Hi girls and welcome to SAAFE.

I think the question of "what happens ......." Shows that every girl works differently.  I NEVER take a client into my lounge, that is MY territory and not a place I want clients to be in.  Many girls use their home for Incalls (I don't but still don't like clients anywhere other than the bedroom) and if girls are using their home for Incalls  then you don't really want to have to depersonalise every room of your home.

The way I see it, my work is a business transaction and as my business takes place in the bedroom then there is no need for them to be anywhere else.  A lot of girls like to use the lounge in order to eek out the booking and less time in the bedroom but that is up to each individual.

There is no room for embarrassment in our business and if the guy is not forthcoming with the money in the first 5 or so minutes, simply say as suggested "lets get business out of the way" then you can get on with things that need to be done.

Good luck.

Sometimes we don't have the energy to do a lot apart from lie down and in easy words "let it work it's way through us".

If you feel up to it it is a good time to get listed on some more directories and maybe work will again improve a bit once you are feeling 100% again.

Hope you pick up soon.

Be careful doing this.  You are setting yourself up for a Timewaster to stand around the corner (or sitting in the car creasing himself and then following you home) laughing his head off at you standing there waiting for him when he has no intention of showing up for you.

Others may disagree but there is no way on this earth I would ever go out to meet someone like this.  Please be careful.

Incall booking vetting has a lot to do with gut feeling and how the guy is on the phone.

Your guy may have been put off by you asking for all his personal details while he is still coming to you.  Time will tell.

Your gut feeling involves a lot of things.  Mainly the manner in which they speak but even established girls can be duped from time to time by the experienced timewaster.

There are many different things that you notice with experience and you just know they aint going to show.  If they do and you are wrong it is a nice bonus.

One thing many of the girls would advise, though it has nothing to do with vetting, is, dont spend the money in your head until the booking is actually over and the guy has gone.  Some will say once you have his money then you are laughing but sometimes something can go wrong and you are just glad to get them back out the door and on the odd occasion that means returning his money.

Good luck, I hope your booking does come to fruition tonight.

You have to put anything like that to the back of your head and get on with work....with confidence.

Again the "search" button is invaluable. 

Just put specific words into the box and you will probably find some pages that will help you.

For specifics on HMRC there is a section on the main site.  It really is all there. And plenty if you use the search button again.

There are several threads re what to put down as your occupation and if you want to become a teacher you must be very careful.  Esp for the CRB check or whatever it is called.

Many of the girls on the forum will be willing to help you in a general way but time is an enemy with many escorts and mentoring someone is just too time consuming for a one on one. 

For flat searching that is all down to foot work or finger work on the laptop and it will all be trial and error too.

There are NO shortcuts in this business.  Many girls have taken up to a year to investigate before taking the plunge and even then they wont know everything.  Even after 7 years and a lot of life experiences I don't have all the answers.

Good luck with your investigating.  I hope you find what you are looking for.

Quote from: Chiara Thor on May 16, 2013, 07:38:45 PM

I ask because  I read online that escorts have to be between the age of eighteen and twenty nine. Is this true?

well i guess thats me out them (rofl)  anyone else out of it cos of the supposed  age thing

Me?  I must be TWICE AS GOOD. ROFL.