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Messages - Lydia

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Questions and Answers / Re: Friends, Dates and Bookings
« on: October 13, 2008, 09:03:24 PM »
No way would I cancel something with friends/family, my escort life is a (enjoyable) part of my life along with other enjoyable things not the whole of it.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Getting a client to leave!!!!
« on: October 13, 2008, 08:39:10 PM »
I'm thinking I don't actually want to advertise overnighters.. And I don't want to cook  :o though I would happily buy something in. 

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Questions and Answers / Re: Does anyone date???
« on: October 13, 2008, 07:48:36 PM »
I think I felt at the time that most people just find someone they get on reasonably affectionately well with and share the boredom, share the bills.. That was how most people's relationships appeared to me.

I am a bit of free spirit - I always have been, that's why in my younger years I never could fall in love, someone telling me they loved me made my freedom (whims) feel threatened and it just instantly scared me off.

Since, I have given true love some serious thought and I think it is as an experience something awesome and if I was in love then no I would not want to be with others other than that person, I do believe I can love many but here I'm thinking of true love.

Being a bit of a free spirit I think it would be something very difficult to let go of my free nature.

But I don't know..
 

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Questions and Answers / Re: Rough kissing.............................
« on: October 10, 2008, 12:54:52 AM »
I don't think I've had a cold sore, are you sure it's not his teeth having caught you?

Why not just not kiss like that then it's no longer a problem.

I've found a link to something about cold sores.. According to this you can get cold sores on your fingers too, I've never heard of that before.

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Questions and Answers / Re: A client wants to meet. Why am I scared?
« on: October 08, 2008, 02:06:18 AM »
I think a fear of being judged is just a bit of a something maybe we all feel to different degrees (including clients and everyone else in society probably)? We're all here learning hoping this will all work out ok for us.

I get nervous and excited over things.

x

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Yes, I think if anyone remotely tries it on for any reason then I wont continue, wouldn't want to as they have chosen to spoil the mood.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Incalls.... damn
« on: October 08, 2008, 01:42:49 AM »
Yes, I was thinking to book for two nights - the more I consider this option the more enthused I become about it.

So, I get to choose my hotel that is whatever I want, with whatever I want, wherever I want; then I get to experience some good company   :-*  ;D  ;) and I actually get paid some cash to use however I want on top.. I like the idea of this, I like the idea of this too much, once I start do I ever have to retire? x

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Buddy Link-up / Happy to help
« on: October 07, 2008, 05:07:56 PM »
I'm happy to participate as a security buddy too, I'm not exactly certain of my definite availability so I will try to sort out some specific times and post them here when I can.

xx

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Well the boyfriend I did have already knew - it was how we met, I'm not planning on having a relationship again though until I'm much older but I'm not that worried if I never have another relationship. I am aware that people change and I've constantly changed my mind about everything my whole life, I can only speak of things how I feel today next year I may feel differently.

As for others for me that's on a need to know basis if someone doesn't need to know then I don't tell them.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Incalls.... damn
« on: October 07, 2008, 04:32:13 PM »
I'm thinking along the same lines with offering in-calls to begin with (from a hotel) as It'd be my space and will make me feel more comfortable while I get inti the swing of things, then I could also offer out-calls at some point as an add on if I want to. Just some things worth mulling over at the moment..

But I'd only want a maximum of two or so bookings so I don't draw to much attention to myself during my stay - I think that'd be ok? I think I want to work at least an hour away from where I live too.. And come to think of it I quite like the idea of the touring, I'd get to see different parts of the country as well like mini holidays every so often sampling the local offerings - that'd be fun   ;).

Good idea to take spare sheets, pillow cases and towels. All these unscented things are they really worth it? As surely if you didn't wear perfume etc then the smell of your shampoo, washing powder will just linger anyway? Unless they remove all clothing on immediate entry and seal it in plastic I can't help but think even if they are thoroughly washed after then their clothing will just catch the scent of a room anyway.. Could maybe make a goodie bag for clients with those miniature's of well known brands they sell in some shops now too..
 
How do clients feel about visiting you in a hotel? Some maybe shy and wouldn't like it but others might not be bothered just wondering about that.

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Blather and Babble / Re: Non- blonde escorts-we better all give up now!
« on: October 07, 2008, 03:28:17 PM »
Well I'm fairly petite everywhere (A cup), brunette and an ordinary kinda girl - yet I've never had trouble pulling.. If I've wanted to..

I'm surprised a book making that statement actually exists..  ;D Lol it's actually amusing the author thinks like that!

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Questions and Answers / Re: internet hosts to use
« on: October 07, 2008, 03:21:24 PM »
Just a quickie about the type of hosting I may need.. If I choose to design my own site..

I'm a bit lost as to whether I'll need a 'dedicated' type of hosting or 'shared' for my escort site.
Assuming say Tesco will definitely need 'dedicated' server hosting where do I stand with my small business (escort) website?

I can upgrade to 'dedicated' at any time apparently I just don't know whether I'll actually need it.

xx

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You're giving off a feeling (to me) that you are quite natural in your tastes? I don't know if you actually like hot 'n' sexy underwear and just don't have any at the moment or is that not really what you want anyway?

A picture still preserving your modesty could be nude with a sheet or something draped over you.

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Questions and Answers / Re: How long did it take...
« on: October 02, 2008, 06:48:49 PM »
I can't even believe that is accepted by the other doctors in a surgery. It's terrible.
Jo

Well, I guess times have changed and I'd actually rather know they felt that way (by a notice) as I think it'd be hard to be seen by someone who felt negatively toward me and if they feel they couldn't treat me impartially then it's something I'd rather know about; they have their reasons for how they feel and as long as other doctors feel differently I guess it just balances out.

It's reassuring to know at least a rape victim is offered something like this as routine.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Website Design
« on: October 02, 2008, 06:29:04 PM »
Hmm that didn't quite work as I'd hoped - can someone tell me how to not have the pink quote box cover the whole message?  :D I've tried out a few idea's and it's still there...

You just had one too many "quotes" in there. I've adjusted for you so it's easier to read. Hope that's okay.

Yes, I had thought that kinda happened but I couldn't seem to fix it thanks to Anika Mae's explanation I grasped how I'd gone wrong and you've fixed it for me, thanks x

BTW, I will definitely check out a few html tutorials - eek at the thought of doing my own site from scratch though!!!  :o  I always thought that'd be something I'd enjoy to do - I like doing anything that's fun so I will have a go at it.

Speaking of tutorials they have some online for grammar etc. I did have a go on a couple myself but I still don't necessarily grasp the techniques so end up getting loads wrong - these things become distant memories when you've not used them for many, many years...

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