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Pink~Princess

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Civvie clothing - Am I weird?
« on: 02 December 2013, 02:10:14 pm »
So I do not take clothing requests for a number of reasons number 1 being that I get asked all the time to dress as a nurse or a police woman or whatever and I just find that incredibly tacky and cheap, it doesn't suit me and I am not comfortable in it at all.

Then you get requests for things you don't have and would never own like PVC stuff and thigh high hooker boots, again this look just IS NOT me but no disrespect to ladies who can pull that look off and look good in it.

And I have had guys show up with outfits for me to change into which was horrendous, 1 turned up with really horrible stripper heels and a frontless and backless dress, leopard print with a huge buckle at the front and it barely covered my arse cheeks, it was awful. I tried it on but literally couldn't walk out the bathroom dressed like this.

Then I get requests from guys wanting me to wear my civvie clothes, I am really not comfortable with this cause I don't want to greet clients looking the way I do when I am walking down the high street with my friends or family or whatever. I know it sounds silly cause guys are probably gonna recognise you anyway but as an escort I just prefer to dress in lingerie and heels.

I have made it clear several times on my profile that I don't take clothing requests but it doesn't stop some of them asking, I always feel like cancelling the appointment when they ask for things I don't do cause I just think to myself that they are already disappointed before they even get here.

The civvie clothes thing I understand is weird of me to feel like this but am I stupid for it? And also for cancelling bookings when clients send a text after booking me for clothing requests? Last client this morning wanted me in wet look leggings which is actually something I was wearing on Saturday while I was out Christmas shopping  :-\

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Re: Civvie clothing - Am I weird?
« Reply #1 on: 02 December 2013, 03:00:57 pm »
And I have had guys show up with outfits for me to change into which was horrendous, 1 turned up with really horrible stripper heels and a frontless and backless dress, leopard print with a huge buckle at the front and it barely covered my arse cheeks, it was awful. I tried it on but literally couldn't walk out the bathroom dressed like this.

I just can't stop laughing at that paragraph, frontless and backless, what's the point in that? Some guys, honestly... :D

Re: the requests for "normal" clothes, personally I don't have a problem with that, I just have a few "everyday" outfits (jeans, t-shirts, casual dresses) which I'm happy to wear for bookings, but don't actually wear them in "real" life  :P

Obviously your do's and dont's are entirely up to you and if you make it clear on your profile then you're doing your bit, the clients' bit is to read and comprehend, which as we all know can be  bit of a challenge for some! I've had some ridiculous clothing requests in my time, but that alone wouldn't make me want to cancel the booking (if the guy sounded reasonable), instead I explain that I can't accommodate this or that particular request, and give them the choice of a booking on my terms,  more often than not they actually say "ok then" and come anyway  ;D
Yes, I'd risk it for a biscuit, as I said, you know me.

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Re: Civvie clothing - Am I weird?
« Reply #2 on: 02 December 2013, 03:42:02 pm »
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If it seems too good to be true....it probably is.

emily_milf

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Re: Civvie clothing - Am I weird?
« Reply #3 on: 02 December 2013, 04:56:04 pm »
i rarely get clothing requests and i dont do them. i wear civvie clothes. it doesnt bother me

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Re: Civvie clothing - Am I weird?
« Reply #4 on: 02 December 2013, 05:46:46 pm »
I always get the school girl request. I don't mind dressing up but I always get asked for the one I really dislike. Nurse Veronica is never asked for. French maid is rare.
As for civvie clothes I don't have a separate wardrobe I wear either a pencil skirt and blouse or a dress, heels and obviously for this weather a coat when going on bookings. Which is what I wear basically in my everyday life. I feel for you PP the leopard dress sounds hideous I wouldn't of wanted to come out the bathroom. I have a huge dislike for leopard print, velvet and sequins. Aha I used to own a pair of stripper shoes back in my goth days. 
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KimberlyC

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Re: Civvie clothing - Am I weird?
« Reply #5 on: 02 December 2013, 06:00:09 pm »
What is it with you Brits and fancy dress?  ;) ;D

Seriously... the "uniform" thing is just bizarre to me. I looked at them online and thought "these are ridiculous Halloween costumes!" It's just not me.

I will happily wear lingerie that I pick out because it's flattering to me. Stockings, suspenders... fine. But sexy nurse??? WTF???

And how about the guys with oddly specific requests? I got one or "knee-length charcoal grey pencil skirt and elegant cream silk blouse." Does he fucking think I work in Marks and Spencer and can just pick outfits out??

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« Reply #6 on: 02 December 2013, 06:58:36 pm »
I don't mind dressing up. It's just a fantasy for the guys. The most requested one is the secratary look. Easy to o and just requires my normal office wear with a couple of buttons undone lol.

also PP you are weird but thats why I like you ;P

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« Reply #7 on: 02 December 2013, 07:05:03 pm »
I don't mind dressing up. It's just a fantasy for the guys. The most requested one is the secratary look. Easy to o and just requires my normal office wear with a couple of buttons undone lol.

also PP you are weird but thats why I like you ;P

I don't think I've ever been asked for the secretary look lol
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« Reply #8 on: 02 December 2013, 07:08:08 pm »
I've had bookings really dressed down either by request, because I'm coming from another thing in my life that I'm doing (and the client knows and is completely happy with this), or because they're a regular booking at extremely short notice. So long as both parties know what's what then there is no problem.

Once got caught out with a tradesman who was running late completing some work, which meant I didn't have enough time to change out of my combats, I did manage to warn the client in advance, he was fine had been really looking forward to seeing me and the next time he visited once again I was all lingerie, dress and heels!

Other times I've had cancelled trains, traffic issues which have meant I've only got back to my incall with minutes to spare and client has had to see me fresh from the bath, robe and nothing else. This isn't usual though, and those incidents have been less than ten in the last 6-7 years.

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Re: Civvie clothing - Am I weird?
« Reply #9 on: 02 December 2013, 07:29:00 pm »
And how about the guys with oddly specific requests? I got one or "knee-length charcoal grey pencil skirt and elegant cream silk blouse." Does he fucking think I work in Marks and Spencer and can just pick outfits out??

LMAO!

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« Reply #10 on: 02 December 2013, 10:37:27 pm »
I don't mind a request so long as i have it already. If not then I invite them to bring one with them so long as its brand new and unworn. I mostly get asked for my secretary outfit or my plc dress, its a to the chin, knee and wrist one. Guys sometimes get bored with seeing girls just in underwear all the time and fancy a change thats  all.

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« Reply #11 on: 02 December 2013, 11:18:25 pm »
I could manage sexy secretary. I even have glasses. But I'm not wearing a stupid halloween costume.

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« Reply #12 on: 02 December 2013, 11:32:38 pm »
well the best one was the guy who bought me his dead mother in laws clothes and wanted me to wear them ( i did ) and then pretend to be his wife    (This guy had serious mother in law issues )   

I felt like Maggie Thatcher in drag 

(disclaimer - i didn't do know at first that the clothes were from a dead lady )   

KimberlyC

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« Reply #13 on: 02 December 2013, 11:35:43 pm »
well the best one was the guy who bought me his dead mother in laws clothes and wanted me to wear them ( i did ) and then pretend to be his wife    (This guy had serious mother in law issues )   

I felt like Maggie Thatcher in drag 

(disclaimer - i didn't do know at first that the clothes were from a dead lady )   

Oh, this is fantastic! LOL

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Re: Civvie clothing - Am I weird?
« Reply #14 on: 02 December 2013, 11:55:24 pm »
As wg's we are supposed to cater for our clients. Some like demure clothes on us and others like fantasy stuff.
                                                                                                                                                                                              If they want what we consider tarty cheap looking outfits because that is what turns them on then where is the problem?
I wear all kinds of little outfits for the men which I would never be seen outside in to save my life! 6 inch high hooker shoes which can only be worn for taking about 10 steps he he, then there are the mini pvc skirts and skimpy tops that look very sexy to the guys and remember with men it is the visual stimulation which gets them going most of the time.

I like to wear what the clients like and I have guys who I know would not be too impressed if I just wore a smart skirt and shirt. Other men think there is nothing sexier than a tight knee length skirt and secretary type blouse.  If I think I look ridiculous in my nurse uniform and stripper shoes then it is irrelevant, I am dressing for him and not me.