Felt fat/and it just been confirmed that i am

[sadie x]

Second guy comes to see me,just started new tour..
he came in room,didnt look inpressed said "you look different to pictures"
(i can assure you its me,no airbrushing)just nice lighting..
so im very insecure and say its me in pictures..
so as he turns to open door,i pust him very hard out of door way..in temper(i know this is wrong)
but im feeling so bad about myself at moment,i even said loudly I REALLY DONT NEED THIS,as i pushed him..
so 5 mins after he left,i text saying tw and what makes you so special?petty i know!!
he replyed "your a very heavy girl"not like pictures sorry"
so now feel like i cant carry on..i know ive put weight on,but to get someone walk out cus of it,didnt realise i was so much bigger than pictures..

the most annoying thing..is i had decided to start looking after myself stop drinking,eating rubbish and be healthy..
but now im just paranoid about the next booking..how can i be confident after that comment?when i already felt bad enough






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[LouLou37]

Oh  and  for you.

It was really crass of him to say that. Even if he actually thought that, if he was in any way a nice or decent person he would have used an excuse or said he bottled out or something.

And one comment from one person does not CONFIRM anything. x x x x

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

Sadie, don't dwell on what one twat says. 

Forget him and move on or it will affect your whole tour.

After the way your last tour went I feel that you are maybe pushing yourself a little far and sound as though there is a sign of burn out which is usually cured by getting yourself away from things for a while and relaxing and forgetting all about work - even if it means penny pinching for a while, for your health is far more important than the wealth. 

[Miss Moneypenny]

Fannies to him! If he was so hot himself, he could go into any bar and be fighting girls off with a stick. Instead, the only way this saddo can get a girl to drop her drawers is by getting his wallet out!

I was booked for a two girl last night, and the other escort looked like a model...long blonde hair, really pretty, catwalk figure etc etc and I felt like a right dumpy dork in comparison. Anyway, to my utter surprise, he ended up sending her home early and booking extra time with me instead. He said although she looked good, she was obviously going through the motions and he preferred me as I was down to earth, funny, and he knew he'd get a far better service from me.

So it just goes to show that being a skinny minny isn't guaranteed to keep the bookings rolling in. These girls might get a lot of initial interest, but if they are obviously bored and clearly don't enjoy it, or at least make a good job of PRETENDING to enjoy the job, the guys never go back again.

It's a bit different of you are on tour as you as seen as being new to the area, and they don't really get the chance to see your personality, but I bet your regulars back home will be glad  when you return x

[Strawberry]

If you let stuff like this get to you it'll come across in your attitude and attract similar comments from those who like to make the most of insecurities. Get some nice lingerie and think sexy. In the meantime if you do want to lose weight, and get fit then just get on with it at your own pace. Changing bodyshape takes time, and yes it's frustrating but people do start noticing and you do start to feel better and that's when it pays off.

[clover]

If you do agree with him in the back of your mind that your appearence has changed since your photos were taken, maybe it wouldn't be a bad move to take some new ones?

[freyja.g]

That's awful, this job is really stressful as it makes you feel you must look perfect all the time. But in the end being a good escort/sexual service provider is about so many other things too, just like Miss Moneypenny's experience shows, so take pride in the things that make you a great escort besides looks and highlight them in your website/profile.

If you feel like you've put on weight since you took your photos, maybe you could take some new pics that show your current figure? That way all the guys who come to see you are there because they like the curvier look and you don't have to worry about it. In the end a lot of guys like women with curvy feminine figures!

You could also try some fun exercise classes, which are great both for losing weight and feeling good & confident! After dance classes I am always so full of energy and feel like the sexiest woman on earth... There are many fitness classes that also build skills that are useful for work, like pole dancing or striptease aerobics.

[sadie x]

thankyou everyone..
in a way he done me a favour,i have put weight on,im curvy anyway..
but even im starting to see my arms getting bigger and they have always been thin..
so thanks (arse hole!)whats making me angry with my self is..
if i had just gone on treadmill for half hour each day when i was home,i wouldnt be feeling like this..i do take really well to exercise and see results quickly,but as i know this,i just carry on drinking lager and shoveling food in my mouth,because i know i can turn it around fairly quickly!
so in one way its a bad thing!
and ive decided next time off and im going stop the drinking and start a health kick,for 3 weeks (hopefully if i can afford)and sort my self out..then come back confident and happy,with my self..
then a guy like that wouldnt affect me as much..x x x

[bananamuffin]

just goes to show that being a skinny minny isn't guaranteed to keep the bookings rolling in

In my one booking last week (just the one lol!!) the guy really liked the fact that my bottom was quite firm, but with the right amount of squishy!!! Hurrah - I shall keep eating the huge portion sizes that I'm not meant to have then, thanks!!!!!

Your punter probably WAS bottling - but had to come up with a reason - so he picked on something that was aimed at you.

Forget about him I say. His loss.

[suggestivealexis]

 
i had my one and only regular tell me last time that i need to loose weight, grrrrr. cumon now tell mesomething i don't know. altho i'm now with an agency as well as independant. it has been dead recently. not great when my gorgeous friend (not a big mama like myself) is fightin them off with a barge pole.
ah well c'est la vie

xx

[Mellow]

If anyone told me I was too fat, too thin, too anything I would tell them where to go.

If they don't like how I look they can walk.

After all do most of them look or act like sex gods? No.  So good riddance to them I say.

[sadie x]

its so true..ive noticed every time a guys walked out on me,they have either been Mr boring or fat thereselves!!luckily ive just seen a lovely man,strange cus he was very thin,complete opposite!
and he did nothing but complement me..
but i am going to start been healthy,just for myself and the way i feel about my self..
i think we all know deep down,that if a man can be that shallow,over putting a few pounds on,he a prick anyhow,im just glad i take the person for there personality and that im deeper than a puddle!

[Escort38]

Oh how soul destroying to have a man walk out on you! It has never happened to me. I can only add
that having totally honest pictures of yourself is the way to do it. We would all like to have the perfect
face and figure but if we haven't then showing pictures of how we used to look is not going to be good for business.

The best thing to do is have some flattering but honest photos done to show how you really look and then as others have
said you will attract the men who like what they see and will still like what they see when they meet you.

You (or others) commented on the guys and how they look, ie. overweight and unattractive etc but really that is not relevant.
We do not need to find the guys attractive but let us be honest, the men have to like what they see first, men go by the visual
stimulation initially, they have to have that first spark before the rest of the good service follows.

[Mellow]

We do not need to find the guys attractive but let us be honest, the men have to like what they see first, men go by the visual
stimulation initially, they have to have that first spark before the rest of the good service follows.

Well that goes without saying but guys like this use this kind of thing as an excuse and in doing so just reveal how unpleasant they really are. The issue here was more about this guys attitude, even if you think that, theres just no need to say it, other than being plain mean.

Also if its a regular as one other girl mentioned, then, he knew damm well what she looked like in the first place, so thats even meaner!

[suggestivealexis]

yep, absolute muppet. i did tell him about himself, as obv he was a goddess, not heard off him since, hmmm, cant say im gutted.