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Trish

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Hello,

Apologies if this has been covered before, but I am new here.

I've been working with a local agency for a few days, and it's going pretty well for me.

As with any agency I guess, I can expect any number of bookings in a row before the office closes for the night, and have wondered if anybody knows what a lot of clients might expect from me in terms of cumming for them? I can't fake it like a cisgendered lady after all :)

Every guy basically wants me to cum for them, and this is obviously completely unrealistic if I've got another booking immediately afterward. As it goes, I've just been kind of saying "Oh, sometimes it just won't do it..." kind of jokey excuses, but I've also started using Viagra now to help me through some of the less... attractive... bookings.

Last night a client said he'd love to see me cum but then asked "But is that okay with your agency?" like it was common practice for escorts to 'not be allowed' to cum, almost? So could I go along that thread - just be honest and say I need to stay horny?

I'm just trying to be as polite as possible to these clients, and find my boundaries. Any advice or experience would be really appreciated.

Trish
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Hey Trish, depending on how long the booking is I would try and distract the clients attention away from this onto other things. You can say 'it's very hard work to make me come, first of all you have to suck me, then you have to fuck me in this, this and this position' after sufficient time has passed you can say, 'please cum, it will turn me on so much!' hopefully by this time sufficient time has passed and it will be nearly the end of the booking anyway. By the end of the booking say 'I'm saving it for next time'   :) Good luck hun. xx

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Step one, know your personal limit in any given period. Ideally, it's not 'one' and that's it for the night.

If they want you to come in their mouth, there's not much that you can do to fake it. If not, get some Liquid Silk and conceal some in your hand or somewhere else, to appear at the right moment.

You also need to watch the 'off duty' ejaculations if they are going to interfere with the number of 'on duty' ones.
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Hi Trish, Welcome to SAAFE :-) I'm a male escort so I can empathise. I usually cum for clients if they ask me to but not every client asks and I only see one or two clients a day. Three or 4 is a very busy day for me. When I do have another booking soon after and my client wants me to cum, I sometimes fake being close to orgasm which is often enough to get my client to cum and then once he's cum most guys lose interest completely in whether I cum or not. At that point I say "sorry it felt like I was close but actually it might take a while ( and/or "I have another client coming soon") so do you mind if I don't cum?" and 99% of the time they'll say no problem. I've never tried xw5's trick with the liquid silk but I can see how it would work. I can't see why an agency would care whether you cum or not.. I've heard of some tgirls and male escorts charging extra to cum so maybe he was trying to indirectly ask if he'd have to pay extra. I wouldn't recommend charging extra by the way. Obviously you're in this business more for money than pleasure but clients need to be able to suspend their disbelief to some extent. I think charging for this would be rubbing their noses in it (so to speak).

Trish

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Thanks for all the suggestions and insights everyone.

The Liquid Silk idea is a very interesting one, but I just know he'd want to taste it, knowing my luck! I think I'll largely learn to change the subject and keep as I am without even trying to cum. It's pretty hard to do at the best of times, and I really would hate to be heading to the next booking with nothing to give for the next hour or so  :-[

And don't worry Aussie - I would never lay extra charges on a client for any kind of 'extras'. The agency would be really upset, and I think adding stealth charges on any service just sucks for anybody.

P.S. I love this forum!  ;D


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Are you a transvestite or a transsexual woman? If the latter then you can just say that you are
on hormones and this interferes with ejaculation & orgasms. Say that you: "might be able to,
you might not, no promises, but I'm sure that you, Mr client will have a super-spurty one for me!"

Finally whether you are a Tv or Ts, remember, once the client has cum, they really won't care if you do or don't.  ;)
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