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Re: Fisting and prostate massage
« Reply #15 on: August 16, 2013, 11:19:47 PM »
I've seen prolapsed anuses and it's not pretty at all. Like Amy said, that's from abuse and stretching etc. Before anal it's important to have a bowel movement, some people even fast before to keep things neat.

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« Reply #16 on: August 16, 2013, 11:45:59 PM »
I've seen prolapsed anuses and it's not pretty at all. Like Amy said, that's from abuse and stretching etc. Before anal it's important to have a bowel movement, some people even fast before to keep things neat.

I agree and it's probably worth saying for the benefit of the OP that if the punter who has booked the fisting session does this lots, it's liable not to look too pretty down there (if for no reason other than that she can plan her reaction if it's grim).

I saw a client once who was well into big insertions and whilst I don't flinch at a lot, the best way I can describe it was like a chrysanthemum and I actually had trouble finding his anus amongst it all. Not good.
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« Reply #17 on: August 17, 2013, 12:23:22 AM »
I've seen prolapsed anuses and it's not pretty at all. Like Amy said, that's from abuse and stretching etc. Before anal it's important to have a bowel movement, some people even fast before to keep things neat.

I agree and it's probably worth saying for the benefit of the OP that if the punter who has booked the fisting session does this lots, it's liable not to look too pretty down there (if for no reason other than that she can plan her reaction if it's grim).

I saw a client once who was well into big insertions and whilst I don't flinch at a lot, the best way I can describe it was like a chrysanthemum and I actually had trouble finding his anus amongst it all. Not good.

My friend once said its like a tropical flower haha

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« Reply #18 on: August 17, 2013, 12:58:11 AM »
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And I'm not sure weather or not you and I attract the amateurs or just dirty bastards with no respect or manners (I think its the second one)

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Wow!! What a statement? Do you really enjoy escorting or is it just for the money you do this?
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« Reply #19 on: August 17, 2013, 09:45:23 AM »
I would have thought that it is obvious that it's possible to enjoy escorting and only do it for the money, same as any other job.

If you want to have sex with lots of men, there are easier ways of doing it than escorting.

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« Reply #20 on: August 17, 2013, 09:53:55 AM »
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And I'm not sure weather or not you and I attract the amateurs or just dirty bastards with no respect or manners (I think its the second one)

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Wow!! What a statement? Do you really enjoy escorting or is it just for the money you do this?

YES I am doing it for the MONEY to better my future, I have a plan and my funds are gathering nicely. I was only earning 220 a week in my profession (Beautician). There is no other reason why I would choose to put my personal life & love life on hold, no other reason why I would want to live a double life, no other reason why I would want to lie every single day to my loved ones and no other reason why I would put up with daily abuse, threats, smelly clients, rude clients, awkward clients, men I am not attracted to in any way etc etc etc other than the MONEY.

Sorry if that's completely abrupt but so was your post and that's the truth. I wear my heart on my sleeve, too honest for my own good sometimes. But if theres any other way someone can suggest that I can make 2500 a week other than escorting I'd be interested to hear it.
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Re: Fisting and prostate massage
« Reply #21 on: August 17, 2013, 09:57:58 AM »
I've seen prolapsed anuses and it's not pretty at all. Like Amy said, that's from abuse and stretching etc. Before anal it's important to have a bowel movement, some people even fast before to keep things neat.

I agree and it's probably worth saying for the benefit of the OP that if the punter who has booked the fisting session does this lots, it's liable not to look too pretty down there (if for no reason other than that she can plan her reaction if it's grim).

I saw a client once who was well into big insertions and whilst I don't flinch at a lot, the best way I can describe it was like a chrysanthemum and I actually had trouble finding his anus amongst it all. Not good.

My friend once said its like a tropical flower haha
  Wpw, that is  a true optimist, prolapsed rectum equal tropical flower. Sweet

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« Reply #22 on: August 17, 2013, 09:58:58 AM »
I would have thought that it is obvious that it's possible to enjoy escorting and only do it for the money, same as any other job.

If you want to have sex with lots of men, there are easier ways of doing it than escorting.

This is so true x

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« Reply #23 on: August 17, 2013, 10:55:18 AM »
I do a lot of fisting, as long as you read up well and are careful you'll be fine. 

The invaluable advice however is use a spreadable butter instead of lube, (I can't believe its not butter I find is best) it is infinitely better for fisting.

I put a bin bag underneath them and have a stack of gloves available right next to you. The likelyhood is you'll be spending a lot of time warming him up stretching him (unless he's extremely experienced) and you may well need to take one off at some point.  Also don't forget to turn the gloves inside out as you pull them off to save mess.

Oh, and if you do get all the way in and he wants to go further watch out for cramp in the hands! Lol

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« Reply #24 on: August 17, 2013, 11:12:49 AM »
I do a lot of fisting, as long as you read up well and are careful you'll be fine. 

The invaluable advice however is use a spreadable butter instead of lube, (I can't believe its not butter I find is best) it is infinitely better for fisting.

I put a bin bag underneath them and have a stack of gloves available right next to you. The likelyhood is you'll be spending a lot of time warming him up stretching him (unless he's extremely experienced) and you may well need to take one off at some point.  Also don't forget to turn the gloves inside out as you pull them off to save mess.

Oh, and if you do get all the way in and he wants to go further watch out for cramp in the hands! Lol


Thankyou!! Slightly amused by the utter lark tho!! Appt is at 4 so im actually getting palpitations lol. Didnt think about a bing bag, thanks!!

Hope hes fasted for about 10yrs so theres no poop to be found! X

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« Reply #25 on: August 17, 2013, 12:32:44 PM »
Well done Pink Princess for your honesty

AND your hilarious posting about the shitty towels !

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« Reply #26 on: August 17, 2013, 12:41:57 PM »
Well done Pink Princess for your honesty

AND your hilarious posting about the shitty towels !

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« Reply #27 on: August 18, 2013, 08:39:16 AM »
One time I was on tour and it was quite slow. I took a half hour booking later on in the evening just because of the money.

He turns up, he is actually ok but announces he wants me to fist him anally. I've fisted partners before, albeit vaginally, so positioning my hand appropriately wasn't a problem, but its not something I particularly care for as the active partner. At this point I was like oh I wish you'd said so I could have had gloves - ie, trying to get out of it. He goes "oh its okay, I brought gloves and lube". I then went to my plan B of "have you douched?" He laughs and says yeah, its a bit dirty otherwise. He seemed quite switched on to anal play as we chatted briefly, and seemed an affable, good natured guy so I had no reason to think otherwise.

So I go out of the room to get him a drink, still thinking "how can I get out of this?"

Come back into the room, he is unpacking his bag of tricks; he turns around to get his drink on the table behind him. I take a quick glance at the things he's laid out - lube, little vibrator, condoms (I presume for the vibe), and Marigold gloves.

Yes. Bright yellow Marigolds.

I say "are you sure they're the right kind of gloves for anal? They can be a bit thick, it must be uncomfortable."

He says "no its okay, I use them all the time."

In the end he couldn't take my fist, I have big hands for a woman. But afterwards we had a laugh and a joke, during which I mentioned that I would never look at washing up in the same way again...


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Re: Fisting and prostate massage
« Reply #28 on: August 18, 2013, 08:59:58 AM »
I find a lot more men enjoy anal stimulation than women - after all, they have a prostrate gland up there, women don't. I don't mind the area being played with and I've tried anal sex, it doesn't do it for me. One of my friends absolutely loves it, can't see why myself, but then she likes DP as well... She knows what I do and I always say to her "seriously, you'd make a fortune in porn, the things you get up to!"

You'll find men that do partake in regular sexual activity anally are generally aware of things like douching etc, although there will always be one who has no idea.

Definitely wear latex gloves (I don't recommend Marigolds) and fisting is a big step up, especially if you're not experienced in that. Your hand isn't really forming a fist, its kind of more curved rather than clenched tightly if you properly form your hand into a fist. If you collect your four fingers together, your middle finger slips back behind your index and ring finger, then put your thumb over those two. Thats the kind of shape your hand starts to form whilst fisting, then it kind of curves more into a fist shape. Its the knuckle that is probably more awkward feeling upon penetration because the bones do start to pop out as your hand takes on more of a fist shape. Go slowly, even vaginally you've got to go slowly and thats designed for penetration, so with anal you have to go even more slowly. Make sure he keeps talking to you about his comfort levels especially during insertion. Don't make any sudden jerky movements because its an extremely intense feeling and the receiving partner feels everything. And loads, I mean loads, of lube.

When you're withdrawing, go slowly as well, and try and get him to keep still at least til you're past the knuckle areas. If you try and pull out quickly it will kind of lock around you because of the contractions/throbbing in the area post orgasm.

If he's experienced at receiving fisting he'll generally be quite good at giving you advice as well before, during and after.

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« Reply #29 on: August 18, 2013, 10:02:04 AM »
Hi girls...well, lets just say i will not be offering fisting on my 'likes' anymore.

The guy i met was a over weight guy, i mean verging on morbidly obese. He booked me flr 2hrs, for the first 1hr he told me how hes to fat to get a gf, his belly gets in the way to find his penis, he cant remember what it looks like etc..... Then it clicked!! He wants anal play because getting to his penis is very difficult never mind playing with it and gettin an erection.
So after a hour and abit of counselling he says well we better try and have a go......
He apparently loved it and booked wscorts all the time. Im 10000% sure he hadnt. He ended up crying and sobbing that he doesnt know whT to do with his life and hes a nobody!
So we stopped after a about of 10mins mainly because hes blubbering and snotting everywhere.

After going 25mins overtime with him he left, said thanks and gave me a tip ;) i felt sorry for the guy but sugested to him instead of paying 100's on me then calling the samaritans would have been alot cheaper and they are trained!!

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