Taken advantage of - 6 hours worth of solid sex.

[martine21]

Hiya,

So last night I had a 6 hour booking with a client Ive seen before.

Well as the title of the post says really, he continuously had me having sex/giving him oral/me playing with myself.

I did ask for a break repeatedly to which he was quite aggressive in his manner and basically told me no.

Id had a couple of drinks during the booking (literally running to the toilet with them as he wouldnt leave me alone) which is why I wasnt more forceful and firm, and to be honest I just wanted him to come.

Well ive got up this morning and gave the booking some thought and this has deeply upset me today. He treated me like a piece of meat, didnt even talk to me really in the booking just 6 solid hours of bang bang.

Would you girls feel the same? I dont know if im overreacting but I do feel very taken advantage off after reflection and im going to have to have a few days off now cos its upset so much and im so sore.

Thank u as ever ladies (and gents!)

x

[mimi_]

Hiya - sorry it didn't go well for you.

It's difficult to know what to say really, as you were given advice ahead of the booking which you maybe overlooked - so perhaps it isn't advice you are looking for? Maybe just a rant instead?

This guy sounds like a total dick and I hope you don't dwell on the booking for long. All I would hope is that you take good care of yourself and perhaps see this as an experience to learn from, so that you don't find yourself in a similar situation again.

There is nothing wrong with being assertive. It is your body and your choice what happens during a booking.

Take care x

[Nia Hope]

Hiya,

So last night I had a 6 hour booking with a client Ive seen before.

Well as the title of the post says really, he continuously had me having sex/giving him oral/me playing with myself.

I did ask for a break repeatedly to which he was quite aggressive in his manner and basically told me no.

Id had a couple of drinks during the booking (literally running to the toilet with them as he wouldnt leave me alone) which is why I wasnt more forceful and firm, and to be honest I just wanted him to come.

Well ive got up this morning and gave the booking some thought and this has deeply upset me today. He treated me like a piece of meat, didnt even talk to me really in the booking just 6 solid hours of bang bang.

Would you girls feel the same? I dont know if im overreacting but I do feel very taken advantage off after reflection and im going to have to have a few days off now cos its upset so much and im so sore.

Thank u as ever ladies (and gents!)

x

What a prick! I know it's very clear that we sell sex but respect is vital, I feel for you I really do, we all learn by our experiences though and if you decide to do a long booking again be very clear that you want breaks and some bloody respect!

Pamper yourself over the next couple of days and rest, thankfully not all clients are so disrespectful x

[martine21]

Thanks girls, to be honest I don't particularly want to see him again, hes been added to the block list.

Cheeky t**t asked me to stay an hour longer cos he'd paid so much!

My god but didn't I have to work for it and I wish I hadn't bothered taking the booking.

(Keep calm and think of the money)

[mimi_]

hes been added to the block list.

Very pleased to hear this 

Take the idiot's money and spend the next couple of days relaxing and doing something nice for yourself.

xx

[Sugatits]

You poor darling ... It's done now u got the money now treat yourself to something lovely ... A big  reward for 6 hours hard work 😀... Try and put it to bed now and forget .,. Onwards And  upwards ....  Xxx

[shatteredpan]

That sucks, I'm sorry hun Don't think you're overreacting at all, he sounds like a rude prick. Good for you for blocking him and agreeing never to see him again, but I'm sorry ya had to go through that. He should've treated you with much more respect than that. Six hours is a long time, of course you needed breaks! How rude of him

[TeenKylie]

And this is why I would never, ever take a booking like this.

Would make me feel exactly the same and worse! I'd find that shit soul destroying :/

[martine21]

And this is why I would never, ever take a booking like this.

Would make me feel exactly the same and worse!

Well i posted for abit of advice off here, i tried to suggest things tie and tease as recommended by the ladies here, but he insisted he wanted to have sex nothing else in the same position. I spent about 10 mins giving him oral then the rest sex...

I'm not going to take anything over 2 hours now unless its one of my nice decent guys, cos to be fair its left me a bit shaken.

I have his number, I don't know whether to put up on here to let other girls know how forceful he is?

Thanks again xx

[TeenKylie]

And this is why I would never, ever take a booking like this.

Would make me feel exactly the same and worse!

Well i posted for abit of advice off here, i tried to suggest things tie and tease as recommended by the ladies here, but he insisted he wanted to have sex nothing else in the same position. I spent about 10 mins giving him oral then the rest sex...

I'm not going to take anything over 2 hours now unless its one of my nice decent guys, cos to be fair its left me a bit shaken.

I have his number, I don't know whether to put up on here to let other girls know how forceful he is?

Thanks again xx

I'm not having a go at all, I just don't know how you got through that. As I added, I personally would find a booking like that soul destroying.

I love longer bookings but anything more than 3hours needs to include drinks/dinner/social time etc...and I always say I don't do non-stop oral or fucking. I would have probably ended it after 2/3 hours xx

[caylee_k]

Well it doesn't really matter what the rest of us think, it matters how you feel-- and clearly you feel like he was not respectful of your boundaries and did not treat you with respect.

I would try not to dwell on this and just learn from the experience-- if you had a bad feeling about him before, you know not to let yourself be swayed by dollar signs. And perhaps think back to the booking, is there something you can do next time to try and take the emphasis off sex? Maybe a drinking game, suggesting you two make something to eat, take a walk, whatever?

I have never done a six hour booking but to be honest I wouldn't do it, 2 hours is my limit if I not seen someone. I don't even know how you physically got through six hours of penetration.

[Cat.]

I would feel the same but tbh you have to deal with this kind of feeling if you chose to do this kind of job.. I had some similar experience I just told them that I want you to leave please, and give them some money back. Just cba if I dont feel comfortable I rather not want the money.

[pussycat]

Aww you poor thing, sending you big hugs xxxx

Longer bookings can be hit and miss, so this could've gone either way. I've had longer ones who wanted sexy time only (3-4 hours, not six though) where it's been very chilled and relaxed, and then I've had the ones who have wanted to bang bang bang the whole time, but they all accepted taking breaks in between, and even then they were hard work, though tolerable, so you must've felt much worse. There used to be an agency client who would do the rounds and book for 90mins, he sounds like your client - absolute non stop, and he drove everyone up the wall, and I needed to take a day off after him, and that was just 90mins, so really you deserve a holiday after this one!

On the up side future bookings, presuming you mainly do hour/90mins, will seem so short now, and every client will seem like an angel compared to him! As the other ladies have said you can move on by learning from this and discussing how you will spend time on longer bookings in future. This could've turned out to be a in respectful gent who wanted a slow and sensual time, so don't go kicking yourself over the fact you agreed to the job. In hindsight we could all say "I wouldn't have agreed to it", but when you think of the money and how many weeks rent etc it covers then that can sway your decision. I hope your next client treats you nicely and puts a spring back in your step xxxxx

[Hotblondie]

I wouldnt do a booking longer then 2 hours with someone I dont click with.
I had just once a 6 hours booking but with a gorgeous guy and we had breaks  in between and chats and fun and I ve met him before that few times so I knew it will be ok.

I cant imagine how you endured it for so long, non stop banging for 6 hours.  I wouldnt do it without breaks at all.

You must be sore everywhere

 Im sorry for your experience xx

[mimi_]

As already stated I feel bad for the OP. However, I was one of the people who took time to give advice before the booking (after the original post worrying about the chance of a 6 hour booking of non-stop sex). This advice was not taken on board so although it is now being given out again, it seems pointless as the OP appears to want the attention, rather than the advice.

Sorry to sound blunt but as someone who would take time to help anyone, I don't have time for people like this