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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by fallen angel on Today at 04:36:07 pm »
Lazy fuckwits is my guess. I have the same problem, constantly.
Definitely lazy fuckwits.
I have it in capitals across the top of my profile that I am indeed available today and todays date. Just underneath is the timeframe within which I am working and the first text this morning was
"Are you free today"    :FF

I do sometimes wonder if their wording is hoping to catch me out and if I reply yes they will then turn up with no money and argue that I said I was free today.
But that might just be my suspicious nature   ;D
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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by KirstyKiss on Today at 03:04:54 pm »
I'm having a busy few days, but God it's painful.
 
I've been asked my location three times this morning and whether I'm working today twice, all from AW users (they always say 'profile' rather than 'site' or 'ad'). My location is on the top line in bold capital letters, I have the available today on and my working hours/days are on a tab that says 'Incall Hours'.

I don't know how much of it is down to them being forced onto the shitty new site which is apparently impossible to find any information on, and how much is them just being lazy fuckwits who can't be bothered to look.

Lazy fuckwits is my guess. I have the same problem, constantly.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Deposits.
« Last Post by KirstyKiss on Today at 03:02:54 pm »
Cos they are wankers 😂

I’ve known  it to happen to quite a few ladies in the last year but only one who had the CIFA issue but I only know about that because she is a good friend and told me so others might have the same problem but don’t know about it
 
Even if she manages to get it sorted it can stay on her record as a min of 13 months
If she can’t manage to get it sorted then around 6 years
So it screws up your credit file for that amount of time

If it was me then I would get punters  to transfer small amounts like 20 -30 and say that’s for dinner / petrol / food in the payment bit of the transfer

And then when they send you a text for the deposit just for them to say hi sent you the deposit as then you can match it with the time / day what they have sent you

The  lady who had her business account ( tide ) shut said the client was refunded back his a£100 deposit and tide wouldn’t even go into any real discussion about it with her
Luckily her Lloyd’s account she managed to keep open as she could prove to them he sent it and she transferred it over

Your advice is sound but this just awful for anyone to go through so I am no longer taking deposits or payments by bank transfer.

I was debanked by NatWest last year so don’t need any more hassle in the banking department.

I’ll be confirming with every client that it it cash only from now on. I would rather lose the odd booking than these horrors happening.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Deposits.
« Last Post by Lara123 on Today at 02:50:01 pm »
Are these AW clients?

Just a quick heads up
2 ladies that I know well have had bank accounts closed due to punters saying the deposit is fraud

Both had taken a deposit in one account
Transfered it to another account  and both accounts were frozen

In one case the lady got her personal account back up ( Lloyd ) when she proved the transactions using text messages but  had her business account closed

In the other lady’s account both accounts were frozen/ closed and when she tried to open another account they were all refused and she has a CifAs marker on her credit file

I would personally say if you transfer deposit money from one account to another then you need to get that out in cash in case your account is closed

In the last week I know of 3 ladies who have had similar problems with accounts being closed due to punters saying fraud / requesting a charge back
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Questions and Answers / Re: How often do you change professional pics?
« Last Post by RB1 on Today at 02:16:08 pm »
I’ had 3 semi pro shoots last year with ladies who are escorts / photographers so the rates were not that expensive

I’ve had one done in Feb and I have another in June but I’ve saved my February ones and will use them later in the year as Im making changes to my profile in the summer
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Questions and Answers / Re: Deposits.
« Last Post by RB1 on Today at 02:14:16 pm »
I’ve just started accepting deposits/bank transfers and would immediately transfer it out to my personal account thinking it’ll counter any chargeback issues, so this is great information, thank you.
I’ll never understand why they go through the trouble of reporting a little deposit when they’ve paid most of it in cash😠

Cos they are wankers 😂

I’ve known  it to happen to quite a few ladies in the last year but only one who had the CIFA issue but I only know about that because she is a good friend and told me so others might have the same problem but don’t know about it
 
Even if she manages to get it sorted it can stay on her record as a min of 13 months
If she can’t manage to get it sorted then around 6 years
So it screws up your credit file for that amount of time

If it was me then I would get punters  to transfer small amounts like 20 -30 and say that’s for dinner / petrol / food in the payment bit of the transfer

And then when they send you a text for the deposit just for them to say hi sent you the deposit as then you can match it with the time / day what they have sent you

The  lady who had her business account ( tide ) shut said the client was refunded back his a£100 deposit and tide wouldn’t even go into any real discussion about it with her
Luckily her Lloyd’s account she managed to keep open as she could prove to them he sent it and she transferred it over

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If you use professional photography, how often do you update them?
I got mine done end of February and I already want to change them. It can be costly, so I’m wondering how often you would change them? I like to change my hair a lot - I have red hair now but I want to go to brunette… I guess I can update my selfies instead of going full whack with new pics which I will pay 1k for. I’m with agencies so it’s kind of a mandatory requirement.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Deposits.
« Last Post by DimePiece on Today at 01:42:05 pm »
I’ve just started accepting deposits/bank transfers and would immediately transfer it out to my personal account thinking it’ll counter any chargeback issues, so this is great information, thank you.
I’ll never understand why they go through the trouble of reporting a little deposit when they’ve paid most of it in cash😠
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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by amy on Today at 01:31:38 pm »
I'm having a busy few days, but God it's painful.
 
I've been asked my location three times this morning and whether I'm working today twice, all from AW users (they always say 'profile' rather than 'site' or 'ad'). My location is on the top line in bold capital letters, I have the available today on and my working hours/days are on a tab that says 'Incall Hours'.

I don't know how much of it is down to them being forced onto the shitty new site which is apparently impossible to find any information on, and how much is them just being lazy fuckwits who can't be bothered to look.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by Miss star on Today at 12:44:02 pm »
I just got back from my two day tour and seen 4 people waste of time!
Work is so unpredictable right now I’m hoping next month will pick up
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