How to handle a punter/client turning into TW

[Luciexx]

Hi, all

I have had this client, who saw me once, not long ago.  He recently suggested the second meet, to which I said, yes, then no further contact e.g. Any date for a booking.  I thought it's odd, knowing how efficient he was last time.  Little voice in my head starts..a little warning...

He emerges and apologies that there was the death in the family, and couldn't get in touch. Well, my ex used that excuse in women, thinking we would believe that.  But, I did believe at the time, why shouldn't I?  Fast forward, he said, he's ready to book and tell me it's Tues he wanted, but the date he gave me was next week.  I thought it was odd.    This morning, I received some dubious message by text, "are you still okay for today?" It's getting more and more elaborate in his lengthy texts, with some drama, as to how he got "mixed up".  I got the hint, I said to myself.

Now, he's asking for another date...  I said, fine and offered him possible dates as he requested.  It's obvious he wasn't confused about the date he gave me.  It's deliberate, I can tell, based on all the dramas he keeps dishing out.  This guy is a veteran Punter who had seen loads of escorts before me over the years.  I doubt he will reschedule.  But, he might, one last time, to see if I buy it.

He is missing me around a big time.  How do you handle these punter-turns-TW guys?  If he tries further tricks, I am planning to post his number under a more appropriate section.  Enough is enough.

[wishlist]

Block and move on 

[VoluptuousCurves]

I have had a couple of these guys. How I've handled it is to say "As you've previously had to cancel on me at short notice, due to circumstances beyond your control which I don't believe, why don't you give me a call at the time you're able to visit, and if I'm available then great. If not, you'll have to try another time."

[Laura-Mai]

i had this problem with one client but then my client started coming back to see me. he would give me lengthy texts and i would ignore them as he kept asking the same questions as he does all the time and started to become annoying. so i told him, he said he understood but still does it to this day but still sees me..

i have another one that does the same as yours. sees me once and then makes excuses about not coming over or not even bothering to explain himself and it i really starting to annoy me

why do they do it for? 

[Luciexx]

Thank you for your support, ladies.    Unpleasant. I expect he may well be doing with other ladies.  I noticed he has a sub for sending his AW messages to his email.  I "tested" to see if he was able to read messages from escorts without having to log on AW and open each new message.   He was. 

[Luciexx]

why do they do it for? 

. "I was busy typing with one hand, whilst reading your sweet replies, and I ejaculated so no need for a booking now, and it was so cheap.  It only costed your time to reply to my garbage"? 

[ana30]

Block and move on 

This.

[Luciexx]

If he continuously persists in time wasting, I will, Ana.  Thank you.   

[Shewolf]

I saw a guy a few times who pushed boundaries slightly. His behaviour is like this...sends a text wanting a booking, I pencil it in, then he cancels...he normally cancels if I don't respond to some text he sends. I think in some punters it's some sort of weird need for attention.

[Cat_BBW]

Thank you for your support, ladies.    Unpleasant. I expect he may well be doing with other ladies.  I noticed he has a sub for sending his AW messages to his email.  I "tested" to see if he was able to read messages from escorts without having to log on AW and open each new message.   He was.

What's "a sub"?

How did you find out he could read messages without logging in?

[Lotus300]

. "I was busy typing with one hand, whilst reading your sweet replies, and I ejaculated so no need for a booking now, and it was so cheap.  It only costed your time to reply to my garbage"?

I think in some punters it's some sort of weird need for attention.

Yes exactly.

It's a way for them to be in touch with us without having to spend money. This is enough to exhilarate some.

[Luciexx]

I cannot agree more, Lotus.

[Jill]

Two clients I can think of right now have been great and reliable and then become pests and time waster.They start sending texts with hints of a booking to come but then don't follow it through. I have given them a couple of chances to do good but as soon as my radar picks up that they are messing with no intention of booking I just either do not answer any further calls or texts or say I am booked up.
Can not be bothered by men like that at all. 

[Luciexx]

My sentiment, exactly.  There are some men whom I no longer care to reply to their messages.  Just arrogant, seem to think that they're the customer and they own you/us.  I just delete their messages.  I avoid having any business with these rude "customers".   Thank you for sharing, Jill.   

[Shewolf]

My impression of the one I met a few times was that he was disturbed in some way. He said he still sucked his thumb.

Make of that what you will.