Relationships whilst escorting?

[Curvygal]

I would say tell him ASAP so neither of you get too involved and end up getting hurt further down the line. Other option is to keep it a secret which I would strongly advise against. I did this and it caused me to become very depressed because of the guilt. He found out eventually and was beyond devastated (almost to the point of suicidal over it) so I would never want to put someone through that again.
Basically my advice is that honesty is the best policy and the worst that can happen is he freaks out and never wants to speak to you again, but maybe that shows he isn't right for you and someone even better who will understand will come along soon.
If you feel that you can't be honest then I would def break it off or just keep things really casual until you can have that conversation with him.
Good luck and I'm sure things will work out for the best xxx

This is what I would say too...come clean before you're too attached, then if he walks away it won't break your heart, although it will probably still sting a bit.  Don't kid yourself that you can keep this a secret in the long term....I've known too many stories of girls trying to keep this secret and I've never known a case where it didn't end up coming out.  There was one girl who thought she was keeping it hidden, and was succeeding, she had been with him from before she worked and had worked for years but it turned out the guy had known for ages before he told her he knew. 

[Tiffany_jane]

Hey I've recently starting seeing someone well just been over a month now.. But he hasn't got a clue what I do I do this on the side as I have a part time day job too . I some times feel bad as I haven't told him .. I know if I did he would run a mile! Anyone else been in relationships where the other half doesn't know ? X

[carachameleon]

If you used the search function, you'll be able to find many similar threads. Try looking for 'relationship'.

[sofrozyne]

Hi
I've been in a long relationship but very complicated and emotional . I think it's even toxic but we do have strong feelings for each other and just can't split. He doesn't know what I'm doing,  I've started this job because I couldnt rely on him or count on his support when I had quit my full time civvie job. Since this relationship is messed up I usually feel fine with what I do,  but days when we are ok than I'm feeling of quiting this job.but then we have argument again and I run back to my clients. IMO if relationship is good and the guy does everything for me than he is def worth me changing my job. Do what your heart is telling you and for the time being make sure you have your phone's switched off and hidden and clear Internet history on all your browsing devices;)

[Lushblossom]

I really don't see how a relationship can work when it is based on a lie.

I would hate to not be truthful and honest to a boyfriend.

That said I don't have one as I am too fussy amongst the usual reasons of also finding it hard to find a civvie guy who can cope with the job!

[Ieaio]

Maybe sit down and watch secret diary of a call girl with him & ask "what would you do if i did that". Completely innocent query really. Then decide if you want to tell him. I have no idea how someone can hide it but it's certainly the most done thing i think. A month isn't too bad to tell him, it's if it turns to years & then it comes out that you have a problem x

[longegone]

I married a client.  Thought I'd met the love of my life, albeit in strange/unusual circumstances.  Adored him.

He continued to treat me like he did when he was paying me.  He is now divorcing me. I chose to stop working because I loved him so much, way before we married.  I supported myself financially.  I cashed in several ISAS in order to support myself.  I would cancel appointments because I couldn't bear to have anyone touch me but him, it made me cry.  Obviously, he felt differently, he continued to pay other women for sex.

He is now divorcing me, no doubt he will cite the fact that I was a prostitute in the proceedings.

He had sex with me.  Next day he informed he he was divorcing me.  obviously I'm a crap shag

[MsDee]

I am in a long term relationship after being single for 7 years no dating and no boyfriends my choice.  I finally met a man who understand that it is just a job we do not discuss work at all. He is moving in next year, i keep my work life and my home life separate.  It works you just need to be patient.

[summer89]

Hey everyone been working in this industry nearly 6 years now but am moving In with my partner next week. I was just wondering how other girls cope working and having a relationship. I can't give work up as have a wedding to pay For xx

[MsDee]

Hey everyone been working in this industry nearly 6 years now but am moving In with my partner next week. I was just wondering how other girls cope working and having a relationship. I can't give work up as have a wedding to pay For xx

See if you can not find an apartment to rent in your area, sometimes partners do not want work and personal life to cross, they are accepting but not as accepting as it taking place in the home they share with you.  That is the compromise my partner and I have come too and I can not blame him

We do not discuss work, he does not ask and i do not tell.  I also keep all my work equipment out of the way and packed away

[summer89]

I don't really have much work stuff matching underwear nice dress and high heels do nicely for work and I'm moving closer to where I work. My partner knew what i Done before we got together xx

[losthope]

I was seeing someone before I started escorting, but he knew something wasnt right, he lost trust in me but I couldnt bring myself to tell him what I was doing, so I made an excuse and finished with him, I miss making live, but more than anything I miss thebond we had. Im not going to try a relationship until I can afford to quit

[Hard Candy]

Now n then I think about having a boyfriend but mainly I'm happy being single n it suits me. But I don't go out to bars n suchlike so if I wanted to meet a guy it would have to be from online means. I'd also need him to be very open minded n cool with me being an escort and happy to take my pics. I wonder how to find such a bloke? He needs to know what I do cos I'm not going to hide it n try n be someone I'm not.

[MsDee]

This is going to sound very negative, but I did the whole dating scene centuries ago when I first became a wg and it was the worst experience of my life.  Men just want to bonk you, so I stayed single for 7 years and waited for mr right to find me and he did, although be it via AW but I have been in a very good relationship for almost 2 years now.

[foxylady]

Hard to say, before starting this i spent years internet dating and met some lovely and genuine people.  Recently ive found most men just want a cheapish fuck, not a relationship, although there are still a few genuine men out there, you are asking thr available few for all women in your area, that sre ok to accept you.,.,,,,,,,,

sorry abiut typos, tablet!

 I think its more likely face to face than over the net.

ok sounds silly but getout more, join a salsa class or whatever. ....

thst way you will be judged for you,