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curvywench

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #15 on: 08 March 2024, 11:18:35 pm »
Yep  ;D I'm a grade A plus bitch who takes no nonsense from men, wouldn't own one, have one, rent one in real life cos they cant stay faithful at all. Even the nicest n best ones have wandering dicks. Just cant be arsed dealing with that in my personal life. Bad enough them telling me all about their wife n kids and how much they love them, ugh while being naked in my bedroom, all I can say is I hope the missus is off having the time of her life with some young fella haha

It's made me great money, cant deny that lol
Given me a confidence I didn't know I had,
I take no bullshit from men these days ( clients)
The bigger, the better...In everything..Freddie Mercury

Secretsatin

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #16 on: 09 March 2024, 09:23:15 am »
I used to feel ashamed of my job, especially when my ex outed me to everyone.

I tell you what being outed best thing ever. You know who your real friends are. And others can just gossip.

I am now in late 30s and so confident. I don't like the work , (find it boring) but love the flexibility and money.

I am much more confidence in myself, don't care what people think of me and love spending my spare time enjoying things I want to do.

I choose to be single. I'm sure there are some nice men out there but I will never put my life on hold for another man nor fuck anyone for free unless I was getting something I wanted out of .

I value myself, my body and realise my worth.

You can either have the attitude of feeling shameful (which I used to ) or choose to feel empowered and now I'm definitely feeling empowered.


Justine

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #17 on: 09 March 2024, 10:06:04 am »
Secretsatin

I have never felt an ounce of shame doing this work but there have been a few around me who have done their utmost to MAKE me ashamed. One still tries from time to time. This has made me a sadder person. Other than that it's all tickety boo ☺

regieeee

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #18 on: 10 March 2024, 10:08:13 am »
Secretsatin

I have never felt an ounce of shame doing this work but there have been a few around me who have done their utmost to MAKE me ashamed. One still tries from time to time. This has made me a sadder person. Other than that it's all tickety boo ☺
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Fifi

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #19 on: 29 March 2024, 07:29:01 am »
Almost all of the above

I don't like the job itself but it does add a bit of spice to my life

Femme fatale

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #20 on: 06 April 2024, 10:45:53 pm »
I have no time for men only just see them during working .I'm happy when they have some respect and friendliness towards me during their booking  I don't want a relationship anymore it's been years since I was into someone .
I don't trust men or take them seriously

Lushblossom

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Re: Has the job changed you as a person and if yes, how?
« Reply #21 on: 07 April 2024, 11:21:35 am »
It is great that it stops us craving a relationship. In my experience relationships are highly overrated experiences anyway. I have had four cohabiting relationships when I was younger and was never happy so much as once to be honest. I

I am content in my own company.