Just seeking some advice.

I've been in a relationship for 2 months now (not long at all.) and the guy knows I escort. However, he's kinda moved himself in, does that make sense? He works five minutes down the road from me, and wants to stay over EVERY night, which makes it impossible for me to work or have my own space  Now don't get me wrong, I like him alot and he's great fun, but he sulks when I can't see him. I've also been quite ill recently, with very bad headaches, and had to go into hospital because they suspected a growth on my brain  Luckily for me, all the tests came back clear, but the guy has a habit of sulking if I don't want sex. We have sex three times a day usually, but I've been feeling poorly and less energetic - and I havent been working as much either. But the boyfriend sulks when I won't have sex, and makes stupid jokes about us being in 'a dry patch', or me always being too tired. It's bloody hurtful 

We also had an issue the other week. He got drunk and accused me of being a cheat in the middle of a wine bar. It was ridiculous, and bloody awful. I just don't know how I feel about it all. I wonder if we need to spend less time together, or maybe I should just ditch him?

Sorry for the rant 

I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago, and I wanted to vent it out here. I confessed to being a working girl - after about two monthes of getting to know eachother and deciding to take the plunge into 'relationship' territory. I told him over coffee at my house, and he stormed out. Infact, he threw his coffee in my face and walked out the door. Now, he seemed a decent guy. Kind, thoughtful, sensitive, intelligent and great fun. I really liked him, but I wasn't prepared to lie to him. I value honesty above everything, but now I'm regretting saying anything at all. I didn't hear from him for four days, and I definitely didn't chase him, and eventually I recieved a text calling me a 'nasty filthy whore,' who 'was impossible to love, because you're disgusting.' Charming.

I am hurt, but I will survive  I'm just wondering if I was wrong to be honest? I'm also highly irritated by how judgemental and narrow-minded people are. I have had similar experienced with men in the past. Why can't they handle it?

Gah, back to spooning my pillow 

...clients who ask you to do an outcall to a restaurant or hotel, in something really revealing? I had one guy ask me to wear a pvc mini dress and rubber stockings out for dinner with him? Ummm...what the hell? 

Does anyone else find it difficult to have a relationship, due to intimacy issues? I recently broke up with a guy I was seeing, because he accused me of being 'detached' and 'hesitant to commit.' I have to agree with him  I love working as an escort, but it has affected the way I date and have relationships. I find it very difficult to emotionally involve myself, and I wonder if it's because of the job? Or is it just me, being a crazy commitment-phobe? I am very suspicious of men, but not in a paranoid way, but rather that I'm scared of investing too much time into something that may potentially go wrong because of the escorting. I don't know. Am I alone in this?

Is it wise to become friends with clients? As in, meet them outside of bookings for coffee and such?

I avoid it, because I did it once, and the guy turned out to be a fantasist who thought I'd fall for him  I get countless offers to go for lunchs or have coffees, and I was wondering what you ladies think of it.

 

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Walked through the door, and pulled a knife on me. He then hit me across the face and tried to rob me, but luckily my security downstairs heard it and threw him out. The guy is about 5'7, asian, short cropped dark hair with a pathetic-looking goatie beard. He was wearing dark jeans with bright white reebok trainers and wearing a barber jacket. Be careful ladies.

I get really really annoyed when clients don't read my AW profile. They call me up, make an appointment, and then continue to send me a thousand questions via text.  Do you do a-levels? Do you charge extras? I feel like screaming at them! If only they took 5 minutes to read my damn profile, then they'd know the answers to all these questions *pulls her own hair out*

Forgive me if this has already been addressed

I have a client who is a professional and lovely man. I've seen him about 4 or 5 times, and everytime he sees me, he asks me out for a drink/date and says how beautiful/perfect/wonderful I am. I turn him down, because I'm professional, and because, well, I don't fancy him. Recently, he's started to get abit grumpy about it. I'll turn him down gently, saying he deserves more than dating an escort, or that he's really nice but I don't want a relationship, etc etc. Anyway, by the end of the appointments, he gets grumpier and grumpier, until eventually accusing me of 'chatting bullshit,' and just giving him excuses. He just won't take it gracefully, and it upsets me, because I don't want to hurt his feelings, you know? But I'm starting to feel backed into a corner, where he almost wants me to say 'I'm not interested. Back off.' He just isn't getting the hint. Should I stop seeing him altogether? I just don't understand his behaviour. Very odd.