Overly Persistent Potential Client

[Lillylove]

Hi everyone,

I'm still new to AW and a student by day so I haven't got around to meeting anyone yet so obviously I have zero feedback, and I still have no pictures on my account as of yet, however yesterday I got a message asking me to travel from London to Liverpool for three days for a really large amount of money.

I was obviously interested especially with Christmas coming up and was keen to meet him, but when I asked him to send a booking through he had a massive go at me for rushing him and that he doesn't like being pushed. He then asked for nude pictures along with the face and full body shots I had already sent and I really politely told him that I preferred not to send any until the booking had been confirmed. He has sent several emails saying that for the amount of money he is going to be spending on me he expects me to send some as he deserves to know what hes booking (even though you can clearly see my figure in the ones I sent) and he keeps emailing saying things like he needs to see much more effort from me, and I should be trying to convince him to book by sending nudes etc no matter much I politely explain my reasons for not sending any until he books

He also got angry when he asked me to explain in vivid detail how we would be spending our time in the bedroom during the booking and I told him to have a look at my enjoys list on AW rather than engaging in graphic chat. He is saying that makes me sound like I might be inhibited and he's concerned to book someone who isn't proud to show themselves off.

He has now just sent another email saying 'so if I put a booking through now will you send naked pictures (I can't believe we're still going through this almost 24 hours later, you should have already sent them, anyone would think I was booking you for just one or two hours)'

He does have one positive feedback from a few months back, but as I'm inexperienced I do feel like he could just be taking advantage and trying to get photos then I'll never hear from him again. I find it funny he would approach a newbie with no feedback for a three day booking?? Does he sound like a timewaster to you all x

Sorry for the long ramble

[Just An Escort]

Sorry to say but this guy shows several classic signs of being a timewaster and potentially dangerous.

You have to wonder why he's looking for an escort who lives so far away when there are probably plenty of ladies in his area. Also as you have no pictures on your profile yet he's not asking you to go so far because he really wants to see you, he's targeting you because you are new and he thinks he can trick you into free services like sending nude pics.

You'll get a lot of these as a newbie, the money may be tempting but your safety is far more important - ignore and block!

[Grumpy Cow]

Timewaster.  And even if he was for real, a nightmare.  Just don't let take up more of your time.  No graphic chat needed, no extra pictures and you do not need to "audition" for work.  Remember he has not paid you a penny yet and is not going to.  If he starts up again, tell him that unless he pays a sizable deposit, he is not a client yet!   

[berri]

He definitely sounds like a timewaster to me.

The demand for the vivid description, and the naked pics all sounds like he just wants a wank, ands dangling the huge (presumably) sum of money for 3 days to encourage it. 

Also the distance - why would he want some one from so far away when there are much closer WGs, where instead of booking 3 days straight off with no idea if you would get on, start of with 1 hour.

I would either ignore and block now, or ask for a deposit (which when traveling you should ask for) at which point he will probably stop messaging.

Sometimes I feel like whoring is the art of saying no

[mature helen]

He's a classic timewaster after free naked photos from an inexperienced escort. He has no intention of booking you. Block him and ignore.

[Fabulassie]

Timewaster.  And even if he was for real, a nightmare.  Just don't let take up more of your time.  No graphic chat needed, no extra pictures and you do not need to "audition" for work.  Remember he has not paid you a penny yet and is not going to.  If he starts up again, tell him that unless he pays a sizable deposit, he is not a client yet!

Yes!

I automatically shut down whenever someone offers me more than my usual rate. It makes me nervous. This guy - at best - is a time waster and at worst is dangerous.

Believe me when I tell you that you can make plenty of money only seeing really pleasant, easy-going guys who will pay your standard rates for your standard services.

[ParisB]

One of the many things I've learnt doing this job is that sex is is supposed to be easy

They see your profile / website
They ring you
You chat / give details
They book you
They turn up
You get the money
You both have sex
That's it Simple

these are the clients that you want

 Those guys that want to make a novel worthy of bloody war & peace either by emails or texts or classic timewasters

Offering more money

Wanting to take you shopping without even met you first

Getting angry - well this alone would be enough reason to tell him to start getting intimate with his hand

Tell him that you want a deposit that your not travelling from Liverpool to London or anywhere without one

Even if you did chances are he wouldn't be there or wouldn't pay you after fucking you
Or would say half now half later

[Kay]

Avoid, avoid, avoid!

[mimi_]

Agree with what the others have said - please be careful if you continue to engage with this guy.

Have you had a good read through of the Warnings & Wasters section? If not, it would be a good time to do this. There is one particularly prolific scumbag in London who seems to be active at the moment (this is a sticky at the top of the Warnings thread) xx

[xw5]

yesterday I got a message asking me to travel from London to Liverpool for three days for a really large amount of money.

Real clients know the script that Paris has set out, but pests have their own scripts too and before long, you'll know to be reaching for the block button when you see the word 'travel' along with a large sum, because as they've all said, this is classic send-me-some-free-porn TWing. Blaming you for - rightly! - having doubts is utterly typical too.

About the only thing you've done wrong is send a face pic if you don't have them on your profile already. If you don't, stick to your boundaries no matter how much imaginary money is being waved at you with one hand.

He does have one positive feedback from a few months back

Treat AW feedback as you would a story in the Daily Mail: sometimes interesting, never the whole story, often complete crap.

[foxylady]

One of the many things I've learnt doing this job is that sex is is supposed to be easy

They see your profile / website
They ring you
You chat / give details
They book you
They turn up
You get the money
You both have sex
That's it Simple

these are the clients that you want

 Those guys that want to make a novel worthy of bloody war & peace either by emails or texts or classic timewasters

Offering more money

Wanting to take you shopping without even met you first

Getting angry - well this alone would be enough reason to tell him to start getting intimate with his hand

Tell him that you want a deposit that your not travelling from Liverpool to London or anywhere without one

Even if you did chances are he wouldn't be there or wouldn't pay you after fucking you
Or would say half now half later

Lilylove,

I'm new too, but have to hand it to these ladies for setting you straight - and particularly to the quote above from ParisB, which really made me laugh because that is exactly it!

You aren't being dumb or na?ve here, it would be great if we could believe these fairy stories, but please remember the old saying "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush"...........

The guy hasn't given you anything, he is just doing his best to extract as much as possible from you for nothing, and then you won't see him for dust.

I bet every lady on this site has a story to tell, I certainly do, it wasn't sexually but a Moroccan jeweller who did me over with fake stuff in a SERIOUS way.

Thankfully, this forum and the lovely people on here will hopefully be a protective arm against that crap.

Get rid of the guy, it's more knowledge for you next time!  Stay safe.  Foxy x

[ParisB]

Look at it like this. he is already being a dick, a boundary pusher, and abusive and you feel uncomfortable

This is before you have even met the guy

So it's unlikely that when you meet him at a hotel in a city a couple a hundred miles away from where you live and out of your comfort zone he is going to have suddenly undergone a massive personality transplant and overnight become a sensitive, tree hugging, liberal guardian reader and won't kill insects,along with being a  respectful normal non asshole and non boundary pushing man.

Nope,  he will be the Xxxx rated adult version of Jim Carey's The Grinch who will be a miserable fuckwitt who thinks because he's paid you he owns you for that period of time,
he will stamp his feet and probably treat you like a piece of meat


Of course I /we all might be wrong and he might turn out to be a really nice but misunderstood guy who is genuinely nice  but if he is an asshole before you have met him the chance are he will be 10 times worse in person

[Hadley]

I completely agree with Paris' comment too. Once you get into the swing of things you realise with the guys that genuinely want to see you, it's so easy. They just arrange to see you, then pay and have sex.

How do you know whether someone really wants to book you? They book you. The fact he's refusing to do that shows he's wasting your time. Xx