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Questions and Answers / Re: Escorting, taxes and CRB checks
« on: Today at 11:42:20 AM »
Quote from: pussycat on Today at 09:52:02 AM
Quote from: Strawberry on Today at 07:04:30 AM
Quote from: pussycat on Today at 02:13:50 AM
Definitely do not register as an escort with HMRC if you are/training to become a medical professional, you can be struck off for 'bringing the profession into disrepute'.

I'd say it's more the actual doing the occupation, rather than what you tell HMRC that's going to give you that result - which is what  the OP needs to think carefully about in my above post.

Yes, but by telling HMRC you're an escort there's an increased chance of your employer finding out too.

As long as you are unrecognisable by how you blur or crop your face, and are careful not to disclose what you do to anyone you should be fine. I also make sure my photos could be passed off as nice underwear shots rather than obvious escorty ones, ie fingers in pants, topless etc. then if worst came to worst it'd be an easier hole to dig out of.

As far as I'm aware HMRC shouldn't be telling employers anything more than the TAX and NI coding required for PAYE, remainder is confidential stuff.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Escorting, taxes and CRB checks
« on: Today at 07:04:30 AM »
Quote from: pussycat on Today at 02:13:50 AM
Definitely do not register as an escort with HMRC if you are/training to become a medical professional, you can be struck off for 'bringing the profession into disrepute'.

I'd say it's more the actual doing the occupation, rather than what you tell HMRC that's going to give you that result - which is what  the OP needs to think carefully about in my above post.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Been a escort and having few body tattoos
« on: May 18, 2013, 07:22:15 PM »
Quote from: MissPretty on May 18, 2013, 01:19:50 PM
The ones i got are in my breast and arms areas :o

A bit more obvious then. I am so, so glad I never gave in to the urge to have a thigh tattoo. I'm definitely happy with my natural-state body now, and past the 'modification' stage.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Escorting, taxes and CRB checks
« on: May 18, 2013, 06:48:03 PM »
Quote from: ChrissieDavaar on May 18, 2013, 03:57:48 PM
Hi, I think your a bit confused the CRB (now called DBS) check is to do with any criminal convictions and as far as I'm aware has nothing to do with your taxes. You can put what ever you want down your employer would only know that you were self employed.

If the police know you are an Escort - say if you've told them in interview and it's part of the info they have on you, I can confirm that it may be included in the 'last known occupation' section of an enhanced DBS certificate. This has nothing to do with HMRC - as far as I'm aware DBS doesn't access HMRC information it's an Police intelligence check.

You do need to consider however that if you do go on into a sensitive profession, you need to be aware that some people do sometimes find out and that you always run the risk of being 'dobbed' in, or even worse blackmailed. If I were you I'd think ahead about how you would handle and deal with such a situation. In my opinion being prepared in advance just-in-case is well worth it.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Been a escort and having few body tattoos
« on: May 18, 2013, 01:06:02 PM »
I have a couple of tattoos but they are so small, and unoffensive they are barely noticeable, and only seen if I'm completely and utterly naked. Even then I have clients who on return visits say "Is that new?", that's how significant they are. For discretion reasons and because to say I'm tattooed could conjure up all sorts I tend to not mention them, or if I do make it clear they are very discrete and just limit them to a few private gallery photos.

Some men find tattoos a big turn on and if mine were significant I'd play them up, but they aren't and that would be misleading.

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Blather and Babble / Re: Stubble rash
« on: May 17, 2013, 09:20:35 PM »
If someone has harsh, rough stubble I will explain I can't kiss them as hard or intensely. It's also important to let a client know if he's pushing stubble into you during oral, they are usually very understanding when I explain it's like having your bits sandpapered.

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Blather and Babble / Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« on: May 17, 2013, 09:17:14 PM »
Quote from: nat2013 on May 17, 2013, 09:04:07 PM
Sorry folks if this has been covered before.

Since being on AW I have had several emails suggesting 'complimentary massages' - I have yet again recieved one today (detailed below)-

Hello Nat,
I am contacting you because I would like to offer you a complimentary (free) full body massage as an introductory offer.  My webpage is [link removed].  Please see my profile and feedback for details of my offering and for an idea of what you can expect.  The massage treatment (a total pamper) is perfect as a short and relaxing stress relieving break.

The introductory meeting would be for you to experience my massage and then decide whether you wish to book for further massage treatments (like try before you buy).  There is no obligation to continue after the initial treatment (you can have a one-off treatment, free of cost, if you should choose), though if you do decide to have further treatments, then I will offer special rates as I will value you as my client. 

Obviously, I have removed contact details for the poster. Has anyone had similar posts? Why, as an escort am I being contacted by a masseur? (cant spell-sorry!!). The poster may be 100% genuine (to which I apologise!) but I cant help my skeptical head  ???
XX

Because they think there's a desire for their services, that we are desperate for attention from males, and most probably to get a 'freebie' thinking they are doing you a favour.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Working with another girl
« on: May 17, 2013, 01:04:25 PM »
Quote from: Bbwtease22 on May 17, 2013, 11:09:23 AM
I have met a lady on adultwork, who like me is a bbw. She has just asked if we can meet and discus becoming "partners" doing bukake, gangbangs ect which I already offer.

Have you ever worked with another women? I need to discus with hubby first, but I'm in need of money and I think this will bring some in! X

I've never worked with someone else, and will not consider duos or couple bookings at my place - partly because of the legal implications, partly because working with anyone else would require a very high level of trust and I don't know anyone I'd want to work with.

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Questions and Answers / Re: love and lust
« on: May 17, 2013, 06:03:55 AM »
My advice is stop posting questions, read the articles on the main site and get on with it.

There are also numerous threads on here giving advice on relationships whilst being a sex worker, along with answers to most of the questions you have asked.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Giving Oral Without Risks
« on: May 17, 2013, 12:23:08 AM »
Quote from: meetingdiversity on May 16, 2013, 10:51:13 PM
Quote from: xw5 on May 16, 2013, 09:29:10 PM
Quote from: meetingdiversity on May 16, 2013, 09:12:50 PM
I would have thought that if only offered oral without that business would be very dead?. Only because many ask if do oral without. Are there ladies who are kept busy offering oral without only?.

There's a market of men who want OWO. There's a market of men who want OW. There's a bigger market of men who don't care either way.

A search will find some examples, including people like Amy who have gone from OWO to OW without noticeably losing client numbers as a result.

I would have thought that CIM only as I empty after is a low risk compared to swallowing. Am I wrong in thinking this way?.

I was under the impression stomach acid is a great defence, whereas holding it in the mouth against delicate mouth membranes whilst finding a suitable recepticle would result in higher risk.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Giving Oral Without Risks
« on: May 16, 2013, 09:03:01 PM »
The risk is supposed to be minimal but it's still there, so up to each individual how they chose to proceed. It's not just HIV a dose of chlamydia or gonorrhea isn't going to make a very good day or week for most people, let alone your business.

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Blather and Babble / Re: Perfume Choices
« on: May 16, 2013, 10:07:01 AM »
I can't stand heavy perfumes and opt for a lightly smelling body lotion, body butter plus a light spray with the end of a bodyspray I got with some perfume for Christmas 2011, or one of my other bottles of real perfume.  I started telling people(work and private life) to stop buying me perfume because I only use small amounts and a full bottle might last me up to two years - that's if it's not gone 'off' and I've thrown it away.

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Questions and Answers / Re: General advice about escorting
« on: May 16, 2013, 09:17:17 AM »
Quote from: Chiara Thor on May 16, 2013, 04:43:25 AM
:) Thank you so much ladies for your advice and guidance!!! I really appreciate your time and attention. I'm sorry that I had a misconception about the weight issue in escorting. The reason I thought you had to be reasonably thin to be an escort is because I looked up info online about becoming an escort and one of the things mentioned was that a woman didn't have to have a perfect body but she couldn't be too overweight to be an escort.

There's a huge market for size 16 plus, (often referred to as BBW) so the article you read is quite inaccurate.

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Blather and Babble / Re: When Clients Ask For Back Payments Service?.
« on: May 14, 2013, 10:12:43 PM »
I was once asked if I'd accept a post-dated cheque, he said he didn't have any money in his bank account but would be paid at the end of the week.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Guaranteed payment
« on: May 14, 2013, 07:18:59 AM »
I thought we'd had it clarified that if you agree to have sex, if money is involved and it is removed then it's not rape because the consent for sex has been given, the money bit is incidental.

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