« on: November 24, 2008, 05:01:27 PM »
Can I just add a few things to think about for you as you are just 18 and have many years of life left to go. Some of the things I first considered before entering this business are quite important life decisions, like if I were to ever want children - I knew I didn't want any then and I still don't now, if I were to ever change my mind about that I would not want to continue working ( I know many escorts do combine motherhood - indeed it may well be how many are able to help their family survive financially) but to me the thought of to my child if they were to ever find out, it might be so hard for them, as, well you're Mum to them and also for their well being I would not want to put myself in harms way in case I was ever injured or worse (rare I'm sure, but I wouldn't attempt a skydive whilst being a Mum either - just in case).
The other thing I considered was other work in the future if I were to want to quit escort work, I was working on something (that would again have been self - employed) unfortunately I've had to throw that completely on the back burner as life can be unpredictable, two or so years ago my life was going to plan and I was happy and looking forward to my future (a few personal achievements and just feeling happy with my life) but you get thrown curve balls and can end up having to fight yourself out of the snakepit due to circumstances you didn't see coming or at least you didn't see coming quite how they happened.
But in saying things like this it's still all unpredictable and we are, all of us, just trying to survive and live our lives.