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Lil Lolita

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Regular client taking the piss! How to put him straight?
« on: 28 July 2012, 04:32:11 pm »
I am on holiday just now and my regulars know this. Some have texted to say they are looking forward to me returning.

However, I have one who I literally could just strangle for being a total prat (this is the same guy who I posted about who kept on wanting more and more and knackering me). He texted and asked if I had a tan. I replied with yep. Then the cheeky sod asked for free pics! I replied that a) my phone was not equipped to do this and b) he knows the score about this. Then the idiot replied with "email one then".

I have already had a so called SD cancel on me and waste my time, wanting free sex, so I told him where to go, now I have this guy.

Money is very tight at the minute, and I simply cant afford to be picky (unless of course, they are very aggressive and nasty). I will be asking for my old job back at the sauna for when I return at the end of next week as I really am skint.

I wouldnt say this client is nasty but he does grate on my nerves with stupid requests and pushes boundaries occasionally (but again, nothing dangerous, just likes to chance his luck such as what I mention!)

Has anyone else ever had a regular who has gone like this? What did you do?

kizzie

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Re: Regular client taking the piss! How to put him straight?
« Reply #1 on: 28 July 2012, 05:30:52 pm »
I think regulars can get like this. Familiarity breeds if not contempt, the urge,to push it.,personally id ignore any contact that isn't regarding a specific booking and when he says 'wots up' or tries again ignore requests & reply 'sorry, bit busy. Did you want to book?'

lady c

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Re: Regular client taking the piss! How to put him straight?
« Reply #2 on: 28 July 2012, 05:53:57 pm »
I have stopped seeing two or three as they became too familiar after just four or five meets assuming i must be falling for them and other things. Don,t see him again or just like the lady above said just book .

Liverbird

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Re: Regular client taking the piss! How to put him straight?
« Reply #3 on: 28 July 2012, 07:31:29 pm »
If he's a 'texter' and doesn't actually ring you, just ignore the texts and when you get home text him to say that you're phone battery went flat and you forgot to take the charger for that phone. He won't be any the wiser!
 

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Re: Regular client taking the piss! How to put him straight?
« Reply #4 on: 29 July 2012, 07:38:58 am »
When this happens to me, I demote them back to'stranger/not met yet' in my phone and they lose the right to text me again.

I have a standard template text I send out to all Texters I haven't met, telling them that 'due to the large volume of texts received, I am unable to respond to texts, please call'. I loosen this once I have met them, but only if their next text is solely to arrange a booking.
 
The annoying clients will think this is the way you now operate and will either get off their lazy bums to call or ( more likely) move on to get free kicks from someone more obliging.. :P
 

curvygrace

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Re: Regular client taking the piss! How to put him straight?
« Reply #5 on: 31 July 2012, 02:08:17 pm »
super good advice phoenix, i may start doing this!!

Escort38

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Re: Regular client taking the piss! How to put him straight?
« Reply #6 on: 31 July 2012, 04:34:39 pm »
When clients get cheeky or overstep the line in any way I give them a chance
to redeem themselves but if they persist in annoying me or trying to get too close
then I just stop answering calls or say I am not available when they want to see me.

Eventually they realise what is going on and ease off but there is one guy who I have
told quite clearly I will not see again yet every few weeks he starts texting me again.
He is wasting his own time as I don't even acknowledge him or respond to his messages.

ladyjennaj

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Re: Regular client taking the piss! How to put him straight?
« Reply #7 on: 03 August 2012, 10:01:11 am »
I always say 'Make a booking, or stop texting me.'  :-X