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MaddieMoo

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Orgasms with clients
« on: 22 May 2013, 02:02:25 pm »
I get that it's down to everyone's own preference and boundaries of course, but I'm just curious to see how many of you actually orgasm with clients (if you get a chance to that is, it's obviously all about keeping them happy first!). Personally I don't because I want to save that for my private life but sometimes I'm in a situation where the client is hot and it's just torture holding back so my rule can be difficult!
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Re: Orgasms with clients
« Reply #1 on: 22 May 2013, 02:40:22 pm »
I get that it's down to everyone's own preference and boundaries of course, but I'm just curious to see how many of you actually orgasm with clients (if you get a chance to that is, it's obviously all about keeping them happy first!). Personally I don't because I want to save that for my private life but sometimes I'm in a situation where the client is hot and it's just torture holding back so my rule can be difficult!

It depends on who it's with, and how I'm feeling on the day. I don't hold back, and I feel it's one of the perks of the work. It happens more often with regulars, because I feel more relaxed, and with most clients I enjoy sex anyway. But sometimes a new client might turn out to be particularly hot and that can be quite exciting. And another thing is that it doesn't seem to put them off coming back!

After reading some of the other responses I should say that I orgasm more often with clients than I do with my partner, and when it happens it's nearly always stronger. I don't know why, maybe it's the variety and the unexpected. I used to feel a bit guilty about it and tried to hold it back sometimes, but you can't always do that. I think when you become aroused it's your body telling you something and now I prefer to go along with it instead of fighting it. It does affect things back home, but mainly in a positive way. We have quickies more often which he likes, and which suit me because sometimes I've been doing it all day, and I don't feel the need to perform as much or have as much expectation. I'm quite happy with it, and I find if you relax and don't worry it's better in every way.
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Re: Orgasms with clients
« Reply #2 on: 22 May 2013, 09:19:33 pm »
I never had one with any hot guy :( i dont know why. most of the time when I have one its with the ugliest punters :D

MaddieMoo

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Re: Orgasms with clients
« Reply #3 on: 22 May 2013, 09:44:53 pm »
I never had one with any hot guy :( i dont know why. most of the time when I have one its with the ugliest punters :D

When you're not aesthetically gifted perhaps you have to be more functionally gifted to compensate :P
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Re: Orgasms with clients
« Reply #4 on: 22 May 2013, 11:00:55 pm »
No never met a client who has even give me the slightest thrill
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« Reply #5 on: 23 May 2013, 07:21:09 am »
I have been lucky so many clients have given me orgasms , they wanted to please and they certainly did that  :)

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« Reply #6 on: 23 May 2013, 08:46:01 am »
Many clients get a kick and a lot of satisfaction from bringing a woman to climax, and so if I can reach orgasm I will do. I may not always however want to get there, I find it quite draining but I've found my ability to orgasm has nothing to do with the attractiveness nor relationship with the man I'm with. I like to give all during a booking and don't have self-imposed rules about what I will and won't offer to paying clients in comparison to a private life partner. The difference in my private life is there but probably quite the opposite, based on knowing and accepting all my jaggedy, less than perfect bits!

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Re: Orgasms with clients
« Reply #7 on: 23 May 2013, 05:28:49 pm »
Maybe I'm unlucky but I've never had an orgasm with a client! Not even close. Maybe something to do with most of my clients being a few decades older than me and not the kind of men I'd ever usually go for?
And most of them are the rough kind who I have to keep reminding to be more gentle :-\

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« Reply #8 on: 23 May 2013, 08:33:08 pm »
I never do and never have but to be honest its not a frequent experience even in my private life!! X
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Re: Orgasms with clients
« Reply #9 on: 23 May 2013, 09:09:34 pm »
I have orgasm 80% of the time when a client give me oral , they love it as it shows that I love this job! I never simulate and they can tell , it also boots their ego I believe!

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« Reply #10 on: 23 May 2013, 09:16:00 pm »
I never or rarely cum through oral sex (I do in real life but that's cause we have all the time in the world and I actually fancy the person I am with) But if someone has a good sized penis and I get on top sometimes I just cant help myself although I prefer not do as I do like to keep things like that for my personal life.

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Re: Orgasms with clients
« Reply #11 on: 24 May 2013, 01:49:49 am »
Usually several times every session.

I can't actually recall a session where I haven't had an orgasm.

With my clit, it's needs to be an unrushed longer booking or a guy who's really gentle, so that's a bit more hit and miss, but if he's fucking my pussy or ass I can orgasm over and over and over.

Damn I love this job!

Apart from the guys that are too rough & the ones that leave shit stains on my sheets.

Apart from that it rocks.

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Re: Orgasms with clients
« Reply #12 on: 24 May 2013, 11:06:56 pm »
I never had one with any hot guy :( i dont know why. most of the time when I have one its with the ugliest punters :D
im the same, I must be a perve ha ha! Think it's because we would never ever in a million years out of the job, so it a bit rude, but then I feel horrible after and then they keep going uurrggghhhh !!  :P

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Re: Orgasms with clients
« Reply #13 on: 25 May 2013, 01:12:39 am »
I never had one with any hot guy :( i dont know why. most of the time when I have one its with the ugliest punters :D
me too! i reckon its to do with feeling more at ease and less judged
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Re: Orgasms with clients
« Reply #14 on: 25 May 2013, 03:49:36 pm »
I have had an orgasm (or six) with every gentleman.

Most men actually want us to get pleasure too and then a fair majority of them get turned on by us doing so. So if a gentleman is not quite doing it for me, then I guide them to what does.

Men will prefer being guided to what rocks us rather than faking anything, it is a win win situation.

I've also found that being honest and direct results in repeat bookings, who wants to rebook when they either know that a lady if faking it or that they are not doing it for a lady?

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