Is it possible to get all the numbers in full?  My thoughts go out to any of the ladies who this happened to.

I'm not being blackmailed but the other residents in the apartments that I work at have complained about me.  Having not got the result that they wanted (as the landlord and the agency believed me) I then got a note through the door telling me that they new what I was doing, it had my full name written in large font and bold on it and they quoted the 1956 act, section 33 at me.  This of course is crap, as I am not running a brothel, but they also said that they can find out information on my guests and will make them public and contact the police.

I suppose I could get round this by getting my clients to park outside of the complex and then they would not be able to use their registration numbers, but I decided rather than allowing it to escalate I am leaving.  I've told the landlord that I'm not happy there any more due to the initial complaint and the agency are putting it back on the market in time for Janaury.  Hopefully they will get a new tenant before the end of my lease is due, as I am obligated to pay all the bills until this happens and it's not cheap, especially when I'm going to have to try and put a deposit down on a new place when I find one and pay for storage etc.

It's frustrating, but in my case I felt protecting my identity was paramount.  I have lived in my area most of my life, most of my family still live here and I am qualified in a career that requires a CRB and I am sure that having 'known prositute' on there would not bode well.

With there being more and more girls working and less money to go around, personally I would be happy that I was free to work and have the extra work. I had countless calls that I had to say no to due to my son still living with me.  He did go out Xmas eve for a few hours and I managed to squeeze 2 bookings in and the guys were really grateful, as they said no one was working.

God knows if I'll manage to get some time next year, but I wouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth if I could and knowing I would make a fair bit of money, I would not ask for extra.

Do be careful as there are a lot of men out there that watch out for all newbies, trying to take them for a ride, let alone one that has not had sex before.

Personally I would not advise losing your virginity in this way.  Isn't there someone you know who would oblige you?  Your hymen may still be intact and there could be some discharge from that and it can be quite uncomfortable the first time.  I personally wouldn't want my first time to be with a total stranger who wasn't thinking of my experience for the first time.

Great advice and words of caution above.

I really do not think showing your face is worth it, especially if you want to go into a 'respected' career so its good that you have removed your face photos. Remember its not just clients who may out you, its other girls too. Do not under estimate how much this job brings out the worst in some girls who will be indescreet with your details at the drop of a hat if you manage to upset them. And I dont mean by going out of your way to upset them either, sometimes just by being popular, girls can be targetted. In short, keep your business and personal details to yourself, keep your face off the net and stay alive to the possibility that others may enjoy causing trouble for you. Oh, and never try and understand why they do it, you'll end up as mad as them! Just accept it as part and parcel of the industry.

Sorry to be so doom and gloom but lots of girls have been outed and many more have been threatened with being outed.  Its not a nice position to be in so its good that you have thought about the consequences early on. 

Sadly there is no exageration in these words.  I have had a working girl lose me work by gossiping and making up stories about me.  I wouldn't bother going on forums or chat rooms either, apart from ones like these.  In fact just stick to this one and don't use your working name either, as punters can gain access to what you write and things can be twisted.

Omg!  Someone stop me from throwing my laptop across the room!!!!

Why are somethings with aw sooooo diffiucult?

All I want to do is change my hair from shoulder length to long and can I find how to get to my vital statistics and change it?  Can I eck!

Please someone guide me to this facility before I do something very silly.

xx

Have you considered starting a group on aw?  As the administrator you have full access to all elements of the members details, messages and credits.  They all get advertised as part of your group/agency, you can promote them etc.  Anyway work that is generated from the phone number that you use for the group would be classed as agency work, any work generated by their private emails or numbers is their own.

It might be worth doing, it may not earn you huge bucks, but as administrator you could get a percentage if agreed as part of the terms of joining the group.  Maybe say first month free and after that 10% of any monies earned through the site for running costs?