OWO or OW

[Princess]

Don't let them pressurize you into doing anything your not comfortable with. There is another thread about this but there are some excuses you can use if people get to pushy. " I've got a small mouth ulcer" you no something small and silly that wouldn't affect you or them in any ways but you can say if you get pre-cum on a ulcer you could transfers STDs STIs some of the girls on here will give you some one liners.

But do NOT ever do anything you are not comfortable with, I have threatened to leave when pressurise and I have just said well I shall go then. You've already got there money what are they going to do? Enjoy the time of get a half service. They will carry on the appointment no probes.

I don't offer OWO, I hate the taste the stickness and I am a health freak when it comes to STD's.  I don't want to sound like I am mothering or saying OWO is bad cause everyone should do what they are comfortable with.

[JennyJazz87]

I do offer both OW and OWO but the latter is only at my own discretion.
  The clients have to be clean, sometimes I insist the clients shower before hand (sometimes me joining them is an incentive.) 

[emilyofsuffolk]

I've had a few clients calling me & asking if i do oral covered. "
Yes of course"
 I say & their response is
"good i don't want to see anyone that does it uncovered. "
I think they are stupid though, because they dont know what I do in my personl life! I always argue that
if they are covered they wont catch anything anyway so it makes no difference if a girl offers owo to other clients....(I'm baffled by the stupidity of men everyday)

[Mellow]

I've found in the run up to Xmas more guys ASSUMED (despite it not being on my profile) that I offer OWO.
Today I had a 2 hr booking with a very nice guy.......got to the point where he was expecting.........guess what OWO.  He seemed fine when I said I didn't do it, but I swear it seemed to turn him off a bit (not immediately).  He'd explained he normally 'comes quickly' then waits for a build up hence the longer booking.  So 10 mins or so after the NON OWO he went to the bathroom and said he was leaving (been here less than an hour)

Of course I asked if everything was alright and he said yes but I felt bad somehow....that he hadn't come or something because of me (tell me I'm being dumb please!)

[EvaBeeva]

I've found in the run up to Xmas more guys ASSUMED (despite it not being on my profile) that I offer OWO.
Today I had a 2 hr booking with a very nice guy.......got to the point where he was expecting.........guess what OWO.  He seemed fine when I said I didn't do it, but I swear it seemed to turn him off a bit (not immediately).  He'd explained he normally 'comes quickly' then waits for a build up hence the longer booking.  So 10 mins or so after the NON OWO he went to the bathroom and said he was leaving (been here less than an hour)

Of course I asked if everything was alright and he said yes but I felt bad somehow....that he hadn't come or something because of me (tell me I'm being dumb please!)

I wouldn't worry about him tbh.  I had something similar in that I had a very lovely guy come see me, through an agency, expecting me to do CIM!  I have never ever offered CIM and had he asked my agency they would have told him the same.  Still, he was so disappointed after finding out (mid-way through the booking) that he left.  I'd rather not see a client then one who demanded I do services which I don't do.

[EmilyJones]

Yes - I'm sure this has been said up-thread but it's always worth repeating anyhow: It's really up to the client to check a prossie's services (on her site if they're listed there and/or on the phone if he wants to be really certain) *before* booking. We make it so easy for them to find out if we do what they like, there's really no excuse to be 'confused' about whether they can do CIM or whatever! And if it somehow is an honest mistake (maybe they misread 'OW' as 'OWO' when scanning a page?) then fair enough, they can leave and they shouldn't have to pay for time they didn't spend. Better for all parties if they double-check their most important services before booking, though! There's nothing an escort can do - she offers what she offers, and as long as she's honest and up-front about it (as any sane woman would be, although I know there are plenty of scammers out there), it's the client's responsibility to know whether or not he wants to book.

And on the small chance that he's the type who thinks he'll just come along anyway and 'gently persuade' you to do CIM by jizzing in your mouth with no warning...? Then he's the type that you'd be glad to see the back of before you have to deal with any of his foul-tasting seminal fluids, so it's good if he leaves halfway! If you think of it that way, it's a blessing that your guy toddled off when he did.

[Mellow]

It kinda made me think that the majority of girls DO offer OWO and the minority don't.  He wasn't in any way unpleasant about it.  However when I asked on the phone prior to the appointment, was he happy with all the services I offered, he said Yes, he'd read my profile thoroughly! 

He was getting it pretty near my mouth when I had to explain...

So thanks ladies - I guess I knew really it was UP to the client to check, especially on this particular service!  But I just needed to hear it from someone else.

[Mellow]

Grrr grrr and double grrrr I am fuming.  A guy booked me today for half an hour, I was going to quit for the day but as he'd tried to see me a few times before I thought.......ok,

So first of all (it is relevent honestly!) he can't follow my really simple directions, my dander was already a little up.  Then he arrives and asks for a quickie........I say I don't do quickies so he pays for the half hour.

All well and good you might think but no........he then asks if I do OWO/CIM.  I say no I don't its clear from my profile.  He then says a few times. I saw it on there.......I say no I havent done it for a good few months, you must have mistaken me with someone else.
He moans that was all he wanted he didn't even want full sex.

I was busy trying to hold my temper.....he then backed out of the booking, I saw no option but to give him his money back. He tried to apologise saying it was a genuine mistake, I had thought because he'd tried to book me a few times that he would have read my profle but as he thought I offered both quickies and OWO obvoiusly not.

I could barely be civil. I did tell him before leaving to read profiles properly, I thought I was really restrained!

[joanna1]

I've always done owo but I'm stopping it now.  I do think though that most guys want and expect it and its like an inclusive standard with agys.

[EmilieW]

I've not officially started working as an escort yet - I'm gearing up to get started properly in the next few weeks, as Im only on select-an-escort ATM...
Id considered offering OWO, as it seemed to be popular, but the more I think about it, the more it makes me cringe (and the less I care about whether or not it's a popular option)!
Most likely, I'll just offer OW, since I don't think the risk of Infections is worth it, however small the risk - I'm sure I can get used to OW by using nice tasting condoms and lube...

[Mellow]

I started off doing OWO but around 4 months ago I stopped.  I just figured the small risk of infection wasn't worth it, its all very well to inspect a willy but people can harbour STIs without it being obvious.  My guys still love my oral, which is good.

Well the ones that do read my profile anyway!  Which is the majority thank god, or if they haven't bothered to they usually give in to OW with good grace, its just the odd guy like the one above that winds me up.

Tbh I don't think that the level my bookings changed since I stopped offering it - there are plenty of guys for whom its not the be all and end all.

[Miss Moneypenny]

I have always done OW - I started off in Australia 10 years ago, and at the time very few girls did OWO. However, after a 7 year break and returning back to the UK, things seem to be the opposite way round.

I do a mix of agency and indie work, and while I find that indie bookings are fine as guys can see this on my profile, I seem to be losing loads of agency bookings. The agency ask me to ring the guy who is thinking of booking me for a quick chat, and most of the time they will directly ask if I do OWO. I'm always honest, but as soon as I hear them ask this question, I know there is a good chance I have already lost the booking. I tell them that I use very thin condoms for OW and that it will make the experience last a bit longer, but I'm annoyed that the agency don"t tell them this before they pass a potential booking on to me.

I would hate to cave in to doing OWO as I don't fancy the (admittedly small) chance of getting the clap in the back of my throat, and I can't stand the taste of pre-cum, and some guys seem to produce loads of it. Would it be dishonest to say I offer it at my discretion and then try and get out of it i.e. bleeding gums excuse, or 'suck it and see' and hope that work picks up whilst sticking to my guns? I suspect I'd be a lot busier giving OWO, but being new after such a long break can take a while to get established again. Also, I say I offer a GFE, do guys automatically assume that OWO is included in this service?

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

Never be pressured to do anything you don't want to do or think you've got to do something just because other femmes do.  Always remember the slogan - health before wealth - no matter how small the risks.

[amy]

Would it be dishonest to say I offer it at my discretion and then try and get out of it i.e. bleeding gums excuse, or 'suck it and see' and hope that work picks up whilst sticking to my guns? I suspect I'd be a lot busier giving OWO, but being new after such a long break can take a while to get established again. Also, I say I offer a GFE, do guys automatically assume that OWO is included in this service?

Yes, it would. If you were paying for an expensive service and a particular aspect of that service was important to you, you wouldn't be best pleased at being taken for a fool like this, would you? It's behaviour like this that gets us all tarred with the same brush, although if you're not bothered about repeat business it's up to you.

GFE is nothing to do with ticking off a list of services X, Y and Z and far more to do with the way you behave and treat your clients - I don't do OWO and I've never had any complaints about my (completely GFE) service being lacking in any way. As Lady Lust says, doing something you're not happy with because you think punters will like it is pointless - apart from anything else, they're not stupid and if you're obviously hating every second it will affect your business far more than just being firm about not doing OWO in the first place.

[Emma_GFE]

I offer OWO. When I just started agency I refused to do OW and it did affect my bookings. If I was indi I dont think I would offer OWO xx