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lexienight

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« on: 04 December 2008, 12:27:50 am »
Hi all

I am about to start taking incalls soon but had a thought.  At the moment most of my bookings are in hotels so i always know who im visiting because i call the hotel and ask for him by name to be put through to his room.  All of the house calls i have done have always checked out ok aswell when i have searched on 192 and i have a knack for hunting out envelopes left in view so im pretty confident I havent had anyone lie to me so far about their details.

Thas surely has to be different if you do incalls?  They could give you any name they liked or could even refuse to give a surname if they were worried about discretion.

So, what do you do with your incall procedures that is different from outcalls?  I obviously still want to know as much as possible about the person coming to my home but i dont see how to do it really.

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Re: Incall checks
« Reply #1 on: 04 December 2008, 07:58:03 am »

I obviously still want to know as much as possible about the person coming to my home but i dont see how to do it really.


I can understand that, but I have never found it a problem, some i have been seeing years and still havent got past the first name, and many guys will prefer to visit so they dont have to give any details out.

just remeber when they first come through the door to excuse the smell of the rotting corpse from the last none payer and drop it in conversation about how after the incident with the baseball bat when somebody got fresh, you have never seen a guys arse bleed so much  ;D

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Re: Incall checks
« Reply #2 on: 04 December 2008, 08:06:35 am »
You're right, outcalls are probably safer what with all the checks. When I do incalls I get some guys booking one week under one name, and the next week under something completely different! (Don't think it's anything sinister, think they're just doing it for their anonymity- but it sure as hell confuses me!!!)

You could try getting someone to work with you, especcailly if you have 2 bedrooms (although I think unfortunately that's still illegal, even if you are not with a client at the same time, or even the same day- it's a shame because legalising 2 or 3 girls working together would be so much safer. It's up to you whether you take that chance, but lots of people have flatmates and if you're discreet no one is likely to notice, but there would be double the 'traffic' to your door!)

You could try getting a friend or hired help to sit in with you, which is legal i think as long as they're not controlling you or working themselves (I sometimes pay a guy a cut of the booking to sit in with me) - obviously not in the same room  :)I find it best if the client doesn't know there's another man there though- it makes them nervous and ruins the 'Girlfriend-experience' . Some people may disagree though. Clients are usually ok at outcalls when they know your driver is parked only one street away.

You could always perform the same landline number/ID checks we do for outcalls. I've never heard of these being done for incalls though, but maybe someone else has?

Sorry I can't be of that much help, and I'm not a lawyer, so I'd double check the legal stuff (it's correct to the best of my knowledge though)

Also, I tell the clients to call me when they get to a familiar landmark 5 mins from my incall flat, and only then do i tell them the full address. I make sure I tell them on the phone, NOT in a text message, because they are less likely to remember a conversation whilst possibly nervous, but they could read an old text message on a drunken night out and think it's a good idea to show up at the door  :o

Don't let the neighbours know about your private details (eg name, 'real' job or place of study). Use your escort name and a believable work-from-home job (think this is on another thread) in case they say hello in front of clients or if you are found out and have to move to another lease.

Good Luck x
Anna xx

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Re: Incall checks
« Reply #3 on: 04 December 2008, 11:49:26 am »
I obviously still want to know as much as possible about the person coming to my home but i dont see how to do it really.


I have never asked for more than a first name for incalls, and I don't really care whether it's a real one or not - as far as I'm concerned the ID checks for outcalls do no more than ensure that the client is actually where he says he is and not just pissing you about. If you are not comfortable with letting strangers into your home then you shouldn't be doing it, whether you have their full name, address, mother's maiden name and inside leg measurement - I agree that one of the reasons incalls are popular is because they are more anonymous. I never give my address out until the client has arrived and is in the nearby car park - when they can describe where they are I talk them to the door; they don't know which flat they are going to until they are in the building with me, which takes away the opportunity to pass anything on to people outside.

I use msn and texts just as I would on outcalls, so that someone not far away always knows when a client is here and when they are due to leave; I used to work from a flat with another local lady but am far happier at home - you can stash mobiles (on silent) around the place (in the bathroom say, where there is a lock on the door) and just make sure that you don't leave personal stuff lying about. I don't take bookings from new people late at night either, but that's more down to personal preference - I get more than enough work during office hours.

lexienight

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Re: Incall checks
« Reply #4 on: 04 December 2008, 12:39:19 pm »
thanks everyone.  Im sure i was just as nervous when i started doing hotel outcalls and again with home outcalls... after my first couple of incalls i know im going to prefer it and the extra income it will provide. 

I didnt think there was much i could do about getting info on people but thought id better check before making some monumental and dead obvious mistake lol

Thanks again. xx

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Re: Incall checks
« Reply #5 on: 04 December 2008, 02:52:32 pm »
Yes, all of the above is good advice. I don't actually do many outcalls - usually because I haven't been given enough notice, am fully booked already or the guy doesn't want to pay my rate to go to the other side of the county (it can take almost two hours to get to some places up here and I do expect a little extra for that if it's a short booking).

I have to admit I have gone to some outcalls this year where they didn't have a landline and had only just moved into the house. These days a lot of folk, especially if they are renting don't bother getting a landline set up and in two of my cases they had found me online before moving. Yes, I was a little wary but they pleaded they were genuine and indeed they were. So not sure if this landline situation is going to change as folk can get mobile broadband and don't need a line to get online anymore.

Regards incalls, watch out for payphone, you can always Google a landline then the search engine throws up a site listing all payphones in the country if it is. Security aside, in my experience bookings from payphones don't turn up, and if they did how are they going to get directions? Ok, another payphone - but then it's too much faffing if they can't find one, there is a mix up with directions etc, or something goes wrong as they are about to arrive etc. As well as the security aspect - it's very much like withheld numbers really.

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Re: Incall checks
« Reply #6 on: 04 December 2008, 05:57:25 pm »
For those who set up in-call days in hotels, have you ever used the same hotel over a period of 2-3 days, or would you recommend switching hotels daily? I live in a major city so I'd be choosing busy downtown hotels,but I'm still a bit paranoid.  When I do outcalls, I feel as though there's a red light blinkering on my forehead when I walk through the lobby an hour after I've gone up.  No one has ever said anything except the concierge wishing me 'good evening' (in what I swear was a lascivious tone!  :o JOKE)


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Re: Incall checks
« Reply #7 on: 04 December 2008, 06:13:14 pm »
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