Bareback for ?50?

[Kitty_of_Herts]

Im on the pill but if i do get pregnant i'll have a nice percentage amount of his income from the CSA, thats the main reason i only do BB with a wealthy client. Ive thought everything through and through i plan things so i'll never worry financially in my life.

I wouldn't rely on that as a fall back plan TBH. Anything can go wrong.
  You say the clients wife knows about you and doesn't mind, but what if you get pregnant by him? She might mind and would probably do all she could to make sure you don't get a penny.
 
Plus what Loulou37 said above.

  Either way be safe 

Am I the only one here who finds this quite morally reprehensible?? Imagine telling your future child, "Mummy has you while she was a prostitute so she could get wealthy off of a very rich client. Wasn't mummy clever!" Good future parenting skills, yo!

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[River]

Am I the only one here who finds this quite morally reprehensible?? Imagine telling your future child, "Mummy has you while she was a prostitute so she could get wealthy off of a very rich client. Wasn't mummy clever!" Good future parenting skills, yo!
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The only one to say it.
But not the only one to think it. 

[AngelEyes]

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Id never do BB with any random client, its way too risky, it only takes one of those girls on AW in London who are from Europe to catch HIV/syphilis, a client catches it then gives it to me. So no way am i offering BB on a wim like some girls are on AW, ive already been there done that in my personal life before escorting, now i pretty much never sleep with anyone other than clients. I can tolerate being called the towns bike (if word got out) but not called the local sperm bank.

Sorry to disillusion you but hiv is not limited to one of those girls in Europe as you put it. Hiv and other stis/ stds do not discriminate with regards to age, sex, gender,race and  are worldwide. The person in front of you at the supermarket checkout could have it and would wouldn't even know.

You never sleep much with anyone except client??? No me neither  but what that has to do with stis/ stds I have no idea. Also, you say you do not offer BB on a whim. It only takes the once  to catch something / get pregnant.

You could be the most moralistic perosn on this earth and then go and do something a bit odd /out of character and have aone night unrpotected one night stand. Just that one encounter would be enough to catch something.

At the end of the day it is your body and your life. I'm just saying.....

Am I the only one here who finds this quite morally reprehensible?? Imagine telling your future child, "Mummy has you while she was a prostitute so she could get wealthy off of a very rich client. Wasn't mummy clever!" Good future parenting skills, yo!
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The only one to say it.
But not the only one to think it.  

 







No, Kitty you are not but you are the only one who has been brave enough to voice its Jodie has said. Hmmm, well imo  what you have said lou shows a high disregard for oneself /lack of self respect and value. Which if you ask me is very very sad. There are risks and there are risks.    Okay, if you think those  risks  are worth it.

But if you did get pregnant or catch something then how would you work?

There is no guarantee that you would even get CSA  for that matter . Oh and just for the record should you catch something and be thinking your wealthy client will compensate you that would only be so if he knowingly knew he had something and deliberately did not tell you.


For me personally I like my job and would not wish to take such risks for the sake of some hypothetical payout fee.  As the song says..... It's your life...............

[JennyJazz87]

The other day a guy offered me an extra ?80 for bareback even though I specifically say I don't offer it under any circumstances. 

I guess they just feel the need to try anyway.

[Your Tera]

punter asks, "I will pay you extra for bareback."

I respond, "Okay. That will be ?300,000,000,000 cash, verifiable notes, thanks."

[JennyJazz87]

punter asks, "I will pay you extra for bareback."

I respond, "Okay. That will be ?300,000,000,000 cash, verifiable notes, thanks."

   Yep, sounds like a good response!

[LizzieNewcastle]

No offence to anyone who offers/ever done BB but it literally turns my stomach. There seems to be loads of reverse bookings on AW asking for BB and there seems to be loads of bids on them.

Yuk!!

It cant feel THAT different that your willing to risk, infections, diseases, pregnancy..... it baffles me. baffles

xx

[ladyjennaj]

It is just wrong on alot of levels. I pride myself on personal hygiene, and I don't fancy a death sentence any time soon  The girls who are offering it are very foolish.

[ParisB]

Im on the pill but if i do get pregnant i'll have a nice percentage amount of his income from the CSA, thats the main reason i only do BB with a wealthy client. Ive thought everything through and through i plan things so i'll never worry financially in my life

  This  has to be the most insane and stupidest thing i heard in a long time  i honestly thought that i had heard it all but obviously not.    Not even the bareback bit which i guess is each to it own but having a child simply because the father is wealthy    Wealth is subjective just cos he can down a couple of grand a month on you now dont mean to say he is gonna do it for a kid he probably dont want  
 i mean lets face it at the moment he gets something he wants for is 2grand  bare back sex    When your pregnant feeling sick and fat and cant stomach the thought of a cock stuffed down your throat how willing is he gonna be to depart  with his money then    
i would imagine that the moment you told him he would be on the phone to his accountant to hide his assesst and sundenly become self employed on min wage
  
just as a point  my sons father and his family are  incredibly  wealthy both money and assests wise   (his  family privatly own a well known hotel chain -  but  no free holiday for me sadly as we dont get on  )
  
  however to avoid paying csa payments he went simply self employed in his family business  as i woudlnt agree to certain access arrangements.  i would have been getting probably 1500 -2000 a month of him if he hadnt done that  but he was able to be made redudant  and then employed 2 weeks later as self employed earning f...all
      In my experience those that are wealthy tend to be incredibly tight with there money when being ordered to spend or give it by other people    
     if your seriously thinking that mr bareback punter is going to pay for  a kid that he has by a prostitute and you dont think his wife is going to have much to say about it then good luck to you  
   His wife while  may tolerate him sleeping with a prositute  but personally i dont think she would  be very tolerating of him having bareback sex   (and then returning and having sex with her ) and having a kid with said prostitute    
    When her home and lifestyle and her childrens inheritance  becomes affected  by the possibilty of another child   i would imagine that you and kid would be kicked to the kerbside pretty quick  ( unless of course its true love) and he leaves said wife to come and live with you)  and unless she is a total mug she would do everthing within her power to prevent you getting a penny of money from her husband

  However just so that you know so that you can plan for said sprog should it happen   any new case that that csa take on are  voluntary.  ie your not forced to apply for maintance.   You have to pay  them to 0pen the case for you to collect the money and also a admin fee each month as well   its a set amount of i think 12   of gross wages which isnt a lot  what that 12 pounds  in every hudred quid  

Also csa is based on his wages alone     So he may assest rich and cash poor ,  have you read his bank statements, see his wage slips,  do you actually really truly know everything about him and his potential wage  he may  have loads of property worth zillions but  thats might be in his wifes name  and not  his   This is very very common with weathLy people who run there own businesss as if they go bankrupt they dont loose the house      and to avoid csa payments he can put the business in his wifes name and just be an employee on 100 a week  and pay  you a fiver a week if your lucky  

  if your not married and hes not on the birth certificate then you would have have to apply for maintanance and  probably pay for a DNA  test  if he refuses to pay
  and as the csa will be voluntary and payment that mother gets is  not taken off them to offset any income support benefit  anymore  there is no benefit to the csa demanding paternity test  and the DNA  can only be done by certain companies  and you have to get him there to do it
 
anyone know if the  new version  csa  force the father anymore to have a dna  test  as they could do  in the past if he refused a dna test  parentage was  assumed  as it voluntary now i dont know where it would stand

Either way what on earth happend to having a child for love,  because you love your partner and want to have a part of them.   When you dont get the molahh from said client for said baby  who know how you will feel  resentfull of the child for fucking up  your life  .......      

fuck i put more thought into the possibility of breeding from my dogs than it appears you have to having a kid by a client just because he has money  

[Meg_Foster]

I empathize.

I do the same thing, but he doesn't come inside of me.

It's, yes I know it's incredibly stupid.

I also know he'd never cheated on his wife prior to seeing me, and he's too...I don't think he's the lying type.

And the whole 'well, he's married, so he'd have to be thoughtful about not giving HIV to his wife, right? Right?'...anyways, it offers a sort of protective cloak.

I also don't have much sex outside of this. And I like the feeling of condom-less sex.

So anyways, I empathize.

I know all that and was expeting those exact type of responses.
We are totally honest and open with each other about literally everything, i can tell he tells me the truth. Ive seen it in his eyes and the way he says it that he is far too scared to do it with anyone else. He only sleeps me and his wife who only wants sex every so many weeks which is why he comes to me as i make him feel young again and no one else will do BB, he looks ok for his age he's 52 and visits me every few days and an overnight every month. Apparantly she knows about me and doesnt mind, she handles all their finances so she knows whats going on except about the BB part.

My hourly rate is ?150, he gives me ?300, or ?1000 for an overnight, on average i make probably ?2.5k per month from him alone, financially i dont need to see any other clients or dance as a stripper but i do anyway as i love flirting, lots of sex and money.

I can usually tell when he's slept with his wife as he doesnt visit me for nearly 2 weeks, he just cant physically manage more sex to be seeing any other women.

Im on the pill but if i do get pregnant i'll have a nice percentage amount of his income from the CSA, thats the main reason i only do BB with a wealthy client. Ive thought everything through and through i plan things so i'll never worry financially in my life.

[ParisB]

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[Cat_BBW]

I empathize.

I do the same thing, but he doesn't come inside of me.

It's, yes I know it's incredibly stupid.

I also know he'd never cheated on his wife prior to seeing me, and he's too...I don't think he's the lying type.

And the whole 'well, he's married, so he'd have to be thoughtful about not giving HIV to his wife, right? Right?'...anyways, it offers a sort of protective cloak.

I also don't have much sex outside of this. And I like the feeling of condom-less sex.

So anyways, I empathize.

Me too. But I like the feeling of being alive and well even more.

[ParisB]

  Is this a wind up  -  oh please  where is Jeremy kyle when you bloody need him      ....    of course he is the lying type,  he is lying to his wife,  to his family, his kids,      in fact every time he come along and f....you he is lying  Unless of course his wife knows and his happy for him to get sexsomewhere else and as long as she is aware that its unprotected sex then she has a choice  but as she dosnt then im sorry its disgusting  that  he can do that to his wife  
    
  The fact that he is married and so he would be worried about giving hiv  to his wife,  but excuse me did you not ever have sex education,  
 i have to ask  but do you not read  anything  HIV would probably be the last thing i would be worried about catching,  what about  herpes gonahreah  syphillis clamidya  thrush  ect all of this is probably a lot more higher than bare back sex    do you think that because he dosnt cum inside you your imune  to catching anything  this is what i would expect to hear from kids in the school playgrounds   i cant get pregant/ catch anything cos he didnt cum inside

   You on the otherhand  you have a choice to sleep with him unprotected so that up to you and im not judging you in any way   but him im sorry he  is a piece of shit and if he gets something nasty and his dick drops off then all the better for mankind  
      
and of course you  know  he  hasnt cheated on his wife before,   how would you  because he told you so .... but hes a liar becuase he is f..... you without a condom and his wife dont know so that makes him  a liar and someone not to trust  and so the circle goes on and on and on

to be honest  its not actually the bare back sex bit that get me wound up when i read these threads.  its the bloody stupididty of women  beliving what the punters have told you   i dont sleep with my wife,  she knows about us,  ive never cheated before in my life untill i met you ,  pleeeeeeeeas wake up and smell the coffee
 If he can f..... you without a condom then i  would bet that he is f...... others women  as well other escorts along with his wife and you without a condom    he probalby has a women in every state just a willing and stupid to belive his bullshit

Guys  that will sleep with another women  and not just a prostitute   without using a condom and they are married or in a long term relationship in my opinion are scum,   not becuase they are sleeping with you without a condom becuase that down to them  but because there poor wife or partner has no f......ing choice in wether or not she wants to catch somthing nasty from her husbands  wandering condomless dick  . What would happen if she was pregnant  im sure some std can affect the unborn child
I Sincerely hope that you are getting some serious wad of dosh out of this guy  not because of the bareback sex in the slightest  but because he is an asshole and deserve to get fleeced for the lies he tells his wife

I empathize.

I do the same thing, but he doesn't come inside of me.

It's, yes I know it's incredibly stupid.

I also know he'd never cheated on his wife prior to seeing me, and he's too...I don't think he's the lying type.

And the whole 'well, he's married, so he'd have to be thoughtful about not giving HIV to his wife, right? Right?'...anyways, it offers a sort of protective cloak.

I also don't have much sex outside of this. And I like the feeling of condom-less sex.

So anyways, I empathize.

I know all that and was expeting those exact type of responses.
We are totally honest and open with each other about literally everything, i can tell he tells me the truth. Ive seen it in his eyes and the way he says it that he is far too scared to do it with anyone else. He only sleeps me and his wife who only wants sex every so many weeks which is why he comes to me as i make him feel young again and no one else will do BB, he looks ok for his age he's 52 and visits me every few days and an overnight every month. Apparantly she knows about me and doesnt mind, she handles all their finances so she knows whats going on except about the BB part.

My hourly rate is ?150, he gives me ?300, or ?1000 for an overnight, on average i make probably ?2.5k per month from him alone, financially i dont need to see any other clients or dance as a stripper but i do anyway as i love flirting, lots of sex and money.

I can usually tell when he's slept with his wife as he doesnt visit me for nearly 2 weeks, he just cant physically manage more sex to be seeing any other women.

Im on the pill but if i do get pregnant i'll have a nice percentage amount of his income from the CSA, thats the main reason i only do BB with a wealthy client. Ive thought everything through and through i plan things so i'll never worry financially in my life.

_{Tiny edit by Emily: Fixing quotes}

[Meg_Foster]

Thanks Paris - your post was the little slap/cold-water in the face I needed to go back to the old-strict-no rubber-no-service policy with this fellow.

Seeing him tonight, actually, so thank you!

[natasha]

Quote from: ParisB on Today at 06:26:05 PM
  Is this a wind up  -

Think you may have a point here...