This may me tmi, but i need abit of advice!
I have been seeing a regular punter for 3months every week. He books an hr of oral on me then if he has time its sex. Well the first time i met him, i did orgasim and then we did the deed and everyone left happy.
Well since then this guy has been goving me oral and not stopping til he expects me to orgasm. Ive tried to fake it so he stops munching on me like a kebab. He told me he knows i didnt orgasm because he also inserts a finger into my fairy and apparently it contracts when i do. he doesnt leave satisfied till he makes me orgasm. Hes even prolonged his booking to a hr and half!! normally hes a easy punter as i dnt jave to do much, but now i cant go on with 1hr and a half of oral and me trying everything to persuade him i have!ive even tried moving his hands onto my bum/boobs but nope!
Some of u may say not to see him again, but hes a safe, easy punter who i know pays and at mo i cant really let that kinda punter go!
Ps i also tried oral on him but hes not interested! Not even interested on sex first!
Sorry if tmi but need some advice!
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I would think an easy punter would be someone who you would do the deed with and both genuinely enjoy it and both genuinely be satisfied with how the meet went?

Him expecting you to perform like a seal at Sea World doesn't sound like much fun nor does it seem easy.

If I cum, I cum....if I don't, I don't but I don't fake it cause I believe they can tell if you don't with the flushed cheeks, tensed up body, sounds, fluids etc etc etc. But if you cant cum what do they expect you to do? Would they rather you faked it?

Anyway if he say's he can feel contractions on the inside when you "cum" then why not just let him munch away at your "fairy" (lol, love that) and then do some pelvic floor exercises as that's contracting your muscles anyway. Obviously try to see if it happens naturally but if it doesn't then do your exercises.

I personally would tell someone that they cant make me cum on demand and if they don't like that fact then they can go to see someone who can in future. I much prefer things to be more natural and go with the flow. I like to be comfortable and relaxed round someone for me to cum but I think we're all different.

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Can you not fake contract while faking it? I always do to make it more realistic . Though I agree with the above, a gentle reminds you're not a circus animal sounds appropriate here

Yeah but theres more to an orgasm than just contracting muscles, can they not tell your faking it? Maybe your a better actress than me infact I am a shit actress all together so I wouldn't even attempt faking it, I mean last time I had an orgasm with a client (very recently) I had to check the condom was still on a couple of times as all of a sudden it felt like we were barebacking because of the amount of fluid that came out of me (I am not a squirter) but naturally got really wet when I came but there are other signs aswell x

I don't know how to fake it properly. Orgasms with clients for me are unfakeable because when one hits my sweet spot I can't control it. If it was with a client that has never had a woman orgasm then you might get away with it.

I tire very quickly with those guys who try really hard when giving oral. Some of them seem to need to do it to get properly aroused so I let them if they ask, but limit it to a few mins unless they are really good.

I'm a great actress I suppose I've seen films of me where a genuinely orgasm and can kind of replicate it. It's an artform really. Shakey legs weird faces (Ive never seen an attractive cum face yet!) I hold my breath so my face goes red and my heart beat rises. Lots of clenching and a big thrusty movement. Then fully relax my body and take a few minutes to "recover" and looking completly blissed out. To be honest a good fake orgasm to me is a lot more effert that relaxing and letting go (its quite easy to make me cum to be fair) but sometimes for what ever reason its not going to happen.

I would say if you really, really want to learn how to fake orgasms convincingly I would film yourself masturbating and watch what happens. Its also quite amusing. I learnt that if I leave my eyes open then they cross and I look like Im possessed by a demon so ive incorporated that to it now haha.

Could you explain to him that nice as it is it can be a bit intense and you need a few minutes break every eg. 15min before he continues, if that'd help? Tell him it can feel too sensitive after a while from all the attention?

I wouldn't want to lose a good regular either who was a decent client apart from one issue, I'd want to sort the issue so we are both happy but if you can't then maybe it's not worth the stress and at least you tried.