I had a client who calls and texts me every day and has let it be known that he would really love to have a relationship with me. (A long-term one...)
He's a really nice guy, but I can't get it out of my head that, maybe, all he really wants is the free love!
I did discuss this with one of the girls I am very close to, and she suggested that I tell him that we can go out on dates etc, but for the time being - if he wants sex, then he should pay for it. I guess that would sort him out, one way or another, lol.
He text me earlier to ask if I would like to go out for a meal and drinks with him, and that he would book an hotel for the night - would I be up for that? To which I asked if this was a booking. He asked if I was going to charge him for the dinner, but I replied no - only if you want sex.
He replied that we would only have sex if it was what I wanted, and that he would be more than happy with just a cuddle (but we all know where cuddles can lead, lol).
Obviously he knows what I do, and he has already suggested that there are other ways of making money, but I have told him in no uncertain terms that I love what I do and NO-one is ever going to stop me doing it until I am ready to quit (which won't be any time soon).
So, for the shear fact that he has already made that suggestion and we haven't even been on a date, it has annoyed me. Even though he insists that he can handle what I do...
Hmmmm, I wonder...