Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?

[strawberryjam]

It annoys me so much when clients ask me if I have another job, where do I study, what degree etc.
It also annoys me when they talk about other escort girls and their personal life...
Never be honest with them!

[Mirror]

I don't mind, I'm fairly open about it, some clients do also bump into me in my other guises so trying to hide could be a waste of effort.

What I don't like is someone shooting questions and not listening to the answers, then telling me what I should be doing with my life.

[strawberryjam]

I love those questions "why do you do this job?" or "can't you get a normal job and a husband?" 

[lulu7]

It drives me nuts!
I know some are just making conversation but some are just being nosy good for nothing so and so's.
I especially hate them asking, what university do you go to? Where do you live? Can I come round when your friends aren't home? What way are you going home?  I had one client who went to repeat everything and I mean everything! He gleaned about me from our 1 hour meeting (it was all wrong by the way.) on a forum. He then had the cheek to say on the forum I wasn't forthcoming with any details about myself/wouldn't answer his questions.  That's why I hate personal questions. They just want to gossip.   
my entire backstory is fake. Where I live/study/siblings/ family/ my "real name" etc.
 I don't tell them personal information because I don't want it to bite me in the bum one day because I upset them and then they out me or something similar.

I once banned a guy from seeing me for telling me stuff about another escort! Really personal stuff. I told him to fuck off and stop discussing other peoples personal information to every Tom dick and Harry. He told me that he didn't have "much else to talk about and Seeing escorts was the only exciting thing in his life"  I wanted to tell him to get a life!

[strawberryjam]

A regular of mine found out which college I went to and then I would meet him on my way to college...
Stalky

[newbieNW]

What I don't like..punters tell me about their life, sometimes, it's okay if it is only during the meet (just what they do and stuff) but there were times when not so okay...."divorced, you? Will you date me?" Etc! Asking me personal questions as if they seem to feel entitled to it!   I also find their boring details unnecessary when talking to escorts.  Why do we need to know?  I'm not interested.  Also, please stop texting "are you Okay?" Type "social" texts. I'm a hooker.  I don't need a friend.  Punters aren't friends.  It's work.   I blocked someone recently.  If he does not respect my privacy, I will get rid of you, essentially.   

[The_Lynx]

I don't mind, I'm fairly open about it, some clients do also bump into me in my other guises so trying to hide could be a waste of effort.

What I don't like is someone shooting questions and not listening to the answers, then telling me what I should be doing with my life.

Pretty much the same for me. I do not mind the banter and I am happy to answer most of the questions, but dismissive or patronizing attitudes get my back up (thankfully, I hardly ever get them). Likewise, I have no issues with them telling me their tidbits, and if they are a recurring client I am generally gonna remember what they told me, same as they remember what I told them. It just seems like normal human interaction to me TBH.

[Lushblossom]

Yes I do not like them asking if I am married, do I have another job, how long have I been doing this etc.  Nosey isn't it.

[Emma_C]

Yes & no. Most don't seem to have any respect for anonymity & discretion.

Gonna start telling them my husband is in the wardrobe secretly filming & my other job is a police officer 

[Quinn]

I don't mind a few questions, but the one question I hate and seem to get a lot is "What does your boyfriend do for a living?" I mean, why do you care?!

If someone asks too much, I ask them the same questions and they usually get the message (e.g. Does your wife know that you see escorts? Do you pay tax?) although a few don't realise and grab the opportunity to tell me everything I don't want to know about their lives.   

[strawberryjam]

I don't mind a few questions, but the one question I hate and seem to get a lot is "What does your boyfriend do for a living?" I mean, why do you care?!

If someone asks too much, I ask them the same questions and they usually get the message (e.g. Does your wife know that you see escorts? Do you pay tax?) although a few don't realise and grab the opportunity to tell me everything I don't want to know about their lives.

Not everyone gets a message though 

[TrashAzn]

Questions are fine if it's just small talk. If they get too personal I usually start diverting the conversation but there are always some who push and push to the point it's like "sling your hook mate!" For a lot of questions and conversation I have a cover anyway around my work name and it seems to throw them off from sniffing around the real me but some guys do try to go through your stuff though so you need to avoid anything with your real I.D. Some people are just nosey idiots trying to figure you out and get an angle on you.

[Wailing Banshee]

I don't mind at all, it's just small talk and if they ask where I'm from originally it's not to stalk me just a chat with a new person. If they ask about kids i say I haven't got any, end of conversation.  I guess if I had kids I might feel differently about this one.  If they ask about other work I keep it unidentifiable and vague.

I don't care if they ask if I have a partner and I understand why some men would find it surprising he is cool with it. I don't mind if they ask why I do this. I feel like I am educating them about sex workers being like everyone else and I think having a rounded character and being able to chat is a good thing in an escort.

Of course of you don't like the questions or want to give the answers just make something up and use it for all of them so you don't trip up and forget who you have told what!

[Ieaio]

Nahhh human nature isn't it, you meet a human, how else do you connect probabley just habit

[Taylor]

i get annoyed when they seem suprised that i have a full time job.. do they think were all robots chained to a bed all day or something.. do they not realise we are humans and actually have our own families and a life away from this.. for me this is just a paid hobby not a career.