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Blather and Babble / Re: the term prostitute?
« Last Post by henry on Today at 03:39:14 pm »
Reclaim the term ‘prostitute’ as our own  :angel: - it’s used to insult us, but I love calling myself a prostitute  >:D - the word is only offensive if you let it be offensive to you

My view entirely!

I am only very part-time and escorting is probably ~3% of my work by time and ~10% by income, but I am very proud to be a (part-time) prostitute, and would use the terms "escort" and "prostitute" interchangeably.

My duo partner (also my wife!) has a much higher % of her time and income escorting, formerly is was 100%/100%, and yes I am also proud of her and proud to be married to a (fellow) prostitute!
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Blather and Babble / Re: the term prostitute?
« Last Post by henry on Today at 03:32:30 pm »
When I complained about it.  I was told very clearly it will stay on.  And just because it shouldn't be information included doesn't mean it won't be.  I found in my case it was a human who entered that extra information not a database check for crimes that should automatically show up.

The police say one thing and do another.

Miss Betty,

It is an outrage that this is included in your DBS check. Not that there is anything wrong with being a prostitute or being called a prostitute (of course), but (exactly as you asked) would they have stated your "known" occupation if you were a plumber? Of course not. The fact of mentioning it in your DBS check - and adding the word "known", similar to e.g. "known criminal", is intended to invite adverse inference, and for that reason is wholly wrong.

I would definitely suggest to try to get it removed. I can recommend a (female) human rights barrister who takes direct access cases, is SW-friendly, and who charges reasonable rates, if that can help you with advice, or action?

I am not a lawyer but my firm belief is that you would be successful to have this removed. The police have recently been forced to delete records of "non-crime hate incidents" following a court order. Clearly, being a prostitute is also a non-crime!

Henry

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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by Michellebelle on Today at 02:57:04 pm »
I think we need spring to spring properly and the warmer weather to arrive. The sun seems to get their libido going !!
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Seeking/Offering / Re: Room for ladies 🌸
« Last Post by Plainjane on Today at 02:35:54 pm »
Where is the room?

Thanks
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Questions and Answers / Re: How often do you change professional pics?
« Last Post by Justine on Today at 11:59:40 am »
As long as I am happy with my selfies then that's what gets uploaded. I change them when the fancy takes me but sometimes if I have bought a new outfit I might get the camera going.  Taking 30 photos but only being happy with half a dozen is my experience but I guess I'm not the only one.
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I managed to get some professional looking shots done this morning with my tablet on self timer im quite amazed they came out so well.

it’s amazing what can be achieved now with smart phones etc, I’ve never bothered with professional pics personally.
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I have a professional shoot every 3 months. I used to have one once a year. But now I find every 3 months keeps me busy.

You can always do a few selfies inbetween shoots.

If you look around you get some great photographers on purpleport. I have paid as little as £150/ £250 a shoot upto £650 a shoot for well known escort photographer. But some of the smaller part time photographers are alot cheaper like £150/ £250 a shoot and you still get decent photos. Depends what you want to spend. But photography is a must for work. Guys look at photos before they even read your profile so getting fresh photos and good photos every couple of months keeps you busier.

Depends who you book, but photography prices are coming down compared what they were as lots more photographers shooting escorts/ Onlyfans.

Check out the other services and photographer recommendations thread.

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So he wanted to spend the night with you but wasn't bothered about talking with you on the phone for a couple of minutes? Just this alone has more flags than a communist parade. You did the right thing by getting rid. We stop listening to our guts when we're "desperate" and bad shyte usually will happen  (slow month, rent coming etc...).
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Seeking/Offering / Re: Room for ladies 🌸
« Last Post by Sisi S on Today at 09:18:05 am »
Room available for £50 next week
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Hi I’m interested what’s your number
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