What are your client screening procedures?

[meetingdiversity]

I've have perfectly nice clients between the ages of 18 and 25 book and turn up without any problems.  They tend to phone or email, make a booking just like anyone else. Often their age isn't apparent until they arrive and all has been fine. On the other hand I've had very flaky 30 somethings. I do find those who state "I'm 18/21 or whatever" in their first contact do tend to be those who then go on to be pretty flaky, start haggling/be demanding and generally behaving in a very off-putting manner. I don't know why that is it's as if they already know themselves they are going to be difficult or using it as some excuse to behave badly.

I totally believe there are decent younger clients out there. It's just not for me, even in my personal life lol!

I found the younger they are equals more of a chance of being a time waster. So now only prefer seeing the 30 plus and older married men.

So do you ask their age at point of enquiry?

No put on my profile for the mature 30 plus. Although some younger ones do get through but not many.

[sade]

I've have perfectly nice clients between the ages of 18 and 25 book and turn up without any problems.  They tend to phone or email, make a booking just like anyone else. Often their age isn't apparent until they arrive and all has been fine. On the other hand I've had very flaky 30 somethings. I do find those who state "I'm 18/21 or whatever" in their first contact do tend to be those who then go on to be pretty flaky, start haggling/be demanding and generally behaving in a very off-putting manner. I don't know why that is it's as if they already know themselves they are going to be difficult or using it as some excuse to behave badly.

I totally believe there are decent younger clients out there. It's just not for me, even in my personal life lol!

I found the younger they are equals more of a chance of being a time waster. So now only prefer seeing the 30 plus and older married men.

So do you ask their age at point of enquiry?

No put on my profile for the mature 30 plus. Although some younger ones do get through but not many.

I always ask the age, but not in roder to reject someone, except for the under aged, of course, but I just need to ask...every single person...never had problems for asking..

[Brown Eyed Girl]

Words like 'love'/'babe' etc. do grate on me (I hate bfs calling me this too) but it's hardly malicious and I wouldn't not see anyone for simply using this term. If I was going to get fussy about language and elocution I wouldn't be seeing anyone who had that little inflection at the end of their sentences either (you know the one where they sound like they're asking a question  ).

I agree. Nobody ever died after been called ?babe? or ?darling? and you?ll note I didn?t say this was a deal breaker. There was humour in my response? But I do think it?s worth bearing in mind the way in which the phrase is used or the tone used is important. For example; if it?s said by somebody who sounds drunk or lecherous, or I get the feeling they mean it in a disrespectful way, then I think that?s not on. If it?s a nice guy, who in all other ways is fine, and is perhaps trying to compensate for nerves by being a bit too friendly, then that?s a different matter. 

[TeenKylie]

I've have perfectly nice clients between the ages of 18 and 25 book and turn up without any problems.  They tend to phone or email, make a booking just like anyone else. Often their age isn't apparent until they arrive and all has been fine. On the other hand I've had very flaky 30 somethings. I do find those who state "I'm 18/21 or whatever" in their first contact do tend to be those who then go on to be pretty flaky, start haggling/be demanding and generally behaving in a very off-putting manner. I don't know why that is it's as if they already know themselves they are going to be difficult or using it as some excuse to behave badly.

I totally believe there are decent younger clients out there. It's just not for me, even in my personal life lol!

I found the younger they are equals more of a chance of being a time waster. So now only prefer seeing the 30 plus and older married men.

So do you ask their age at point of enquiry?

Yes if I'm in any doubt that they are under 25, but I generally get them to make the online booking anyway and it usually says their age on their profile.

[Brown Eyed Girl]

Yes if I'm in any doubt that they are under 25, but I generally get them to make the online booking anyway and it usually says their age on their profile.

The info on there is not always accurate....

[sade]

I ask the age, not to turn them down, but I like to know what to expect...I don't know if makes sense to anyone but me....

[TeenKylie]

I ask the age, not to turn them down, but I like to know what to expect...I don't know if makes sense to anyone but me....

Yes definitely. I have asked on occasion just because like you said it's nice to know what to expect.

[TeenKylie]

Yes if I'm in any doubt that they are under 25, but I generally get them to make the online booking anyway and it usually says their age on their profile.

The info on there is not always accurate....

Yes I appreciate that. I very rarely get men under 30 wanting to see me anyway.

[TeenKylie]

I don't discriminate on age or for any other intrinsic attribute. About 30% of my booking are the 21-30 range and I've never noticed a (negative) difference with these clients.

Words like 'love'/'babe' etc. do grate on me (I hate bfs calling me this too) but it's hardly malicious and I wouldn't not see anyone for simply using this term. If I was going to get fussy about language and elocution I wouldn't be seeing anyone who had that little inflection at the end of their sentences either (you know the one where they sound like they're asking a question  ).

The only thing you can do is take everyone on their own merits. Sweeping generalisations and assumptions don't tend to get anyone very far.

Daisy I'm really not making sweeping generalisations. I just don't feel comfortable with young guys even if they are respectful ect. It's just a personal preference. I did say that maybe the accent speech thing came across abit harsh, but I didn't mean it as black and white as that.

[TeenKylie]

I've have perfectly nice clients between the ages of 18 and 25 book and turn up without any problems.  They tend to phone or email, make a booking just like anyone else. Often their age isn't apparent until they arrive and all has been fine. On the other hand I've had very flaky 30 somethings. I do find those who state "I'm 18/21 or whatever" in their first contact do tend to be those who then go on to be pretty flaky, start haggling/be demanding and generally behaving in a very off-putting manner. I don't know why that is it's as if they already know themselves they are going to be difficult or using it as some excuse to behave badly.

I totally believe there are decent younger clients out there. It's just not for me, even in my personal life lol!

I found the younger they are equals more of a chance of being a time waster. So now only prefer seeing the 30 plus and older married men.

Married men are my favourite clients. You both know exactly what to expect from one other, and they generally take discretion much more seriously.

[aya]

I don't discriminate on age or for any other intrinsic attribute

it's nothing to do with discrimination it's about feeling safe
it's like if I only wanted to meet white men, I wouldn't be racist it's just pref

[Dani]

So do you ask their age at point of enquiry?

I would find it quite rude to ask their age unless they sounded very young and then I would just to ensure they were old enough.  I have had guys ring who I thought from their voice they were late fifties at the youngest but when they arrived were early 20s.  It is too hard to judge ages by a phone call and I would hate to upset some poor old soul by saying sorry you are too old for me

I do not have age limits or anything like that.

I prefer to just go on how they sound on the phone.  It is quite hard in the Midlands as there are so many dofferent accents that for a while I could not work out if it was just an accent or if they sounded too rough so I gave up and just went by what they said and not how they said it.

Everyone works differently though and some will not see people of a certain age or who speak a certain way or who have freckles or are overweight etc etc etc.  As long as it is made very clear on a profile (perfereably near the top as most guys never read all the way through) then there should be no problems at all. 
The world is full of variety and as long as it is made clear then the clients will not need to ring and can pass on that profile and move onto the next one. 

[Nameless]

I'm the same - Rule 1 - clients must be respectful, polite and with good hygeine, thats all I ask   

I have seen some delightful fellas from all walks of like, from various backgrounds and various ethnicities.  I never ever rule out any guy on any of these grounds, only if they break my rule 1 above, thats all that matters to me.

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

I'm the same - Rule 1 - clients must be respectful, polite and with good hygeine, thats all I ask   

Im with this too, as Im not looking for a relationship with any of the guys I dont mind their ages but I prefer then under 50.   I have not had any problem with younger guys either.  Ive had guys spend their 19th birthdays with me as a celebration and all went fine.

Ive been in the business almost 7 years now and nothing bad has ever happened to me either. 

[aya]

Ive had guys spend their 19th birthdays with me as a celebration

thats so sweet!!!!!!!