Planning To Go Civy?.

[VoluptuousCurves]

How did it go?

[meetingdiversity]

The lady said that they dont have any spaces yet. But I am the next one when a job is avaliable. I'm not as nervous today compared to previous days. So will browse online later to see if there are any pt jobs going.

[Emi787]

Fair play to you, I whole-heartily admire you.

If I was to go back to normal life-work I think I'd have to take a college course on how to be normal haha.

I couldn't go back to a normal job. I've been doing this for 6 years mostly full-time and stripping sometimes. Earning anything less than ?15/hour would be soul destroying for me, knowing how I'm so good at being a whore I can earn a lot more money than that.

[meetingdiversity]

Fair play to you, I whole-heartily admire you.

If I was to go back to normal life-work I think I'd have to take a college course on how to be normal haha.

I couldn't go back to a normal job. I've been doing this for 6 years mostly full-time and stripping sometimes. Earning anything less than ?15/hour would be soul destroying for me, knowing how I'm so good at being a whore I can earn a lot more money than that.

When the time feels right to change you will want to hun. It hasn't been plane sailing. This is a good day so far for me not getting upset so far so good.

One thing I am learning is to start any where in life when making a change.

In the end escorting full time made me very depressed from living a closed life and the stigma. I am seeing a bit of light shine through at last.

There are times I want to give up but remind myself of values and the benefits of doing this. I'm looking forward to making new friends and going to out and about groups sharing different interests.

Moving eventually even a house share is possible in the end to think about.
I feel like my closed life escorting is about to be opened up in to a beautiful sight.

I have hope some thing that vanished ages ago. Slowly but surely.

We all can get through this.... Support from organisations is help me.

[mature helen]

I'm an introvert and I love my own company I don't feel the need or even like being surrounded by people all the time as I find it draining. Escorting is perfect for my personality I can keep myself to myself and have visitors only when it suits me (but not for longer than an hour because after that I've had enough of them) I can imagine anyone who is more extrovert and/or needs lots of social intercourse would be miserable in this job working alone every day.
For me its Heaven.

[VoluptuousCurves]

You sound really positive MD, well done. Fingers crossed for you 

[meetingdiversity]

You sound really positive MD, well done. Fingers crossed for you 

Thank you I just try more to live in the present now and notice that I am noticing enjoying different values. Those free ones feeling happy. I made a list of about 10 deep within life questions to answer.

 I also typed up reasons for this change to help me when down. Also actions it will take to work through reaching my goal. My memory isn't that good with so much happening it is crucial.

I am planning more for this instead of running before walking type thing.

I also self treat myself with Reiki at night before going to sleep. It soothes me so much, I feel more at peace today like I can attract feeling peace more.

This challenges all of your inner strengths and have had to be stronger than ever before. Because I want my health to improve and the only way is out.

I'm fed up of not being respected and being treated like a peace of meat. Not all some clients are like that.

I go to therapy because I just couldn't cope but now things are slowly improving.

[meetingdiversity]

You sound really positive MD, well done. Fingers crossed for you 

Thank You... I have taken a more positive approach and think this will help me more through this time. Xx

[Emi787]

I'm an introvert and I love my own company I don't feel the need or even like being surrounded by people all the time as I find it draining. Escorting is perfect for my personality I can keep myself to myself and have visitors only when it suits me (but not for longer than an hour because after that I've had enough of them) I can imagine anyone who is more extrovert and/or needs lots of social intercourse would be miserable in this job working alone every day.
For me its Heaven.

I swear you are like my twin sister with this.

The only difference is that I enjoy going out 2-3 times per week but only by myself in the evenings to nice bars, to mainly meet potential clients and hopefully meet Mr Perfect if he even exists. Meeting clients this way is usually so much nicer than adultwork as I get to choose who I want to sleep with and I get paid for it. And being by myself, men are more confident to approach you as it looks like you're lonely. But really no I am not lonely (not exactly), I'd rather be by myself at home with a nice man who isn't overly needy and who actually wants to have children because for a while I have been feeling so broody for a baby. I'd love to settle down more than anything.

[meetingdiversity]

An update I have started viewing propertys for rooms with just waiting for the right one to come along. I feel better in myself and have made a friend in the process. I will change my escorting around working differently. It will be easier going civy like this.

I got very anxious at one point about this but found out nothing bad happens.    It is exciting also with changing my photos to dresses only eventually with miminal uniforms. And yes my prise will go up to at least ?130 an hour for incall as will be part time.

I've started writing my profile on viva already while in bed this morning lol. Only having aw and backpage left to go.

There will be no more being stuck in a house having sex with several men. This is my break soon I have got the energy out of nowhere.

I will start boxing up things ready to move over the next few days. I'm so excited.

[nemature]

I have no advice to offer everyone has said it all but I really wish you well and hope that things work out for you

[VoluptuousCurves]

That sounds really good MD! Are you looking at a house share?

[meetingdiversity]

That sounds really good MD! Are you looking at a house share?

I am it is cheaper and will help me with the transition because doing it from my base is difficult hence why it has taken this long to reach this stage lol. I went to several viewings today well for a house full of 6-8 in them not really for me. But am on spare room currently lining them up going to viewings. I have one next on Monday at 7pm my fingers are crossed. And trying to arrange another for Tuesday this is one who shown my ad interest.

I am not looking back and am determined to break free from my current circumstances, not spending the whole of 2017 like last year. The inner drive is there to do this more than getting the go to escort in fact it is dead when it comes to escorting. I just have to force myself.

Just to add that I am getting anxious from time to time while doing this even though I am going to keep going through with it. The guy viewing the rooms today we went for a coffee together, while there showing him spare room and disusing also a chit chat. We exchanged email addressee and phone numbers. He is Swedish pretty a cool guy, it is good being at the same stage looking for a room. And will meet up after our viewings on Monday. I actually felt normal instead of having to hide shy away because escorting full time. I felt some body and this was without makeup on.

Thanks VC for your support. xx.

[Mariah]

I just wanted to wish you luck and every success with your journey. I made the transition to a straight job and for the most part never looked back. It taught me a lot about life and business in general. I went straight because I had fallen out of love with this business (for me personally, I thought it was getting more and more dangerous). To help me get by, I kept a handful of really reliable regulars who stuck with me for years and who I genuinely liked and felt happy to see. This helped me to tick over financially as the drop in income from sex work to normal work was a massive shock! I also did and continue to do regular training/educational courses. With perseverance it is achievable. It also gave me peace of mind and a sense of worth. Best of luck.x

[meetingdiversity]

I just wanted to wish you luck and every success with your journey. I made the transition to a straight job and for the most part never looked back. It taught me a lot about life and business in general. I went straight because I had fallen out of love with this business (for me personally, I thought it was getting more and more dangerous). To help me get by, I kept a handful of really reliable regulars who stuck with me for years and who I genuinely liked and felt happy to see. This helped me to tick over financially as the drop in income from sex work to normal work was a massive shock! I also did and continue to do regular training/educational courses. With perseverance it is achievable. It also gave me peace of mind and a sense of worth. Best of luck.x

I fell out of love doing this as at the beginning for a few year it was exciting and the past year or so I slowly deteriorated until currently in bed depressed a lot more. I started therapy last in 2014 November time ended a year later with being worse off, since therapy I can cope better kind of pulling myself out of it quicker. It has been a rocky road especially doing this as the addiction to money I had to come to terms with letting go of after 5 years of habit thinking bank bank and bank and spending. It was a viscous circle and feel now is the best time to take the leap.

It is a good idea of keeping some regulars on the side, reading your experience is very satisfying.