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lilalicia

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Outcall: client won't give real name
« on: 04 May 2015, 09:45:19 am »
Hello!

Had a client book an outcall to his house for today. Today we're texting and I ask for his full real name and he refuses to give it.

I'm sure I'm doing the right thing by not going right? He was like oh I promise it's safe. How do I know that buddy?? He has good feedback on AdultWork but I just don't feel happy going  :(
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Fabulassie

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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #1 on: 04 May 2015, 09:52:02 am »
Quote from: lilalicia on 04 May 2015, 09:45:19 am
Hello!

Had a client book an outcall to his house for today. Today we're texting and I ask for his full real name and he refuses to give it.

I'm sure I'm doing the right thing by not going right? He was like oh I promise it's safe. How do I know that buddy?? He has good feedback on AdultWork but I just don't feel happy going  :(

Of course you're right. Many women won't go on any outcalls without verifying that the person they are talking to is actually at that address.
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Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #2 on: 04 May 2015, 11:03:46 am »
As he won't give out details for you to do security checks then I would tell him I wasn't offering him an outcall unless he furnishes me with full details.

Your safety is paramount. Feedback can be manufactured.  No details = no go.

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lilalicia

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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #3 on: 04 May 2015, 12:38:49 pm »
Thank you both, I know I need to trust my instincts and not listen to pushy clients
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Midsstudent

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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #4 on: 04 May 2015, 12:42:48 pm »
A client saying 'you're safe' or 'you can trust me' seems completely ludicrous to me... they would say that if they weren't! The word of a stranger means nothing.

Outcalls to peoples homes are risky enough as it is. Being unable to verify he actually lives there and so you can let your buddy have his details is imperative.
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lisa-lee

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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #5 on: 04 May 2015, 04:30:04 pm »
only go if he has feedback and i ask for landline number
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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #6 on: 04 May 2015, 05:56:05 pm »
You need proof he is at the address. Even giving a full name doesn't provide that unless it's coupled with a landline you can find in directory and speak to him on, or copy of household bill.

Some Escorts will go to outcalls with nothing more than a call or text from a mobile phone, but they are then much more vulnerable to having their time wasted and also put themselves in greater danger.

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Sassy Slapper

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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #7 on: 06 May 2015, 08:03:05 am »
Sign up to 192.com, its invaluable for outcalls to peoples homes as it lets you know if that person is registered at that address and also links to anyone else living at that address so you can see if for e.g. its a shared house with a different bloke renting a different bedroom etc which I would  never go too. "they will stay in their rooms honest" doest wash with me security wise.

I wouldnt go to a hotel booking if the guy refused to give me the name he booked the hotel room under so no, absolutely not, do not go to an address if the guy is being shifty about his identity. If he can't trust you with his name why should you trust him with your body and your life.
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bigbird

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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #8 on: 18 May 2015, 11:45:48 pm »
Hi,
With the 192 site are the free results enough or is it better to buy credits to get more details etc..?
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S2S

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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #9 on: 19 May 2015, 10:22:32 am »
More and more business men seem to be using Airbnb. What will we do for pre-booking security measures in these cases?
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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #10 on: 22 May 2015, 02:30:45 pm »
Quote from: S2S on 19 May 2015, 10:22:32 am
More and more business men seem to be using Airbnb. What will we do for pre-booking security measures in these cases?

This is a very good point. I have had similar things and turned it down because they couldn't prove address with a utility bill/landline.

Hmmm....  ???
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Midsstudent

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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #11 on: 22 May 2015, 04:07:24 pm »
Deposit is the only method in that instance.
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Astra

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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #12 on: 24 May 2015, 09:16:58 am »
I've had some clients tell me that they no longer have a landline, which makes verification even harder. 
For safety's sake, I tell all clients that their details such as address, alias etc. will be left with my "buddy" and within the first 10 minutes of arriving I make a call, (usually to my buddy if she's available, but sometimes to my landline).  I just say that I've arrived safely and all seems ok and that I will call again in xx amount of time - (depends on length of booking).
So far, all clients have been ok with this, they understand that a person can't be too careful.
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Phoenix

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Re: Outcall: client won't give real name
« Reply #13 on: 26 May 2015, 12:48:09 am »
Yes. I advise STRONGLY to turn away anyone who won't supply EITHER :  1. landline with full name
2. Drivers' Licence/utility bill photo ID 3: Amazon/phone voucher deposit or Online banking payment.

In the event of anything bad happening, even a shop-bought mobile phone voucher may leave a CCTV trace of the purchaser and the rest leave a solid Electronic trace.
Not foolproof, but it helps a lot.

I refuse roughly 5-7 bookings per week because they are not willing to provide any of the above - and I'm Outcall only/daytime preferred..but I won't budge. It's common courtesy if nowt' else  :-\
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