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Pink~Princess

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Clients own condoms!
« on: 10 May 2014, 10:44:45 am »
I had a client send me a polite email saying that he had read my profile but had a couple of question, main question being......can he bring his own durex condoms as he had one split with an escort before.

As his email was polite and he was only asking a valid question I politely emailed back but declined and said that I doubt he'll find any escort (with half a brain) who would accept this as his condoms are as reliable as my condoms, it's what you do to prevent them from splitting that's important. I explained to him that as I don't know him, I cannot judge him but it is a well known tactic for some clients to bring their own condoms that they have tampered with so therefor splits and the clients gets bareback.

I explained that I am not saying that's his intentions but I am saying that's a risk I am not prepared to take.

Haven't heard from him since.

Would any of you ladies have met with him and allowed him to use his own condoms or would you have declined like I did?

Can't see why he would think his durex would be any safer than my durex?

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sammy s

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Re: Clients own condoms!
« Reply #1 on: 10 May 2014, 10:53:29 am »
I would have told him he could only use his own if they were untampered with in a brand new box that's still wrapped in cellophane.
Wouldn't really see the point though because like you said it's what you do with a condom that stops it splitting, not what brand it is.
So many of my clients have put a condom on during our bookings in a really weird way.
Instead of rolling it down their cock they stretch the condom over their cock if that makes sense. I always insist on putting them on now to avoid tearing
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Pink~Princess

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Re: Clients own condoms!
« Reply #2 on: 10 May 2014, 11:37:43 am »
I don't think I would even allow them to bring the ones in the cellophane as there are loads of fake durex's out there. At least if I know where I am buying mine (boots) then it gives me peace of mind xx

tvhappiness

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« Reply #3 on: 10 May 2014, 11:40:44 am »
Never let a client use their own condoms. There are guys out there who deliberately prick them with needles so holes aren't visible, put on Vaseline so the latex will rip during sex. I just offer a variety of condoms.

tvhappiness

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« Reply #4 on: 10 May 2014, 11:41:49 am »
I don't think I would even allow them to bring the ones in the cellophane as there are loads of fake durex's out there. At least if I know where I am buying mine (boots) then it gives me peace of mind xx

True a lot of cheap fake condoms coming from China.

sammy s

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Re: Clients own condoms!
« Reply #5 on: 10 May 2014, 12:15:18 pm »
Yeah didn't think about that, probably wise to always use your own incase they are fakes that would tear easily.
It does seem a bit weird that he would assume his condoms def wouldn't tear but yours or any other escorts would. Some people need lessons on how to put them on properly. Xx

happyhappyjoyjoy

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« Reply #6 on: 10 May 2014, 02:36:03 pm »
I always say not as I am allergic to a few brands. Had a condom split on me before with a regular but it was a brand I wasnt used to working with and the client likes to draw out his willy slowly and drive it in really quickly  ::)

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« Reply #7 on: 10 May 2014, 08:08:04 pm »
same as me i am allergic to latex so its always my condoms.

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Dani

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Re: Clients own condoms!
« Reply #8 on: 10 May 2014, 09:37:32 pm »
I had a client ask me the same question as he only trusted his durex.  I then said well whilst I hate durex I do always have some on so he need not worry but for some reason he was adamant only his were good enough even though it was the same brand and type of condom.
For me that was a big warning as mine that are exactly the same are not good enough?  No. No. No.

I always have a large variety, with and without spermicide latex and non latex and lots of different makes and sizes so there is never a need for a client to bring his own.

I have found durex to be the worst fitting condoms there are and are just awful any way.

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roseanna

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Re: Clients own condoms!
« Reply #9 on: 11 May 2014, 05:46:44 pm »
Definitely never let a client use their own condom. I always put it on as well. Just before entry is best so they have no reason to touch it. Always guide it in yourself. For hygiene reasons and to avoid any of the tricks they sometimes try.

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Re: Clients own condoms!
« Reply #10 on: 11 May 2014, 07:21:03 pm »
I would only use my own condoms for the reasons that have already been stated, but whilst you get some odd questions I have yet to have anyone wanting to bring their own. If I got asked that question I don't think I would see them. Most likely they are either planning on tampering with them or think they are such a stud that you will tamper with your own as you want to get pregnant with them as the father. Dillusional!
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Pink~Princess

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« Reply #11 on: 11 May 2014, 07:56:05 pm »
I can totally understand a clients concern of having a condom split, I am scared of this happening myself but for him to think his condoms are safer than my condoms makes me very suspicious of his intentions x

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Re: Clients own condoms!
« Reply #12 on: 11 May 2014, 09:49:38 pm »
Oh hellll no I would never let a client use his own condoms for all of the reasons given already!
I've had a couple try but they never get very far...
Sometimes when I have my false nails on I let the client put the condom on himself. I am pretty shit at putting condoms on, I always feel like a fumbling teenager! However some of the ways they put them on and they're the ones with the penis I don't feel so stupid.
 I hate it when they put it on the wrong way, then just flip it over! They always look so confused when I hand them another one.
Also, a lot of them question why I change the condom after oral, even though I always wear lipstick or lip balm, which obviously can weaken condoms.
It's unsettling that so many grown men have so little knowledge on how to use a condom...

LadyClara

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Re: Clients own condoms!
« Reply #13 on: 12 May 2014, 12:38:04 pm »
I have made an exception once.  The client told me he was allergic to rubber and he brought his own non latex condoms.  I should have remembered to buy some myself but didn't, so I was glad he had his own, on that occasion.