ask so bluntly and persuade me to do it, they must surely be doing it with plenty other girls and that just screams STD to me. And quickly those extra notes he would offer arent so attractive after all. Im glad I never let them!