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FakePlasticTrees

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Do you allow kissing?
« on: 09 May 2013, 10:57:28 pm »
I've never escorted and think I will do my first service tomorrow.  :o :o :-\

Kissing won't be allowed. Call me silly or pathetic but I feel that kissing is something more sacred to me than say a blow job, I will only kiss someone I am romantically involved with.

Anyone like this?

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Re: Do you allow kissing?
« Reply #1 on: 09 May 2013, 11:03:54 pm »
Hi Babydoll and welcome to SAAFE :)

Well nobody has or will call you silly or pathetic here, so there's no need to be defensive. If you haven't started yet then it's great to have a clear idea of where you want to set your boundaries, and since you make the rules you can add to or remove from your services list whenever you feel like it. The only thing I think we would all agree on is the importance of making this clear and having honest advertising so that punters aren't misled and know exactly what to expect.

Everybody is different - I hate bookings with no kissing as they make me feel like a blow up doll, but I find physical intimacy and lots of physical contact important for me to be able to do my job properly. But there are lots of services other ladies offer that I don't, and vice versa - there's someone for everybody and there will be punters who don't care about kissing. I've met a couple myself, and whilst I wouldn't see them again they'd be ideal for you :).

If you haven't read the main SAAFE site, I would strongly recommend you do - there's lots of information for newbies there.

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Re: Do you allow kissing?
« Reply #2 on: 09 May 2013, 11:07:00 pm »
I don't kiss in fact even though Im definately not a virgin I have never kissed anyone (except a peck).

I actually have a bit of a fear about kissing ( which I would love to get over) which is why I dont offer it.

Remember if your offering gfe then guys will expect some kissing.


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Re: Do you allow kissing?
« Reply #3 on: 09 May 2013, 11:19:52 pm »
Most of the clients love kissing and it makes them feel like he is your bf or smth else and they do not wanna realize that u do your job just for money . i had a clients who did not want to stay when i told them that i do not kiss. i only can guess why they love it so much . probably they wanna see that u like them and enjoy all session . in fact it is your personal choice to kiss them or not . from my experience it is not always pleasure to kiss some man due to some reasons , but some of them are really nice and clean and so sweet that i wanna kiss them non stop . But if u feel uncomfortable with kisses so better not to do it .  :-*
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Re: Do you allow kissing?
« Reply #4 on: 10 May 2013, 12:18:40 am »
I agree with you about kissing. I've always said clearly in my advertising that I don't kiss. It's crossing a line for me between meaningless sex which I'm happy to offer as a service for money and real intimacy which I want to keep separate from work. No idea how many clients are put off when they see on my ads that I don't kiss but I'm getting enough work so not bothered. When business is slow I spend more on advertising so maybe if I offered kissing I could spend less on advertising but that's a price I'm willing to pay as if I did, I think I'd end up more jaded and less able to enjoy sex outside of work. Everyone's different though. Good luck with your first booking. Hope it all goes well for you.

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Re: Do you allow kissing?
« Reply #5 on: 10 May 2013, 02:09:28 am »
I offer the girlfriend experience so kissing is pretty essential. I've had previous clients tell me that whether or not the escort offers kissing is a deal breaker for them. Some guys are perfectly pleasant kisses, unfortunately some also have slobbered all over my face (my nose even got wet once!), after seeing a client whose breath stunk of stale cigarettes the other week I'm tempted to put kissing (discretion) on my AW profile instead of offering it to everybody, although thankfully that particular client didn't go in for the kiss. Personally I don't count kissing as crossing a line from a service to a truly personally intimate experience (that only occurs when I'm genuinely attracted to the client which is almost never), and I also would say that kissing is something a lot of guys do look for so you may be limiting yourself by not offering it. At the same time though if you don't want to, don't! Make good business decisions but don't compromise your own peace of mind, I don't offer tons of things that are common such as anal or oral without protection which similarly limits me, but at least I don't have anything to dread because I'm doing what I'm comfortable with.

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Re: Do you allow kissing?
« Reply #6 on: 10 May 2013, 08:43:26 am »
Once or twice a year I'll get a client who asks me specifically not to kiss, I get the impression it makes it feel less like cheating or less personal but like Amy I feel extremely odd not kissing.  Since I am also known for a GFE kissing is fairly important and an essential part of my repertoire. If you are not offering kissing then make sure you make it clear to any potential client, as above many guys consider it a deal breaker but there are those who prefer not to. Set your own boundaries, be clear and all shall be ok.

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Re: Do you allow kissing?
« Reply #7 on: 10 May 2013, 10:03:17 am »
I love kissing, and for me it's part of the turn on, I'd feel wierd not doing it.  The only time I don't enjoy/offer it is when the guy has bad oral hygiene.  As others have said, everyone offers different things during a booking.
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Re: Do you allow kissing?
« Reply #8 on: 10 May 2013, 10:18:23 am »
If they don't have a beard and have lips then yes ill kiss them  :)