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Questions and Answers / Re: Escorting, taxes and CRB checks
« on: Today at 07:16:57 AM »
Quote from: nat2013 on Today at 12:03:35 AM
Quote from: Strawberry on May 21, 2013, 08:04:33 AM
Quote from: Pierced Princess on May 21, 2013, 01:03:40 AM
Just an idea...

Anyone can apply for an enhanced CRB check certificate - working in some locations eg a school require that anyway so if you are worried about what information is held on you, maybe apply for one yourself, check all the details are accurate and update them if they are not.

That way, when it comes to the time you need one, you will be fully aware of what information is held.

Natalie xXx

I thought was was only the standard check you could apply for yourself.

Partway down this https://www.gov.uk/disclosure-barring-service-check/overview page it says "You can't do a criminal records check on yourself" then a bit lower "If you need to run a check on yourself, you can get a ‘basic disclosure’ with details of any unspent convictions from Disclosure Scotland (anywhere in the UK)."

I've recently been through an enhanced check and being me, read all I could about it. That page contains links to all sorts of questions you may have about the procedure.

Spot on the ball Strawberry!!

I looked into this myself.

You can not get the enhanced CRB details yourself.

What happens, you apply for a job. If it is a position which may require an ENHANCED CRB check. That requirement goes to the police commissioner who mays a judgement call on if that information needs to be disclosed. For example, a normal CRB check would not disclose information for anything you had been arrested for but not charged. An enhanced CRB check would may disclose that information.X

The local police force may decide to disclose information they deem relevant for an Enhanced check. There have been moves recently to tighten up on this because things that really weren't relevant were being added on. I don't think the commissioner gets bothered with these things!

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Questions and Answers / Re: Paying for SEO
« on: May 21, 2013, 03:10:29 PM »
Quote from: Alisha on May 21, 2013, 02:54:29 PM
Hi,
A quick question...
I often get emails from SEO companies promising to take care of the SEO of my site in return for a monthly fee.
I've never taken anybody up on their offer but wondered if any of you have? If so, is it worthwhile?
I think I'm pretty good at promoting my site but wonder if these specialist companies can do things that I can't?
Any thoughts please?
Thanks

I did this twice with a gap inbetween and apart from an initial improvement it didn't really make any difference overall (and I think I could have done that myself with a teeny bit of effort). The second company I used ceased trading half way through the 12 months I paid in advance for, and I never got my money back. That said my site didn't drop off and when I got a new website (thanks to another company letting me down) I decided not to bother again and just use my own knowledge instead of paying for something I could do myself. Lo and behold in a very short time I was back up there.

What tickles me is these SEO companies contact me offering front page listing, when I say "I'm already there, surely you know this being in the biz", they can only say "Uh, oh yeah, ah ok you're right" ::)and then stop there  ;D

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Questions and Answers / Re: Escorting, taxes and CRB checks
« on: May 21, 2013, 08:04:33 AM »
Quote from: Pierced Princess on May 21, 2013, 01:03:40 AM
Just an idea...

Anyone can apply for an enhanced CRB check certificate - working in some locations eg a school require that anyway so if you are worried about what information is held on you, maybe apply for one yourself, check all the details are accurate and update them if they are not.

That way, when it comes to the time you need one, you will be fully aware of what information is held.

Natalie xXx

I thought was was only the standard check you could apply for yourself.

Partway down this https://www.gov.uk/disclosure-barring-service-check/overview page it says "You can't do a criminal records check on yourself" then a bit lower "If you need to run a check on yourself, you can get a ‘basic disclosure’ with details of any unspent convictions from Disclosure Scotland (anywhere in the UK)."

I've recently been through an enhanced check and being me, read all I could about it. That page contains links to all sorts of questions you may have about the procedure.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Escorting, taxes and CRB checks
« on: May 19, 2013, 04:28:43 PM »
Quote from: sexy selina on May 19, 2013, 01:04:33 PM
oh dear.I had no idea that if you tell the police you are an escort that could come up on a crb check :( I thought it was just convictions,arrests and cautions.I wanted to be a barrister,I guess that's fucked that up now

Unless you get another occupation in the meantime and have reason to have contact with them again. I'd not give up, you never know what comes back they might not mention it. You can also dispute anything which is considered inaccurate.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Escorting, taxes and CRB checks
« on: May 19, 2013, 11:42:20 AM »
Quote from: pussycat on May 19, 2013, 09:52:02 AM
Quote from: Strawberry on May 19, 2013, 07:04:30 AM
Quote from: pussycat on May 19, 2013, 02:13:50 AM
Definitely do not register as an escort with HMRC if you are/training to become a medical professional, you can be struck off for 'bringing the profession into disrepute'.

I'd say it's more the actual doing the occupation, rather than what you tell HMRC that's going to give you that result - which is what  the OP needs to think carefully about in my above post.

Yes, but by telling HMRC you're an escort there's an increased chance of your employer finding out too.

As long as you are unrecognisable by how you blur or crop your face, and are careful not to disclose what you do to anyone you should be fine. I also make sure my photos could be passed off as nice underwear shots rather than obvious escorty ones, ie fingers in pants, topless etc. then if worst came to worst it'd be an easier hole to dig out of.

As far as I'm aware HMRC shouldn't be telling employers anything more than the TAX and NI coding required for PAYE, remainder is confidential stuff.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Escorting, taxes and CRB checks
« on: May 19, 2013, 07:04:30 AM »
Quote from: pussycat on May 19, 2013, 02:13:50 AM
Definitely do not register as an escort with HMRC if you are/training to become a medical professional, you can be struck off for 'bringing the profession into disrepute'.

I'd say it's more the actual doing the occupation, rather than what you tell HMRC that's going to give you that result - which is what  the OP needs to think carefully about in my above post.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Been a escort and having few body tattoos
« on: May 18, 2013, 07:22:15 PM »
Quote from: MissPretty on May 18, 2013, 01:19:50 PM
The ones i got are in my breast and arms areas :o

A bit more obvious then. I am so, so glad I never gave in to the urge to have a thigh tattoo. I'm definitely happy with my natural-state body now, and past the 'modification' stage.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Escorting, taxes and CRB checks
« on: May 18, 2013, 06:48:03 PM »
Quote from: ChrissieDavaar on May 18, 2013, 03:57:48 PM
Hi, I think your a bit confused the CRB (now called DBS) check is to do with any criminal convictions and as far as I'm aware has nothing to do with your taxes. You can put what ever you want down your employer would only know that you were self employed.

If the police know you are an Escort - say if you've told them in interview and it's part of the info they have on you, I can confirm that it may be included in the 'last known occupation' section of an enhanced DBS certificate. This has nothing to do with HMRC - as far as I'm aware DBS doesn't access HMRC information it's an Police intelligence check.

You do need to consider however that if you do go on into a sensitive profession, you need to be aware that some people do sometimes find out and that you always run the risk of being 'dobbed' in, or even worse blackmailed. If I were you I'd think ahead about how you would handle and deal with such a situation. In my opinion being prepared in advance just-in-case is well worth it.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Been a escort and having few body tattoos
« on: May 18, 2013, 01:06:02 PM »
I have a couple of tattoos but they are so small, and unoffensive they are barely noticeable, and only seen if I'm completely and utterly naked. Even then I have clients who on return visits say "Is that new?", that's how significant they are. For discretion reasons and because to say I'm tattooed could conjure up all sorts I tend to not mention them, or if I do make it clear they are very discrete and just limit them to a few private gallery photos.

Some men find tattoos a big turn on and if mine were significant I'd play them up, but they aren't and that would be misleading.

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Blather and Babble / Re: Stubble rash
« on: May 17, 2013, 09:20:35 PM »
If someone has harsh, rough stubble I will explain I can't kiss them as hard or intensely. It's also important to let a client know if he's pushing stubble into you during oral, they are usually very understanding when I explain it's like having your bits sandpapered.

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Blather and Babble / Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« on: May 17, 2013, 09:17:14 PM »
Quote from: nat2013 on May 17, 2013, 09:04:07 PM
Sorry folks if this has been covered before.

Since being on AW I have had several emails suggesting 'complimentary massages' - I have yet again recieved one today (detailed below)-

Hello Nat,
I am contacting you because I would like to offer you a complimentary (free) full body massage as an introductory offer.  My webpage is [link removed].  Please see my profile and feedback for details of my offering and for an idea of what you can expect.  The massage treatment (a total pamper) is perfect as a short and relaxing stress relieving break.

The introductory meeting would be for you to experience my massage and then decide whether you wish to book for further massage treatments (like try before you buy).  There is no obligation to continue after the initial treatment (you can have a one-off treatment, free of cost, if you should choose), though if you do decide to have further treatments, then I will offer special rates as I will value you as my client. 

Obviously, I have removed contact details for the poster. Has anyone had similar posts? Why, as an escort am I being contacted by a masseur? (cant spell-sorry!!). The poster may be 100% genuine (to which I apologise!) but I cant help my skeptical head  ???
XX

Because they think there's a desire for their services, that we are desperate for attention from males, and most probably to get a 'freebie' thinking they are doing you a favour.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Working with another girl
« on: May 17, 2013, 01:04:25 PM »
Quote from: Bbwtease22 on May 17, 2013, 11:09:23 AM
I have met a lady on adultwork, who like me is a bbw. She has just asked if we can meet and discus becoming "partners" doing bukake, gangbangs ect which I already offer.

Have you ever worked with another women? I need to discus with hubby first, but I'm in need of money and I think this will bring some in! X

I've never worked with someone else, and will not consider duos or couple bookings at my place - partly because of the legal implications, partly because working with anyone else would require a very high level of trust and I don't know anyone I'd want to work with.

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Questions and Answers / Re: love and lust
« on: May 17, 2013, 06:03:55 AM »
My advice is stop posting questions, read the articles on the main site and get on with it.

There are also numerous threads on here giving advice on relationships whilst being a sex worker, along with answers to most of the questions you have asked.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Giving Oral Without Risks
« on: May 17, 2013, 12:23:08 AM »
Quote from: meetingdiversity on May 16, 2013, 10:51:13 PM
Quote from: xw5 on May 16, 2013, 09:29:10 PM
Quote from: meetingdiversity on May 16, 2013, 09:12:50 PM
I would have thought that if only offered oral without that business would be very dead?. Only because many ask if do oral without. Are there ladies who are kept busy offering oral without only?.

There's a market of men who want OWO. There's a market of men who want OW. There's a bigger market of men who don't care either way.

A search will find some examples, including people like Amy who have gone from OWO to OW without noticeably losing client numbers as a result.

I would have thought that CIM only as I empty after is a low risk compared to swallowing. Am I wrong in thinking this way?.

I was under the impression stomach acid is a great defence, whereas holding it in the mouth against delicate mouth membranes whilst finding a suitable recepticle would result in higher risk.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Giving Oral Without Risks
« on: May 16, 2013, 09:03:01 PM »
The risk is supposed to be minimal but it's still there, so up to each individual how they chose to proceed. It's not just HIV a dose of chlamydia or gonorrhea isn't going to make a very good day or week for most people, let alone your business.

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