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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #285 on: 24 January 2017, 10:04:59 am »
When they say, good morning, good afternoon or good evening when you answer the phone. Overly polite. Always a sign of a TW  :)
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #286 on: 24 January 2017, 10:10:45 am »
When they say, good morning, good afternoon or good evening when you answer the phone. Overly polite. Always a sign of a TW  :)

I don't find that, although I don't think saying 'good morning' is overly polite, just polite :).

The ones I find infuriating are the ones that say 'how are you?' and then just wait in silence. I don't know you, you don't care how I am (and vice versa) and I need you to get to the point.

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #287 on: 24 January 2017, 10:16:30 am »
I don't find that, although I don't think saying 'good morning' is overly polite, just polite :).

The ones I find infuriating are the ones that say 'how are you?' and then just wait in silence. I don't know you, you don't care how I am (and vice versa) and I need you to get to the point.
Agreed,I also find that even when I reply with'Fine thanks' they go on to whitter at which point I ask how I can help them and they tend to go into lots of well what it is darling blah blah..rarely these calls genuine for some reason.

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #288 on: 24 January 2017, 10:24:53 am »
I don't find that, although I don't think saying 'good morning' is overly polite, just polite :).

The ones I find infuriating are the ones that say 'how are you?' and then just wait in silence. I don't know you, you don't care how I am (and vice versa) and I need you to get to the point.

How are you has me wondering, last week it was followed by 'Which one are you? ".

Not a good start, which got worse when I managed to find out that he's in Aberdeen (a long way from me!). Nice man put the phone straight down when I revealed my location - which was written very plainly all over the advert he was looking at.

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #289 on: 24 January 2017, 10:45:23 am »
I don't find that, although I don't think saying 'good morning' is overly polite, just polite :).

The ones I find infuriating are the ones that say 'how are you?' and then just wait in silence. I don't know you, you don't care how I am (and vice versa) and I need you to get to the point.

Or when you reply fine thanks and then there's a silence then a huffy I'm fine too

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #290 on: 24 January 2017, 12:02:33 pm »
I don't find that, although I don't think saying 'good morning' is overly polite, just polite :).

The ones I find infuriating are the ones that say 'how are you?' and then just wait in silence. I don't know you, you don't care how I am (and vice versa) and I need you to get to the point.

I absolutely agree with this!  It's inappropriate and over familiar.  Then I feel like an ass for feeling bitchy about it.  When I make an appointment at the hair dressers or the docs I don't ask the receptionist how they're doing. 

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #291 on: 25 January 2017, 11:32:56 am »
Just had a direct chat call and he says he wants to come visit me sometime. Straight away I start talking dirty and he makes it clear he wants a normal chat first. I'm ok with that. So he asks is your "work name" your real name or is it something else? I'm a little taken back and tell him that that's the name on my profile....he replies we'll go for that for now. For now? what does he think I tell him in the future????? Not a chance in hell! Then he asks how tall I am. I'm 5'3ft and he goes, ah just small enough for me to control!!! Then he tell me where I am and he's only in birmingham and this could be dangerous. WTF? I've saved his name on aw and won't be seeing him as he's already a boundary pusher. Like how would he "control" me pushing me down and forcing me is that what would be dangerous about it?? Really freaked me out.
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #292 on: 25 January 2017, 06:09:08 pm »
He probably means that you're going to fall in love with him and possibly stalk him forever more (dangerous for his current marital situation).

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #293 on: 25 January 2017, 09:14:43 pm »
When the very hot guy steps out of the shower and tells me he's had a few grams of coke but not to worry as he had taken Viagra. Oh God am I going to earn every penny the hard way that's if he can get a bloody hard on.  Had he said on phone I would have declined.

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #294 on: 26 January 2017, 09:14:56 am »
When the very hot guy steps out of the shower and tells me he's had a few grams of coke but not to worry as he had taken Viagra. Oh God am I going to earn every penny the hard way that's if he can get a bloody hard on.  Had he said on phone I would have declined.
Yep I had one of them 2 hour booking , guessed as he used bathroom door shut on arrival and then used halfway through and shut it again .
Then came out talking about how I'd love to go to sex parties etc ?? Blah blah blah
I was like " oh no I wouldn't "
Couldn't do anything with his hard on , even tried peeing on him !
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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #295 on: 26 January 2017, 10:38:37 am »
"What services do you offer?"

Always a timewaster. Proper clients will just ask you for a booking. They may double check a specific thing but anyone expecting a list is simply a phone wanker.

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #296 on: 26 January 2017, 02:46:06 pm »
This. Sometimes I get an email with this: 

"Hello, my name is blablabla.
I am a genuine guy looking to meet a genuine woman..."

What the fek????

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #297 on: 26 January 2017, 11:24:23 pm »
totally agree with wb always a red flag  :FF

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #298 on: 27 January 2017, 12:33:03 am »
When they start their call or message with "hi there, how are you today??? well what is I was wondering if" always a sodding tw and I had three of them today  :FF

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Re: Red Flags - Things They Say
« Reply #299 on: 27 January 2017, 08:47:05 am »
This. Sometimes I get an email with this: 

"Hello, my name is blablabla.
I am a genuine guy looking to meet a genuine woman..."

What the fek????

I've had a few of these haha they think it's like a classified ad for hook up dating. Very self entitled types these guys are. We love sex so much we just give it away in our "spare time". I tell them to try adult friend finder.