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The_Lynx

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #30 on: 21 May 2016, 09:54:17 am »
I learned and in fact, realised that they do it (asking these stupid personal questions) to annoy you / us.

That's a sweeping generalization, tbh. It's not very productive to lump everyone into the same bag.

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #31 on: 21 May 2016, 01:03:23 pm »
To be fair I suppose its not always what they say, its the way its said and the motive behind it. A lot of guys I meet with are just very friendly, and as we get talking the conversation is natural, but then there are the odd few others who come across as rude and you start to feel as if you're being quizzed by the gestapo,  it becomes apparent that they're just asking loads of shit to try and make me feel uncomfortable with the disapproving looks and sly comments. As soon as I realise this is whats happening I just turn all the questions back on them.

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #32 on: 21 May 2016, 10:29:43 pm »
Thank you, Katrina.  You said it beautifully!!  :D :D :-*

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #33 on: 23 May 2016, 06:46:29 am »
I have never got the impression they are asking nosey questions to annoy us.

They don't realise they are being nosey that is all.

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #34 on: 24 May 2016, 06:58:46 pm »
It doesn't annoy me when they ask personal questions because I think mostly, they might just be trying to break the ice in the same way that I'm  certain I've asked personal questions without even thinking because my only motive is to try and get to know my client and make it more comfortable for the both of us but I guess for some clients, it might have the opposite affect.

The only thing I don't like is when a new client or someone I bearly know asks my real name.

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #35 on: 13 December 2016, 07:50:49 pm »
I once had a client that wanted to know which area of Edinburgh I lived in (this was when I worked in a sauna) & I replied "North" & he said "Well whereabout" in a rude manner & very nicely & jokey I said "North Edinburgh hun" and he replied "Aww am no wantin' yer fuckin' postcode hen"!! I was fuming so I said I lived in the opposite direction of where I really lived but what I really wanted to do was end the booking but in this particular sauna the desk staff treated the clients like royalty & the girls like scum!! Jeez the guy should have got the hint that I really didn't want to tell him where I lived...Nosey Clients really annoy me.😠😠
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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #36 on: 13 December 2016, 07:55:38 pm »

The one that really gets me is "And does your boyfriend know WHAT YOU DO?!!" and what does he think about "WHAT YOU DO!" As if its shameful or something  ::) I reply with "Yes he knows that I have sex with people for money."


The other annoying question often asked by nosey clients:  "Ooh its good money isn't it?!" Or worse when they start totting up your income in their tiny little minds and coming out with a ridiculous figure, ignoring any outgoings or the fact of not being available for various reasons, assuming that because somebody sells sex that they must work flat out 365 days a year  ???
I once told a client that yes I do have a boyfriend (after he asked me if I did & what he thought of me being an escort) & that he is absolutely fine with this job because he knows its JUST a job & infact he actually gets turned on that other men pay me for sex & he gets me for free!!! This soon shut his mouth. lol
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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #37 on: 13 December 2016, 08:58:05 pm »

The one that really gets me is "And does your boyfriend know WHAT YOU DO?!!" and what does he think about "WHAT YOU DO!" As if its shameful or something  ::) I reply with "Yes he knows that I have sex with people for money."

I always answer with the same thing: So does your wife know what you do? And what doesshe think about it? I usually shuts their mouths for a while.
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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #38 on: 13 December 2016, 09:20:12 pm »
I have found that question is either a) I am a really ethical punter and I will totally set you up with an apartment until my hardon fades, or b) TELL ME ABOUT YOUR BOYFRIEND I WANT TO SUCK HIS COCK
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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #39 on: 13 December 2016, 09:33:54 pm »
A client once told me that clients (he was generalising) hate finding out that us WG's have other halves as they get offended because they then know for a fact that we do this job for the cash; well in that case they shouldn't ask, simple.
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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #40 on: 13 December 2016, 10:06:01 pm »
So...what "Should / ought to" be the real reasons to Clients?  Apart from...the most obvious?  E.g. C.

Because we love sex.  (?) we are 'lonely' (?)

Because ? ? ?


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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #41 on: 13 December 2016, 10:21:03 pm »
A client once told me that clients (he was generalising) hate finding out that us WG's have other halves as they get offended because they then know for a fact that we do this job for the cash; well in that case they shouldn't ask, simple.

Maybe it's because in their warped fantasy world we get into this line of work not so much for cash but because we're looking for a "Knight in armour to save us" and once punter finds out we already have one it destroyes their own fantasy of being THAT man. Or seen from another perspective: Since cavemen days, men want to hunt. In many ways, that's what they're born to do.  It's ingrained in their DNA. There are actually two parts to any hunt. There's the "tracking and hunting" part, and then, there's the kill. The problem with a married WG is they can't do the "kill" as the WG has already been hunted down.

Apologies I'm feeling deeply philosophical today, must be the x-mas ;D
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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #42 on: 13 December 2016, 10:39:29 pm »
So...what "Should / ought to" be the real reasons to Clients?  Apart from...the most obvious?  E.g. C.

Because we love sex.  (?) we are 'lonely' (?)

Because ? ? ?
The sex obviously lol
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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #43 on: 13 December 2016, 10:40:44 pm »
Maybe it's because in their warped fantasy world we get into this line of work not so much for cash but because we're looking for a "Knight in armour to save us" and once punter finds out we already have one it destroyes their own fantasy of being THAT man. Or seen from another perspective: Since cavemen days, men want to hunt. In many ways, that's what they're born to do.  It's ingrained in their DNA. There are actually two parts to any hunt. There's the "tracking and hunting" part, and then, there's the kill. The problem with a married WG is they can't do the "kill" as the WG has already been hunted down.

Apologies I'm feeling deeply philosophical today, must be the x-mas ;D
I don't think you are the only one!! Winter time can and does mess with one's emotions, feelings, moods etc xx
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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #44 on: 13 December 2016, 10:48:51 pm »
Maybe it's because in their warped fantasy world we get into this line of work not so much for cash but because we're looking for a "Knight in armour to save us" and once punter finds out we already have one it destroyes their own fantasy of being THAT man. Or seen from another perspective: Since cavemen days, men want to hunt. In many ways, that's what they're born to do.  It's ingrained in their DNA. There are actually two parts to any hunt. There's the "tracking and hunting" part, and then, there's the kill. The problem with a married WG is they can't do the "kill" as the WG has already been hunted down.

Apologies I'm feeling deeply philosophical today, must be the x-mas ;D
I think its because they don't mind giving us money for a service for us to fritter away on shiny things, shoes and lippy etc but they don't like to think of their cash going into another mans pocket especially someone who gets to fuck us for free.