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French Delight

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Obsessive online stalker after booking - Mr Discerning
« on: 28 September 2014, 12:36:31 am »
I'm quite new to the UK scene, being an escort in London since May (7 years in France). End of May I met a guy on an online chat (Punternet). He introduced himself as being in finance and occasional writer, so we had long chats before making a booking. His online name is Mr Discerning, I guess he's well known in many websites but I didn't know him at this time and we all make mistakes as newbies, don't we...

His phone number is 075033344**, he's a white british male, light brown short hair, blue/green eyes, said age 30 but he looks much younger. Not overweight but podgy, dressed casually with checked shirt and black jeans, about 5feet 7inches. Not particularly attractive, neither ugly, just "babyface" looking.

The client usually sees girls in parlours in his area (Leeds and surroundings), however we agreed for an outcall at his place on the 11th of June. I have to say, I'm London based and he's in Yorkshire, so I had to travel. I'm usually happy to travel for the right gentleman as I offer this service, but what I discovered in real life was way different from the online chats.

To put it simply and without technical details :

- the booking took place in his parent's house. Weird. Aged 30 this guy still lives with Mom and Dad. Fair enough, but inviting an escort to "his" place meant to me we were alone there.

- he's totally immature, but also very manipulative and persuasive, as he managed to get me there. Physically he looks much younger than his said age. I can give details about his physical description and contact details in PM.

- the outcall was supposed to last 4 hours but he managed to make me miss my train back. So I had to stay in the middle of nowhere for the night, against my will. I had a safety buddy in London and sent SOS texts, sadly had no reply or action taken (I've changed my buddy since then !). So let's say the booking lasted around 24 hours.

- I really started being freaked out when this client told me he's used to "train" webcammers to strip for him (for free) online. He never got me to do that, and I sincerely doubt this is true. But he is a control freak with no doubt.

- he didn't want to pay my rates. For him, paying 160 quid for 24 hours was enough, and he deducted the petrol, the food and the drinks we've had during the booking. Of course he didn't pay for my travel as well. Oh, but he sent me his ebook by email. Asked me to pay ?10 for it. Nice touch...

I kept my cool during all the lenght of time I spent "stuck" with him, playing the friendly card to avoid being harmed, listening to his constant rambling about money for nothing and chicks for free.

Since then, this guy is harassing me online (on Punternet and WYSG mainly). He says it's a revenge because I wasn't "sociable" after the booking.

He asked me to pay for a good review and offered to give me all kind of advice to increase my income, against payment. I hesitate between blackmailing and pimping on this point ! As I told him to get lost, since then he's rambling all over the place about the "good bargain" he made from taking advantage of me. He gave me a good review however, but it is obviously twisted (satisfies his ego most likely).

He keeps on threatening me online in public and private, saying he will "reveal" my personal details and private photos.

A report has been made to Ugly Mugs and a similar message posted to WYSG and Punternet moderators.

Ladies, this client is extremely manipulative and thus, dangerous for any girl.
« Last Edit: 28 September 2014, 01:32:59 am by French Delight »

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Re: Obsessive online stalker after booking - Mr Discerning
« Reply #1 on: 28 September 2014, 12:58:22 am »
I'm so sorry to hear this I knew when I saw his post something wasnt right about the booking and I am so glad you posted a warning,
I've had run ins with this guy myself.

What a nasty piece of work, if you have his number and email you should post it on here censoring the email and last two digits of the number.

I had a feeling he was unhinged. I hope you feel better soon xx

French Delight

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Re: Obsessive online stalker after booking - Mr Discerning
« Reply #2 on: 28 September 2014, 01:14:10 am »
Thanks for your support MissMonroe, it cheers me up. I feel much better now actually, however I'm not scared of this client as he's got no credibility so far. I have very nice clients usually, true gentlemen, and never had such a problem since I'm escorting.

Phone number and description will be on Ugly Mugs as I've given all the details I could. PM follows :)

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Re: Obsessive online stalker after booking - Mr Discerning
« Reply #3 on: 28 September 2014, 01:22:42 am »
I'll just remind everybody that this board is not for general discussion or chit chat, and even if it was, punting forums, their content and their members (obviously outwith the provision of relevant information) are off topic here.

FD, if you don't want to include the (censored) phone number we can't force you, but it would be really helpful so that people can search for it. Not everybody who reads Warnings is a registered member with access to our PM system :).

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Re: Obsessive online stalker after booking - Mr Discerning
« Reply #4 on: 28 September 2014, 01:33:31 am »
Post modified M'am :)

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« Reply #5 on: 28 September 2014, 01:36:26 am »
Good lass ;).