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The_Lynx

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Re: OWO or OW
« Reply #225 on: 17 January 2017, 06:22:39 am »
There are plenty people who aren't specifically looking for OWO, though. So while technically diversifying to include it if you are in OWO-heavy area is nice, ultimately it won't make or break it except for the people who are primarily after oral.

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« Reply #226 on: 17 January 2017, 10:21:12 pm »
I've never met a man who doesn't haha

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« Reply #227 on: 21 January 2017, 09:52:25 pm »
(This is may be a stupid question, but...) When giving OWO and the client finishes in your mouth, are you more likely to contract an oral STI if you swallow rather than spit?

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« Reply #228 on: 22 January 2017, 03:18:39 am »
(This is may be a stupid question, but...) When giving OWO and the client finishes in your mouth, are you more likely to contract an oral STI if you swallow rather than spit?

No - it's more to do with the amount of time the cum is in your mouth, and if you have any sores, abrasions from vigorous toothbrushing etc. If anything, swallowing it straight down is probably the best tactic.
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« Reply #229 on: 22 January 2017, 09:23:05 am »
It's an interesting thought.  STIs, potentially, affecting human gut/stomach.  I do doubt that HIV, Syphilis, Herpes etc could be prevented if swallowed QUICKLY.  It's just not well studied.  They used to say, the stomach acid could kill anything until a brave man of science stood up and proved wrong whilst everybody laughed at his "stupidity" he was sadly exposed to.  Nothing you read as "valid medical facts/truths" are really subject to further research.  If you read something, it may not well be true.  They don't know the whole thing.  They never use us (escorts) performing OWO/swallow all day long as average population. 

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« Reply #230 on: 29 January 2017, 04:42:30 am »
I do because every else seems to where I am and they all ask

Luciexx

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« Reply #231 on: 29 January 2017, 11:32:00 am »
But, don't they charge extra for it?  Everything costs!   :)


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« Reply #232 on: 31 January 2017, 11:42:07 pm »
Since I started offering OWO  a couple weeks ago i have a lot more interest but not many bookings yet

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« Reply #233 on: 02 February 2017, 04:03:05 am »
I agree. I think the only way I get long term regulars is to do OWO and to do it Linda Lovelace style till I am gagging hahahaha (classy chick)

Sorry but i have to totally disagree. Pethaps for some this is true and shewolf obv has this experience but my entire USP is PROTECTED AND SAFE everything in a nice environment and i have many loyal regulars.. You are correct most men prob want owo. I get a lot of verbal phone abuse for nit offering it HOWEVER the main reason for my regulars is that i dont take ANY healthrisks and this appeals to more than you may think. I have so maby clientts say they woukd never book a girl who offers Owo

Saying all this you are correct. The market for owo is bigger than that for only ow but i strongly disagree that the only wsy to get dedicated regulars is to offer owo

Each to their own i guess

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« Reply #234 on: 15 March 2017, 01:26:49 pm »
I used to advertise OWO, although I ticked the box down to own desecration I usually felt obliged to perform owo unless it was particularly nasty. 

As you are most aware penis's vary greatly to one another, some have skin tags, foreskin that doesn't go all the way down and some even have little bumps on (these used to panic me, I now know they aren't contagious and afs fairly common. Anyway I found it quite stressful and also being quite a reserved person I felt a bit rude when I did reach for a condom for the clients who I didn't fancy performing owo on.

I decided to trial just offering OW and took  OWO off my profile three weeksago have probably had a handful of potential clients not go through with the bookings as they have realised it is not a service I offer.  Although I am not advertising owo I have still provided owo for a select few clients (they have not asked for this, I have offered and they have said whichever I feel comfortable with).

May bookings may have dropped slightly but I am still busy and happy with the amount of business I am doing.  Since offering OW I have received a fair few repeat clients, so for many I don't think that ow or owo has a huge impact.  I believe being friendly and attentive is what keeps clients coming back.

I was also worried that clients may not enjoy covered oral however I have not yet received any complaints and have even had clients wanting to finish off through oral (covered) so it must be pretty pleasurable still!

I am over all much happier not advertising OWO and only providing it when I feel 100% confident with the client.  Hope this helps anyone who is in two minds about it.

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« Reply #235 on: 15 March 2017, 01:49:49 pm »
I used to advertise OWO, although I ticked the box down to own desecration I usually felt obliged to perform owo unless it was particularly nasty. 

As you are most aware penis's vary greatly to one another, some have skin tags, foreskin that doesn't go all the way down and some even have little bumps on (these used to panic me, I now know they aren't contagious and afs fairly common. Anyway I found it quite stressful and also being quite a reserved person I felt a bit rude when I did reach for a condom for the clients who I didn't fancy performing owo on.

I decided to trial just offering OW and took  OWO off my profile three weeksago have probably had a handful of potential clients not go through with the bookings as they have realised it is not a service I offer.  Although I am not advertising owo I have still provided owo for a select few clients (they have not asked for this, I have offered and they have said whichever I feel comfortable with).

May bookings may have dropped slightly but I am still busy and happy with the amount of business I am doing.  Since offering OW I have received a fair few repeat clients, so for many I don't think that ow or owo has a huge impact.  I believe being friendly and attentive is what keeps clients coming back.

I was also worried that clients may not enjoy covered oral however I have not yet received any complaints and have even had clients wanting to finish off through oral (covered) so it must be pretty pleasurable still!

I am over all much happier not advertising OWO and only providing it when I feel 100% confident with the client.  Hope this helps anyone who is in two minds about it.
You are right to only offer services YOU are happy to provide, I could do more business if I offered Anal but as I don't enjoy it  I don't do it. Personally I prefer to suck a clean cock OWO rather than one with a condom on but that's me, at the end of the day its all down to our own preferences and not feeling we have to provide a certain service to get punters through the door. 

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« Reply #236 on: 15 March 2017, 04:54:06 pm »
http://www.fpa.org.uk/sites/default/files/oral-sex-and-sexually-transmitted-infections.pdf Thought this might be a helpful resource, as it says OWO is risky and it's up to you whether you want to take on the risk.

I did interview at an agency once that insisted I provide OWO if I wanted to work with them, I declined because I want the choice but do offer it to regulars. This is mainly because there hasn't been a single client who didn't want it and I also don't know any WGs in my market who don't offer it. I also realised that I do it with casual partners in my personal life where the risk is probably the same or higher. I take precautions like getting regularly throat swabbed, looking for any signs of infection on the punter and getting all my vaccines. I don't do CIM. 

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« Reply #237 on: 15 March 2017, 09:36:09 pm »
Always offered owo myself, doing ow I just feel like I have a mouth full of rubber!!!xxx

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« Reply #238 on: 15 March 2017, 10:28:23 pm »
I love giving owo and most of my clients would rather pass on just oral with as it just doesn't feel good.
Also find if I use a condom they lose their erection and its more work for me.

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« Reply #239 on: 16 March 2017, 10:53:24 am »
Before I knew it he exploded in my mouth. I swear he lasted less than 3 minutes. I do offer CIM but it's still polite to ask and we'd never even discussed it. Luckily I had a box of tissues to hand to dispose of the mess.

couldn't stay hard enough with a condom on so finished with a facial. He managed to keep it out of my eyes but my hair needed a wash after :D

I didn't find anything clearly explaining/talking about this here in the forum:

"How are infections passed on through oral sex?
You can only pass on an infection if you already have one, and you can only get an infection if a partner has an infection. Many people do not get or notice signs or symptoms, and do not know they have an infection.
Infections can be passed on through oral sex in a number of ways:
  • Skin to skin, or hair to hair, contact.
Herpes simplex can cause cold sores on the mouth and blisters on the genitals, and syphilis can cause open sores or a skin rash. If these touch a partner?s mouth, genitals or anus the infection may be passed on. Sometimes the infection can be passed on through skin to skin contact without there being any symptoms. It is rare for genital warts to be passed to the mouth and lips through oral sex. Pubic lice can be passed between pubic hair and any coarse facial hair, such as a beard.
  • Body fluids.
The viruses or bacteria that cause some infections can be passed on in infected body fluids such as semen, pre-ejaculatory fluid (pre-cum), blood, or vaginal secretions. Infection can occur if infected body fluids come into contact with:
  • sores, cuts, ulcers, or inflamed cells on the lips, mouth, genitals or anus
  • the membrane of the eye
  • the cells of the throat.
This contact allows the viruses or bacteria to enter the blood stream or to live in the cells.
Chlamydia, gonorrhoea, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, HIV and syphilis can be passed on in this way.
  • Ingestion (eating).
Hepatitis A is an infection of the gut that is passed on through infected faeces (shit). It can be passed on through licking or touching a partner?s anus even if their anal area looks clean."

Source: NHS, Printed June 2015.

It baffled me when I saw many posts here about ladies offering CIM and facials.
Because I was always told that allowing someone to come on my face was almost the same of letting them do bareback. Because if semen touches your eyes and the person is infected, you have about the same chances of getting the infection than doing penetrative sex with that person, without protection.
CIM is a bit different, if you don't have any type of cuts of inflammation, the risk lowers, but to have a few cuts in our mouths we only need to eat something that is not all that soft, or brush our teeth, or bite our tongue, or ...

So my questions are:
What do you ladies, that offer this services, think about this?
Did you know about this? If so, how do you keep yourself safe while offering such services?

I'm sorry if any of this seems intrusive in any way. I haven't started working yet, just want to have as much information as possible before I start.
I'm also sorry if any of the moderators feel like they need to move this post, I posted here because I could quote from other ladies posting here.