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Questions and Answers / Re: Escort mailing me for references about a client
« on: May 08, 2013, 09:10:01 AM »
I've provided references for clients, what makes it difficult is when they don't give enough detail to identify themselves. For example you'll get an email saying can you vouch for John from Rochdale(example!), well I might know several Johns, several guys from that town and need something more specific to go off. Sometimes clients will have contacted you by email using one name, then be using AW with a pseudonym and slightly different first name with the lady he's trying to book. Original phone number or email used to contact is what's required.

I was recently asked to verify a client for a US agency, did they send me any acknowledgement or thanks?No they didn't and I find that extremely rude(he'd not asked me either but that's not their fault).

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Questions and Answers / Re: General advice about escorting
« on: May 08, 2013, 07:11:01 AM »
Quote from: Chiara Thor on May 08, 2013, 03:27:07 AM
(1) How do I lose weight?
(2) How can I be more warm and friendly and less passionate and intense?
(3)How do I stay motivated to take care of my health, beauty and style?
(4) What is the proper health, beauty and style regimen for an escort?
(5) How do I know my client is an undercover police officer or another kind of person I shouldn't be engaging?
(6) What should I do if I fall in love with a client?

(1) Eat less than you expend in energy
(2) Just be friendly and treat others how you like to be treated yourself as a customer
(3) Respect yourself
(4) There isn't an official regime just make sure you are healthy and keep yourself clean
(5) Depends which country you are in in the UK prostitution is legal so doesn't matter if clients are police officers, screening clients by phone/email/text message helps weed out undesirable clients
(6) Depends on the situation but to be successful long term you need to remember this is a business relationship with no strings.

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Blather and Babble / Re: Renting spare room out
« on: May 07, 2013, 10:20:44 PM »
Quote from: Kimmy on May 07, 2013, 09:43:56 PM
I'm thinking of renting out my incall room when the bed is replaced, I will provide shower facilities also, how much would you charge for this? Would you charge per booking, per hour? I'm only wanting it used say 6 hours 8 at the most a day. Any advice on how I go about this and anything to consider before advertising it?

Thanks!

One consideration is that if you let another woman work from your place you will be running a brothel which is a criminal offence.

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Blather and Babble / Re: Client asks if he is my first that day
« on: May 03, 2013, 03:53:55 PM »
I would have replied saying it doesn't matter whether he is first or 21st, it wouldn't make any difference to his appointment.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Abroad with a client.
« on: May 03, 2013, 12:00:35 PM »
Quote from: firsttimer on May 03, 2013, 11:48:15 AM
Going to Marbs... Do I need anything for that?

I have my Hep B from a previous job and all my childhood ones.

Probably not, ask at your GP's surgery if they have a travel check-up service but within Europe you are usually safe. With the recent measles outbreak might be an idea to have an MMR jab. I was offered one by my GP as part of the travel check appointment, you might also want to check tetanus is up to day.

An emergency credit card is also a good idea, and a way to top up your phone.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Abroad with a client.
« on: May 03, 2013, 11:38:14 AM »
Quote from: firsttimer on May 03, 2013, 09:34:57 AM
It's less than two weeks away, and all booked (I have all the details by email so can double check all is as it should be).

Anyone got any advice on being prepared for being abroad with a client (regular)? Any tips appreciated! So far, on my list are-

Travellers Cheques, just so I have my own money if needed.
A phone that will work abroad.
Someone who knows all the details of my trip just in case anything does go wrong.
All the usual things in my 'bag of tricks' x 10.
The generic holiday things- passport, travel card, suncream, toothbrush and so on...

Should I be organising my own travel insurance as well as what is included in the booking?

Thanks!

EHIC card and yes you should be checking you have full insurance in case of accident or emergency. Have you also made sure any vaccinations required for said location are up to date?

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Blather and Babble / Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« on: May 02, 2013, 03:38:27 PM »
Ruth, are you near this city, ummm I'm well over a one hour's drive from there. Ok what's your waist size I like big girls?

I'm not your lady(I was polite enough to give my measurement and stipulate my figure 'type' before saying this).

Not quite sure how that call came about, but it's made me smile ::) ;D

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Blather and Babble / Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« on: May 02, 2013, 10:12:23 AM »
Quote from: Lady_Lust_XXX on May 02, 2013, 09:21:03 AM
Quote from: figa98 on May 02, 2013, 07:14:26 AM
Its not part of the job to enjoy sex, to give a good service, of course, but I do not have to enjoy it. I do not enjoy it but I am prepared to go through it as no other job could I earn this sort of money and give my family a good life. Simple as that.

You are right.  The service we give is far more important than the fact that we may not enjoy the sex.  The same goes for working in a shop or say a bank so I don't see how or why it would have more bearing on our mental or emotional health.  There are many people strong enough to totally separate themselves in the soul and mind for them not to be affected.

I'm sure many girls if not all would rather dislike a job at 120 GBP (approx) an hour than one at say 8 GBP an hour.  It's a no brainier for me anyway.

The trouble comes when someone isn't enjoying their job AND allows it to then affect how they do that job. I'm sure we've all been in customer situations where the staff really couldn't give two hoots, and it's horrible. Imagine paying £120, getting your kit off and getting that sort of attitude - you wouldn't be too happy at all.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Was it me or him?! First time concerns
« on: May 02, 2013, 10:05:16 AM »
I don't fake, if it happens it happens, if not then not.

Regards performance I find I have a mixture of experiences, much the same as with different partners in non-paid for sex-life. Clients want to feel nice and it's not about what is earth shattering for you.

I have a box of Andrex moist wipes by the bed and make a thing about carefully removing the condom, tying it in a knot, putting in the bin followed by giving him a wipe round myself. I find that much more personable than just handing them out.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Should you check in with regulars ever?
« on: April 30, 2013, 08:04:38 PM »
Quote from: bbwescortlondon89 on April 30, 2013, 07:58:55 PM
I agree with all of you, not to contact a client. Never.

When i was a beginner i was so naive i got a booking on aw and the man asked me to call him on his number to confirm the booking at xx time. I didnt realize the booking in time so when i wanted to confirm it, it was later than the timeframe he provided. Anyway i called the number and a woman answered the phone. So i didnt say nothng just disconnected the line. The woman called back and i told her i just dialled the wrong number am looking for my friend christina but its not her voice. I thought thats fine then forgot about it.well... this woman started texting me like crazy and calling me thousand other times that i am a liar she thinks i am his husband lover etc... she threathened me she will investigate where i live as mobile has gps and she will know where i live etc... she kept on fucking my brain and i didnt change number so i answered her call when i got fed up and told her that her hubby booked me and i am escort.she apologized then stopped calling. But omg... so annoying... and embarrassing... never contact client again... such a headache...

The other thing to realise is anyone can input anyone's number on AW the booking form. I've phoned numbers sent to me by email, "Please phone I'm in your area and would like to make an appointment", phoned the number and it's someone who doesn't have a clue, once or twice with female in the background saying "Who's that dear?". One chap said "Hmmm I've got a good idea who's sent this number". Of course could be fibbing and could be them on a wind up but all good reasons to make sure he's the one initiating contact by whatever method(also had email addresses sent which were incorrect, or malicious set ups).

Some guys think I'm being a bit off by it, but it would probably never occur to genuine guys that this does happen.

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Blather and Babble / Re: What goes through youre mind while having sex ?
« on: April 29, 2013, 12:37:21 PM »
It varies I'm usually thinking about what they or I am doing, is it time for condom, am I comfy, is there a better position, am I going to climax(to do so I have to be quite focused)?

Like anything you do regularly the mind does wander elsewhere, but I find keeping in the here and now generally makes it go faster and feel a lot better. I don't like it if I've zoned out because to me it means I'm not fully aware of what's happening, and that he might pick up on it.

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Questions and Answers / Re: How did you come up with your working name
« on: April 28, 2013, 08:47:33 PM »
Strawberry started out as a nickname after the colour of my hair.

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Blather and Babble / Re: Lol at guys finding me on dating websites!
« on: April 28, 2013, 01:27:32 PM »
Quote from: MissKylie on April 28, 2013, 11:33:09 AM
Quote from: KinkyVixen on April 26, 2013, 03:59:59 PM
Quote from: Strawberry on April 25, 2013, 07:41:10 PM
I tried internet dating, gave up because the amount of TWs, silly and rude people on there just made me think I get paid for dealing with this elsewhere and don't need to have it in my personal life.



and that is why gave up on them too !!!
It's very difficult when you are in this industry to socialise like a normal person would though. I have a few close friends but I've always been very independent and someone that keeps to herself. It makes a nice change sometimes to meet up with someone new and just have a laugh. I'm open to the possibility of a realationship however, I just don't think it would work wile doing this.

I don't socialise much locally, I stay in a lot but do have a few close friends and have built up friends and contacts in different places by going to different events, some of which I've done completely on my own. If you are independent you'll not bat an eyelid at going off and finding things you are interested in.

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Questions and Answers / Re: Money Transfer for loan - So stuck!!
« on: April 28, 2013, 04:23:57 AM »
Is this a client you have asked to help you out?

I don't think it's a very good idea to accept loans from clients, and if I was lending someone money I'd want to know their real details. I mean what's to tie you to him if you can't or decide not to pay?It's not fair and could go horribly wrong.

Sounds like an easy way out but unless you can guarantee 100% (which I very much doubt) that you can pay this back, I think there's potential for someone to be taken advantage of here.

Also another reason not to take out payday type loans with high interest, I'm sure the repayment information was provided to make you aware how much you'd have to pay. It's just not worth it unless you definitely have the readies (in which case you'd not be borrowing).

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Questions and Answers / Re: How To Prevent Water-infections during bookings?.
« on: April 27, 2013, 08:22:26 PM »
Quote from: meetingdiversity on April 27, 2013, 08:05:57 PM
Is anyone else prone to water infections more since escorting?. Is there any precautions that can help safe guard against this during bookings?. Although trying my best but it's still happening.  Any helpful suggestions appreciated.

No.

I do remember having cystitis once in my late teens and wouldn't wish it on anyone. The cranberry juice cure everyone trots out isn't supposed to be actually as miraculous as it's made out to be. I would guess that usual stuff re avoiding mixing fingers from back to front, not using harsh soap products, making sure you have enough lube and don't allow rough handling would probably be the recommendations.

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