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Felt fat/and it just been confirmed that i am
naughtyjas:
Some clients are just idiots, we cannot deny that. So Sadie has put on half a stone, big deal. It's that fact that sometimes when we feel insecure about ourselves it comes across in our body language, without realising it. Clients pick up on it and as we all know the tiny minority of hardened punters will take great joy in pointing it out.
Now if you were feeling great, hadn't put any weight on, and that client said that you would have been mad and called him a time waster etc, but because you had put on a tiny little bit of weight his comment hit you where it hurt.
Don't the media say that the camera add 10lbs? So the photos can't be that different.
Sadie I know it's hard sometimes, but chin up, he's the only client who said that. Everyone else has been okay haven't they? We all have fat days, bad hair days, spot on the end our nose days and if a client was to walk, we'd all feel that it was due to that, not the fact that he was a tosser with no balls who bottled it.
If you do feel like you need new pictures get them done as soon as you can.
Hope you have a better day today.
ParisB:
I have had guys walk in the past none recently and not for the past year at least i think but when i used to advertise in the papers also when your touring you do get all the asshole that come out from under the woodwork especially in ireland
i think that if you don't look like your pictures then its to be expected that guys will walk or write a unfavourable review at some point
I get mine done every 3 months or so and make sure that i put the date that they were taken on my website so that guys can see it I'm defiantly not slim but i advertise myself as ebony escort with a fabulous 34DD sexy curvy figure so that there is no mistake that i have tits and ass and I'm not a stick insect
orchidperfume:
some one turned up and said i was too big, i stated honestly in my profile im a size 12 with 34GG bust.
I told him he should read the profiles and not waste peoples time in future by just calling the mobile number. I felt fat and self concious .If i loose alot of weight id look good but my breasts sags and looks bad with stretch marks so I need to maintain certain weight which isnt easy. No more pork pies for me, back to the gym and try to improve myself !!!!
Lady_Lust_XXX:
Doesnt matter what we do, we cant suit ALL of the people ALL of the time, no matter what we do. ::) If you are happy with yourself that is what matters most of all.
Kimmy:
--- Quote from: sadie x on July 09, 2012, 09:29:25 AM ---
--- Quote from: Jan10 on July 09, 2012, 09:16:24 AM ---I think he was not in the wrong at all if you didn't look after your health as you said and put on weight what do you expect? You can't expect him to be happy booking someone he isn't going to get on with, he is the customer and has the right to expect you to be the slim girl in the pic as you advertised other wise that is false advertising. Also to tell him that he would have to pay a cancellation fee of £20.00, why should he when you had a pic of yourself smaller than you are, if he had messed you about with no explanation then apply the fine.
If he was very rude to you fair enough but it seems he was very reasonable baring in mind that he travelled to see you and wasn't happy, we can't have it both ways. Put yourself in his shoes you had booked an escort, travelled to see him thinking he was good looking and had a six pack etc. and he turned out to be a couple of stone overweight and not really a looker I am sure you wouldn't want to continue the booking.
You are also very lucky that he didn't lash out at you for shoving him out the door, there are men that would have done that. There is nothing wrong in gaining weight but in this job if the client has pics of you looking one way and books you to see you looking the opposite of course there is going to be a level of disappointment, at least he didn't hurl abuse at you for wasting his time.
Sorry if I sound like I am being harsh I just think you was in the wrong. It isn't nice having a walkout but if it is down to your profile showing you to be a slim girl then expect clients not to be happy seeing a heavier girl when they meet you, that's the way some of them viewing profiles see things.
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thanks!!great post to wake up too!!
im not sure what you mean about asking for money?i never asked for anything!!
by the way im not ugly and im not a huge blob!ive put on aroung half a stone..
and yes everyone else i think i will get a few shots while im here and mention curvy on profile..in BIG CAPITALS..
x
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Personally I think that post was overtly harsh and nasty, half a stone is nothing and putting on that small amount of weight you can often not even notice it! Nevermind think you need to start suddenly advertising yourself as a BBW
I had one client turn up who was a young cage fighter he was also a prick and kept going on about how 'i looked nice on the pictures' and hinting he'd wasted £120 coming to see me, the guy was a muppet as I was the same weight and have never had anyone say anything like this before, I was 18 at the time and took his bad attitude to heart, he also kept showing me pics of his ex throughout the meeting who funnily enough was nothing special herself and I came to the conclusion he was a heartbroken twat and no girl would have compared to his ex
this is why I update my gallery weekly so that client knows what i look like, some days I look rougher than others but this is evidenced from the vast amount of pics
When I see a girls profile who has about 5 pics altogether all very professional looking i always assume that in real life she probably wont look just like that, imo a few pics arnt sufficient enough to show what you really look like especially if they are edited professional ones
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