First Time Escorting Help! I'm Nervous

[Kasey13]

So this is my first time ever escorting and I don't really know what to expect or how to prepare for it. I mean will it be okay if I don't bring condoms?That and my agency is really pushy and it's kind of intimidating. During my interview my boss talked a whole segment on trust, how I have to build a trust with the agency,and  ran my id so I couldn't steal the money. It was really weird and uncomfortable, I've never had anyone not trust me.  I'm super super super nervous but I really want to do a good job either way, half of it so  that I can prove I'm trustworthy. Any tips?

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

Kasey the very first thing you MUST do is to visit the Main Site.  There is a button for it just along from the Home button above these posts.  Then you must read the main site, two, three and four times at least in order to take in a lot of the information.  It is always there for you to go back to and refer to at any time.

Then there is the search button which is between the Home button and the Main Site button for you to search for something that you may want info about and has probably been answered a million and one times before.

And one thing I must point out.  YOU TAKE CONDOMS WITH YOU TO EVERY BOOKING.  Usually a selection so that you have at least a couple of each kind that may fit the client.  We have no way of knowing what kind suits them on an initial booking so have to be prepared.  These can be obtained free of charge from local GUM clinics if you don't have the money to buy any.

After reading your post I feel that you really are unprepared for things (sorry dont mean to be cruel) so I suggest you get over to that Main site pronto and get reading.

Good luck.

Oh and welcome to SAAFE.

[Jan10]

If the agency made you feel the way you described just at the initial interview I'd be thinking carefully before signing up! Also they are working for you, so anyone stealing money is them afterall you are the one doing the work. You could easily look into going independent where any money you make is yours. They sound like a right bunch. Try looking into going independant whilst you are searching on here. As for condoms go to the clinic and get some as they are a must in this job where you can be meeting up to six + clients a day depending on how busy it is.

As for tips on being trustworthy. Just be yourself while you are working with them if you decide to do that and go by the rules if you are happy with them. If they see you as trustworthy good but it is no big thing being trustworthy to a group of people that are happy to live off your money and have the cheek to make you feel untrustworthy by laying down the rules they have already broken.

[roseanna]

So this is my first time ever escorting and I don't really know what to expect or how to prepare for it. I mean will it be okay if I don't bring condoms?That and my agency is really pushy and it's kind of intimidating. During my interview my boss talked a whole segment on trust, how I have to build a trust with the agency,and  ran my id so I couldn't steal the money. It was really weird and uncomfortable, I've never had anyone not trust me.  I'm super super super nervous but I really want to do a good job either way, half of it so  that I can prove I'm trustworthy. Any tips?

I would forget them straight away. I haven't had any good experience of agencies, and I wouldn't have anything to do with them now. I learned by accompanying another girl on jobs she was doing, and IMO that is the best way. I did try a couple of agencies but they were a waste of time, and messed me around. It is not a good idea to meet clients in a nervous state, in fact it is a really bad idea. You need to feel confident and it would help if you can find experienced clients to begin with.

[xw5]

Yes, unless you are really desperate and need money now now now, your life will be happier if you tell this bunch that you can't go through with it.

Then either find some agency that knows its place - as your servant - or start as an independent. There is loads to read here to help you decide.

[ana30]

Kasey, it's not your agency who should be "concerned in trusting you" , it's actually the other way round: You should be very concerned about trusting them. Most agencies are run by dodgy types and people with criminal records. We have tons of threads in this forum of horror stories regarding "agencies" blackmailing/extorting girls, using their photos without their permission, sending them on outcalls to dangerous clients etc... There's absolutely no reason/ no need for an agency to ask for your ID-unless they have extortion in mind or manipulation of some sort once you decide to leave them.

There's dozens of agencies out there and they're all desperate for girls. I would say dump them and go to another agency or set yourself indie.

[lailah terri]

I'm an agency girl, I would be pretty scared going in to things if you feel like you are working for them or you owe them somththing. Take your time going in to this hon, make sure you do it in the right way that's best for you.
Going on what you've said I don't like the sound of this agency at all. There are so many out there, you don't need to be with anyone that makes you feel uncomfortable.


For condoms I like to buy from freedoms online, it's so cheap. Def have your own

[lailah terri]

And you do not need to do anything to prove you are trustworthy. Do not go into it this way, they have too much of an upper hand, I don't like the sound of this at all. Sorry to sound negative, there is a post here somewhere with advice for agency meetings, things to look out for etc