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Messages - Shelly ISVA

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Questions and Answers / Re: Where to put my money?
« on: March 31, 2011, 12:19:02 AM »
Right folks-apologies for lengthy tome but here is the advice from HMRC for sex workers!

"why tax? Why me? This is meant to explain WHY you should pay tax, WHO should pay tax, HOW to register and HOW TO COMPLY with the basic legal requirements of self assesment and national insurance"

Tax collecting-the worlds 3rd oldest profession (prostitution & spying are reputedly the 1st & 2nd respectively)

If you do become tax registered benefits can include:

* Financial security
* Support a mortgage or loan application
* Financial history for new job/career
* Tax credits/benefits
* Pension
* PEACE OF MIND
No one likes to pay tax-not even the tax man but... If you do not register:
* someone might shop you
* you might break the law
* you may face a fine or penalty
* you may get a criminal record
* you may get a surprise visit from the taxman
Could you save money?
Often where once benefits have been stopped, the worker has become registered for tax and the benefits reworked that they find they are better off. Obviously not always true but where tax credits aome in as a top up to the other benefits, then it is possible. Also by registering for tax you are automatically registering for national insurance. This will be beneficial as contributions at Class 2 will count towards-basic state pensions, incapacity benefits, maternity allowance and bereavement benefits. Every case is unique so the message here is that it could save you money in the long run and if HMRC have to come to you, remember that you could have fines and penalties to pay on top of the tax on your income.

Local education teams run seminars throughout the UK covering 'becoming self employed' 'self assesment' go to www.hmrc.gov/bst/index.htm

Also there are business advice seminars, more info at www.businessadviceday.gov.uk

Consider also business link who can help with tax advice and national insurance & all aspects of working for yourself www.businesslink.gov.uk/bdotg/action/home

There are loads of expenses allowable (for example hotel fees, adverts, rent, taxis, car costs)that you can claim for so you can often end up paying very little tax-my advice would always be get a good accountant (and you can claim that too!)

Hope this helps

Shelly

and you can be 'an alternative therapist', masseur, home help, hatever you want to call yourself is fine!

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Hey there

The info I am legally allowed to share is as follows:

1st incident-december 2010, robbery & rape in premises in Liverpool. White British Male, light brown hair closely cropped, looks about 17-18 years old, thick eyebrows with slightly droopy eyes, slim build, scar on face, blue eyes

2nd incident-outcall from premises january 2011, rape and held against will in Liverpool area, White male, 40's, thick set with receeding dark hair, 6 foot tall, businessman

Shelly

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Thanks for that Ian, the police actually supplied the offence data but I will go back to them & check? Would hate to give inacurate info

'Obtaining services by deception' is now not on the statute as it comes under fraud now but its quite right that if you are given dud cheques etc there is a legal way to get redress

Phoning the police on you!! That made me laugh, as you say, you werent doing anything illegal so good on them for making him pay you.

Shelly

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Questions and Answers / Re: Where to put my money?
« on: March 30, 2011, 11:44:48 AM »
I have had a few messages about the post so I will get all the info together and post later today

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Questions and Answers / Re: Where to put my money?
« on: March 30, 2011, 12:31:33 AM »
I have a contact in HMRC (tax office) who has given me a great pack advising sex workers on how to pay tax safely. Pm me if you need more advice

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To any liverpool working ladies

Since december, we have had 3 reports of rape off street. 1 in a parlour, 1 doing an outcall from a parlour and 1 working independently from a flat

this is extremely unusual so please dont worry, I just wanted to make you aware and see if anyone has any info about these events?

We know that they are all unrelated incidents as we have dna from the first 2 events and they are not related. The 3rd woman wouldnt see the police...the first did and then withdrew, the 2nd is going ahead with prosecution for rape

If anyone has had anything happen or has any information, please pm me as there are investigations underway. I will not tell anyone where i got the info from.

I will ask the police if i can circulate the descriptions from the first two attacks on here to give you a heads up but we cant give too much info as we could predjudice the cases

Take care out there
Shelly x

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Warnings & Wasters / Offences in UK Law-just for your guideance girlys
« on: March 29, 2011, 09:32:52 PM »
Hello there lovelies

I have been asked a few legal questions lately so have put together the following info to just make everyone aware of some things that folks arent generally aware of in relation to offences that people perpetrate and the laws that are available to prosecute them under.

OFFENCE CATAGORIES -LEGAL STATUTES 

Assault
Section 18 Wounding
Section 20 Grievous Bodily Harm
Section 47 Actual Bodily Harm
All above from Offences against the Person Act 1861
Section 39 of Criminal Justice Act 1988-Common assault

Assault with a gun: Firearms Act 1968 contains firearms offences- other assaults as above

Assault with a knife: Offensive Weapon Prevention of Crime Act 1953 section 1(1)

Assault with other weapon See 1861 Act or Prevention of Crime Act 1953 section 1(1)

Strangulation   : Section 21 Offences against the Person Act 1861

Thrown from vehicle / kidnapping (Common Law) see also 1861 Act for assaults

Stalking / Harassment Sections 1(1) and 2 of the Protection from Harassment Act 1997
Section 32(1)(a) of the Crime and Disorder Act
See also Public Order Act 1986
Section 4 Threatening behaviour
Section 5 Causing Harassment alarm or distress
If you are experiencing harassment/stalking-please contact me as there is a free, legal remedy that can be actioned very quickly without you needing to pay for solicitors

Refusal to pay    No legislation there sadly ...making off without payment Theft Act
1978 does not apply to sex industry. Theft does though!!! 1968 Theft Act.

Vaginal rape using penis
Section 1 Sexual Offences Act 2003 (Rape)

Vaginal rape using hand   
Section 2 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Assault by penetration

Vaginal rape using object   
Section 2 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Assault by penetration

Anal rape using penis
Section 1 Sexual Offences Act 2003 (Rape)

Anal rape using hand
Section 2 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Assault by penetration

Anal rape using object
Section 2 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Assault by penetration
Kiss/suck/lick mouth or face
Section 3 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Sexual Assault

Kiss/suck/lick breast or chest
Section 3 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Sexual Assault

Kiss/suck/lick other part of body
Section 3 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Sexual Assault

Fondle breast/buttock/genital
Section 3 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Sexual Assault

Masturbate self
Outraging Public Decency- Common Law 
Exposure- Section 66 of the Sexual Offences Act 2003

Oral rape (penis in mouth)
Section 1 Sexual Offences Act 2003 (Rape)

Oral sex of vagina (forced cunnilingus)
 Section 2 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Assault by penetration

Anal-oral contact
Section 2 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Assault by penetration

Urination / Defecation (weeing or pooing)
Outraging Public Decency Common Law or Section 3 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Sexual Assault

Ejaculation on face or body 
Section 3 Sexual Offences Act 2003 Sexual Assault

Hate crime - Whorephobia

Hate crime - Transphobia

Hate crime - Homophobia

Hate crime - Racism         

 For all hate crimes the substantive offence applies and hate crime relates to the victim perception and police responses

Abduction / took you away Kidnapping (Common Law)
See also 1861 Act for assaults False Imprisonment (Common Law)
Abduction relates to the taking of a child

Robbery (Items taken :) 
Robbery/Assault with Intent to Rob Section 81(1) and (2) of the Theft Act 1968

Hope this is useful-please pm me if you need any info, help or advice

Shelly xx

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Warnings & Wasters / Re: Possible peadophile in Essex
« on: February 23, 2011, 12:34:54 AM »
anything to do with kids needs to be noted as sometimes-this is part of the build up for them. You can always pm me & i can anonymously report it on your behalf ladies x

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Warnings & Wasters / Re: Assulted By Client Norwich Norfolk.
« on: February 23, 2011, 12:32:59 AM »
Mak, how awful for you-I hope you are ok....

totally echo what amy & leeds escort have said, dont beat yourself up-we are all human & make mistakes, its life & sh** happens...

If you are feeling up to it, you can contact a local isva and have a chat? If you let me know what area you are in, i will put you in touch with your local contact.

Also, please think about reporting it formally as this guy clearly is a risk to all working ladies. If you need help with this-pm me & will do whatever I can. If you cant, do post a warning on here to warn all the other ladies

What happened to you is in law-attempted rape, its a crime and you have rights

Big loves & stay safe

Shelly x

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Warnings & Wasters / Re: Possible peadophile in Essex
« on: February 15, 2011, 11:54:59 PM »
This is awful Sammy...did you report it anywhere else?

I would be happy to put it anonymously into police intelligence as to me, this is a big child protection issue

Take care

Shelly x

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Warnings & Wasters / Re: assaulted in leeds
« on: February 15, 2011, 11:52:02 PM »
Well done leeds escort!!! What an amazing, brave woman you are + women everywhere are safer today because of YOU!!!

Please ladies, if ever anything like this happens to you-contact me or Joan at Genesis-(she has a page on here too) for advice, if you are in our areas we can work with you directly but we can also point out people like us in other area who specialise in supporting sex workers who are attacked

we will support you through the whole thing-from report to court & make sure you get what you need.We woudl insist on special measures, work to protect your identity etc

We are here for you only-use us  :)

Shelly x

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Warnings & Wasters / Re: assaulted in leeds
« on: February 15, 2011, 11:46:27 PM »
Most forces have this kind of thing Emily-which is great news!

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Questions and Answers / Re: Wheelchair Bound Client
« on: February 06, 2011, 06:55:26 PM »
Have a look at http://www.tlc-trust.org.uk/advice/index.php

its a great site with lots of really good tips x

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Questions and Answers / Re: councillor for sex workers
« on: February 01, 2011, 01:45:32 AM »
Mia

Hope your'e ok. PM me and I can link you up wherever you are with some support x

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Sex Work Projects / Support for Sex Workers in Merseyside
« on: January 29, 2011, 08:38:30 PM »
Hiya folks

My name is Shelly and I work as a Specialist Independent Sexual Violence Advisor for Sex Workers in Liverpool although I cover the whole of Merseyside. I was the first person in the UK to do this role and have been helping sex workers get justice since 2006 but doing outreach much longer than that!

I work with any sex worker who has experienced violence or abuse (including domestic violence) whether they are working on-street, off street or escorting.

I offer support from the off, basically working to support clients from 'report to court'. I have excellent relationships with the police and always ensure we get fantastic cops to look after my clients!

I can help you in the following ways:

* help to report crimes against you to the police (if you want to report to the police!)
* take you for a forensic medical examination (with Dr's who are all experienced in working with sex workers & really understand the issues)- you can do this regardless of whether you want to report to the police
* take Ugly Mug/Dodgy Punter info from you-I manage the Ugly Mugs scheme for Merseyside
* help you to access emergency GUM, PEPS, contraception, terminations or pregnancy support
* provide you with personal safety information & alarms
* provide you with free condoms, lube, dams etc
* have 1-1 sessions or via email
*invite you to personal safety classes (free!)
* take you to court for a look around
* take you to court & support you if you proceed with a prosecution
* put measures in place to hide your identity at court
* access you into FREE counselling in Liverpool or Sefton or Wirral-not time limited
* link you into lots of other free services around housing, benefits, training, routes out etc
* keep you informed and updated at all times about your case

Feel free to get in touch, Im also happy to offer guideance to people outside of Merseyside or answer any questions via pm

Take care out there

Shelly x

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