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vancap

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Clients with they own condoms?
« on: 31 October 2014, 06:55:23 pm »
Hello from Turkey...

I wanted to ask if im crazy...
Do you accept to clients to bring their own condom?
I had a booking with a guy  that i had see two more times.On first time was a duo..and when he saw me he act like crazy that want to marry me if i can move to Turkey to live with him and when the booking time finished..He didnt want me to leave..Anyway..He booked me again on my next tour..This time he act more normal but i catch him with his cellphone trying to record me or take a photo..I said him to put his cellphone away and all was ok..
On this tour he booked me..Then after some hours ask me to bring his own condoms...I said no...he tell me that he likes his own condom durex blah blah..i said to him i have durex too..he say his its thin and i said i have think condoms too..Anyway he didnt stp ask me why i dont accept and finally cancel it...
 

Its only me thats its afraid that they can broke somehow the condoms?
and i was more afraid f him because of his act before...

Im wrong?

sugar

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Re: Clients with they own condoms?
« Reply #1 on: 31 October 2014, 07:14:19 pm »
always use your own condom, dont listen to client wanting to use their own, incase they have been tampered with, for some sick crazy reason  ( i.e heard about a story before in the states about a guy making loads of tiny needle pinprick holes in condoms and infecting woman he slept with, because he had caught h.i.v, and he was bitter and angry against women, he wanted to infect as many women as possible and make them all suffer, this was his form of punishment and justice for his predicament). never be trusting in this situation and cancel asap if he refuses to use yours.

Dani

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Re: Clients with they own condoms?
« Reply #2 on: 31 October 2014, 08:02:56 pm »
If you have a good variety of condoms in different sizes and thickness as well as some non latex ones then there is NEVER a need to allow a client to use his own.  Anyone who tried to insist would just be showing they have done something to one to be so desperate to only use their own when I would have the same ones in stock.

I use my own as I know where they were bought (lots of fake ones online that have no safety testing but in brand name wrappers) I know they are in date and I know that no one has tampered with them in anyway and they are safe to use

Any client that kept insisting would be told quite firmly to leave

*EDIT*  I would also refuse to see that client again as he was obviously trying to push your boundaries.  His actions in the first booking would have put me off but his later behaviour would have had him blocked on my phone and I would never see him
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RachelR

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Re: Clients with they own condoms?
« Reply #3 on: 01 November 2014, 12:39:21 am »
If you have a good variety of condoms in different sizes and thickness as well as some non latex ones then there is NEVER a need to allow a client to use his own.  Anyone who tried to insist would just be showing they have done something to one to be so desperate to only use their own when I would have the same ones in stock.

I use my own as I know where they were bought (lots of fake ones online that have no safety testing but in brand name wrappers) I know they are in date and I know that no one has tampered with them in anyway and they are safe to use

Any client that kept insisting would be told quite firmly to leave



*EDIT*  I would also refuse to see that client again as he was obviously trying to push your boundaries.  His actions in the first booking would have put me off but his later behaviour would have had him blocked on my phone and I would never see him

I agree, after his the way he acted I wouldn't have seen him again, especially insisting bringing his own condoms, you had a lucky escape IMHO x

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Re: Clients with they own condoms?
« Reply #4 on: 01 November 2014, 11:00:20 am »
A few do offer their own, there was one I did an outcall for and he had a whole box. He said he used to run a parlour and they were from there but still I refused. My very 1st week I let a client use his own condom and it did split. I checked the packet and it was still in date so maybe he tampered with it so really it's not worth taking a chance.

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Re: Clients with they own condoms?
« Reply #5 on: 01 November 2014, 02:45:16 pm »
There was this guy who was keep asking me if he has to prepare 'protections'. I replied him 'do you seriously think I'll meet you without preparing one for my own?' He then said 'oh I don't know, just in case'. And then few days later he asked same question 'would you bring condoms?' That was weird and annoying!!

When I see guys like that I have to think they might have hidden agenda. I won't let them use theirs. Your Turkish client is obviously annoying client and I would have to think about accepting his booking let alone accepting his condom!

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Re: Clients with they own condoms?
« Reply #6 on: 01 November 2014, 05:40:28 pm »
It's not even about your client wanting to use his own condoms. From the moment he tried to film you/take pictures without your consent you shouldn't even consider seeing him again. Especially that you're saying yourself that you're not feeling safe in his presence. But then it's up to you to decide how many risks you want to take.

vancap

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Re: Clients with they own condoms?
« Reply #7 on: 07 November 2014, 03:22:19 pm »
Thank u girls for all the responces...

I decide to block him.. ;)

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Re: Clients with they own condoms?
« Reply #8 on: 07 November 2014, 06:24:32 pm »
Good on you for blocking him, it's not worth the risk.