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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #15 on: 20 July 2011, 04:08:49 pm »

(Sorry Cat - I definitely don't mean any of this as an attack on you or your post! If I sound sarcastic, it's only towards what I think are restrictive gender/sexuality stereotypes, and I'm only writing out my point of view in a general way/in order to support Mr Average's idea because his view resonates with me. I know you said you were only talking from your friends' reported experiences, and he and I are just doing the same based on our personal experience. :))

LOL - no problem, I didn't read it as an attack :)

Whilst I consider sexuality to be fluid (moreso in some people than others) and see things from a "prefers-relationships-with-men-but-still-enjoys-a-lesbo-fling" stance (just easier to say "bisexual"!!), I can't see how a straight guy can be happy to have an experience with another man...such an experience that is likely to include kissing, wanking, sucking EACH OTHER (unless the client is happy to pay ?100's or even ?1000's for JUST anal sex - which if so, could go on for much longer than Mr Average is expecting or wanting! (we've all been there!!))....

Then Amy's next post summed it up more succinctly than I could:

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I can only speak for myself, obviously, but whilst I'm certainly not some weird, up-for-it -all-the-time raving nympho (and my ads have never claimed I am), I advertise as heterosexual and catering  to male clients accordingly. I would no more be able to see (and offer a proper service to) people that went against the grain of my orientation than I would jump off a cliff, no matter how much money they were offering me; the thought of rolling about with a woman I don't know and don't fancy make me feel quite ill. Not 'craving the services' we do is hardly the same thing as advertising a bi/homosexual experience when you're not bi or homosexual.

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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #16 on: 20 July 2011, 04:16:52 pm »

Soap and water works for me  ;D.

That was a really cheap shot Amy, but it still cracked me up!

Mr Average, for my 2 bits worth I would say that there is very little market out there for what you're offering.

Check out the casual encounters section of craigslist and if your area is anything like mine there will be at least 20 straight guys giving their bums away.

The same could be said of escorting but guys come to us because -

A) We advertise, which you've said you wouldn't want to do.

B) We're experienced and know what we're doing.

C) We enjoy what we do (or are very good at acting at least!)

So I wouldn't pin my hopes of a large sum of money on this one off venture, if you owe the mafia or something I would advise skipping town.

I don't mean to be harsh or anything, I do know some gay male escorts and they do well with regular clients, but they offer a full service and enjoy what they do. And not to be too graphic but their bodies are more experienced too, all is well in good if your high bidder isn't a rampaging man stallion, but what if he is? Are you prepared for it to hurt?

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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #17 on: 20 July 2011, 04:22:07 pm »
all is well in good if your high bidder isn't a rampaging man stallion, but what if he is? Are you prepared for it to hurt?

And with the pain, stretching of anus and thrusting, comes... natural bodily functions. I know a few people who have been caught out/surprised by this, even after an enema...

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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #18 on: 20 July 2011, 04:25:09 pm »
Whilst I consider sexuality to be fluid (moreso in some people than others) and see things from a "prefers-relationships-with-men-but-still-enjoys-a-lesbo-fling" stance (just easier to say "bisexual"!!), I can't see how a straight guy can be happy to have an experience with another man...such an experience that is likely to include kissing, wanking, sucking EACH OTHER (unless the client is happy to pay ?100's or even ?1000's for JUST anal sex - which if so, could go on for much longer than Mr Average is expecting or wanting! (we've all been there!!))....

Well, I see this topic as being about a person who is prepared to go gay-for-pay, rather than a real sexuality thing. Don't straight guys sometimes do gay porn for cash, despite definitely only wanting sex with women in their 'real' lives? It doesn't turn them gay, or make them want to kill themselves for having snogged a man despite being straight! :) Anyway, I'm not surprised the OP is considering a similar thing if he really, really wants some cash ASAP, especially considering all the misconceptions out there about the sex industry (that you can make ten grand in a week without literally working your fanny/bum off, etc!).

I'll admit it: I'd shag a lady for a grand if for some reason I needed to, but I'd rather not, since I'm completely straight and would rather just not put myself in that situation at all. And when I say "for a grand", it'd have to be a nice lady and I'd have to be quite desperate. But if I was desperate enough, I'd do it no matter what - that's a bit of a sad fact of life, really - this job isn't always about ecstatically happy people doing paid sex stuff that they'd probably do for free anyway. And I think that's more like what the OP was talking about - what he'd be prepared to do for enough cash, not what he is having secret fantasies about.

At the end of the day I agree with Amy, too, though - very often, prostitution is not the answer, especially not when the going rate for something you don't personally enjoy doing might be surprisingly low cos lots of other people do enjoy it!

At least the OP hasn't had the amazingly, fabulously original idea of marketing his amazing self to all those poor hot women out there who simply can't get enough for free, eh? ;D
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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #19 on: 20 July 2011, 04:39:02 pm »
Whilst I consider sexuality to be fluid (moreso in some people than others) and see things from a "prefers-relationships-with-men-but-still-enjoys-a-lesbo-fling" stance (just easier to say "bisexual"!!), I can't see how a straight guy can be happy to have an experience with another man...such an experience that is likely to include kissing, wanking, sucking EACH OTHER (unless the client is happy to pay ?100's or even ?1000's for JUST anal sex - which if so, could go on for much longer than Mr Average is expecting or wanting! (we've all been there!!))....

Well, I see this topic as being about a person who is prepared to go gay-for-pay, rather than a real sexuality thing. Don't straight guys sometimes do gay porn for cash, despite definitely only wanting sex with women in their 'real' lives? It doesn't turn them gay, or make them want to kill themselves for having snogged a man despite being straight! :) Anyway, I'm not surprised the OP is considering a similar thing if he really, really wants some cash ASAP, especially considering all the misconceptions out there about the sex industry (that you can make ten grand in a week without literally working your fanny/bum off, etc!).

I'll admit it: I'd shag a lady for a grand if for some reason I needed to, but I'd rather not, since I'm completely straight and would rather just not put myself in that situation at all. And when I say "for a grand", it'd have to be a nice lady and I'd have to be quite desperate. But if I was desperate enough, I'd do it no matter what - that's a bit of a sad fact of life, really - this job isn't always about ecstatically happy people doing paid sex stuff that they'd probably do for free anyway. And I think that's more like what the OP was talking about - what he'd be prepared to do for enough cash, not what he is having secret fantasies about.

At the end of the day I agree with Amy, too, though - very often, prostitution is not the answer, especially not when the going rate for something you don't personally enjoy doing might be surprisingly low cos lots of other people do enjoy it!

At least the OP hasn't had the amazingly, fabulously original idea of marketing his amazing self to all those poor hot women out there who simply can't get enough for free, eh? ;D

LOL - good post, and good points well made ;D

And LOL at your last sentence - so true!!! I know a guy who is your normal 40+ (nearly 50) year old man, who isn't exactly top of the class in erection maintenance (shall we say ;D ) and he thought he'd come up with the most excellent idea of how to get some sex and pay his debts: to get "sexy young women" (his words!) to pay for his 'services'...!! I told him he'd be lucky to get a freebie off ME, he wasn't amused ;D ;D

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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #20 on: 20 July 2011, 05:30:03 pm »
If you decide to go ahead, from a practical point of view I would seriously think about getting a dildo or buttplug and having a trial run if you haven't before. It is far easier to stick things up mens bottoms than womens generally just because of the way things are laid out, but you might be in for a nasty shock if you really are a complete first timer. It ain't like having a quick poke about with a soapy finger to give it a wash.

If you do go ahead, this is good advice!  You need to get a decent-size dildo, lube yourself up, and give it a go.

As for having sex with a man when you're straight, of course you can do it.  I am heterosexual and advertise as such, but would I have sex with a woman for a lot of money, yes, I would (not sure how good I'd be, mind).  And the key words in that sentence are 'a lot'  :)
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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #21 on: 21 July 2011, 08:19:06 pm »
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and he thought he'd come up with the most excellent idea of how to get some sex and pay his debts: to get "sexy young women" (his words!) to pay for his 'services'.

That guy's a genius. I can't believe I didn't think of that! Right, I'm off to seek my fortune as a heterosexual manwhore.

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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #22 on: 22 July 2011, 08:57:37 pm »
I was fascinated to read your post, and I think some great advice from the ladies here. To me it seems this is a great fantasy for you, I can understand your needing the cash, but its not normally the first option a straight guy thinks of, over the years I've certainly had many bisexual clients, I've also known many bisexual couples work together.
If you do go ahead, I would advise as someone already did to prepare yourself perhaps try a dildo etc. I certainly hated it when I started, and took a long time to learn how to relax.
Also, don't assume another guy will expect you to be passive, I can think of many guys that would prefer you to be active. Good luck, I hope it works out for you. Mike.  ;D
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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #23 on: 23 July 2011, 11:20:51 am »
Of course it's not a fucking fantasy, did you not read the rest of the thread  ::)

If there are so many other ways to make quick cash then please let me know!

Thanks for the tips anyway...

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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #24 on: 23 July 2011, 11:26:38 am »
I realise it was a pretty facile thing to say, but responses like this are not acceptable - either keep it civil or don't post. Any more childish petulance and we'll decide that for you.

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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #25 on: 23 July 2011, 12:44:58 pm »
I realise it was a pretty facile thing to say, but responses like this are not acceptable - either keep it civil or don't post. Any more childish petulance and we'll decide that for you.

Perhaps it's time to lock this thread? The only really useful posts were made on the first page and all the rest is just people trying to tell the OP about his sexuality based on their (frankly) irrelevant experience, and the OP getting (in my opinion) justifiably annoyed.

Foul language is not justified, though. And there really are no legal ways to make a pile of cash in an instant, especially not if you don't want to be risking your health in a serious way. So... perhaps if anyone else knows a lot about selling anal virginity to male clients, they could just PM Mr Average directly? And then this thread can die a much-needed death. :)
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Re: Straight guy looking at selling anal virginity
« Reply #26 on: 23 July 2011, 02:26:09 pm »
I concur.

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