Sexual pleasure with men? Or do you fake?

[Lotus300]

Personally I love sex and I usually feel pleasure with my clients. Sometimes I simulate. But it is rare.

But I was wondering if it was the same for other sex workers? I am curious to read your comments because the majority of customers seem to like the idea that we also feel pleasure.

Thank you in advance!

[VoluptuousCurves]

I would say I get sexual enjoyment out of about half of my bookings.

Of the rest, the majority have only booked 15 or 30 minutes and just want to cum and go, which is fine by me. I still enjoy these bookings but the pleasure comes from giving a good service.

There are a small minority who only book 30 minutes and think they're going to make me orgasm with a bit of clumsy finger work or shit oral. With those guys I'll fake it. I'd rather have a guy who is honest about just wanting his own needs met.

Counter-intuitively, I find the most tiring bookings are those when I've come. I can do the cum-and-go guys all day long with just a 5-10 minute break in between to freshen up. but after an intense orgasm I'm absolutely wiped out for a bit.

Had a new guy tonight at 6pm and the sex was really intense and passionate. I had another guy booked for 8pm and I was SO RELIEVED when he failed to confirm!

I'm probably self-selecting to a point because most of my feedback (and especially my field reports) mentions how I enjoy myself, so I tend to attract men who are looking for that.

[Luciexx]

There was a similar thread a while ago.  Interesting to see any difference in responses this time around. 

[meetingdiversity]

I only fake with those not good other than that it is all good, some of these men think they know how to please. It is far easier to get them to finish quicker.

[Kay]

I'd say I get sexual enjoyment in 75-80 percent of bookings at least, but that's because I orgasm really easily! I think it's a personality thing, too, plus I screen quite heavily and am fairly picky about who I see, which might up the odds a little.

If I didn't enjoy the sex I'd give up escorting.

[Lotus300]

I'm probably self-selecting to a point because most of my feedback (and especially my field reports) mentions how I enjoy myself, so I tend to attract men who are looking for that.

I never thought of it. Very good point.

There was a similar thread a while ago.  Interesting to see any difference in responses this time around. 

I can not find this other thread.
Edit: I guess this is the thread titled "Orgasms with clients"?  Yes it will be interesting to see if the answers are different.

I only fake with those not good other than that it is all good, some of these men think they know how to please. It is far easier to get them to finish quicker.

LOL True.

I'd say I get sexual enjoyment in 75-80 percent of bookings at least, but that's because I orgasm really easily! I think it's a personality thing, too, plus I screen quite heavily and am fairly picky about who I see, which might up the odds a little.

If I didn't enjoy the sex I'd give up escorting.

It's the same for me!

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Thank you for your answers!  I look forward to hearing what others are experiencing.

[The_Lynx]

Neither. I can't reliably orgasm even in my personal life, and most of my sexual enjoyment these days comes from indulging my fetishes (which I don't do at work) and the mental connection I have either to my fiance or FwB. I also dislike receiving oral and vastly prefer penetrative sex, but that hinges on the gent being endowed just right (both too small and too big are bad). As such work sex doesn't provide much stimulation at all.

However, I also don't fake it since I don't want to encourage people scraping all over my genitals with their facial hair or what have you. I just make sure to focus on them and apologetically explain I cannot O because of medication if asked (not actually true but easier than "I just don't climax, nope, no idea why!").

[Mirror]

I don't particularly require sexual pleasure. I have more than enough sex to satisfy me, if I orgasm (and I do in most bookings in which the client would like to see me get off) it's more for the client's benefit than mine.

My pleasure is doing a good job, we get along (which is why I screen very heavily these days, and stop seeing anyone who rubs me up the wrong way), I get paid - that's what I get a kick out of.

[loubyloo]

I find it hard to orgasm anyway, but sometimes through oral, if the guys any good and I really want to come, then I get my mini vibe out and do it myself.
There's only 2/3 guys who know I do this as it gives me a massive orgasm and it's exhausting so I don't do it too often.
I've only had a real orgasm with maybe 5 clients in the year I've been doing this.
I rarely enjoy the actual sex so I just make the right noises and hope they finish quickly!

[TrashAzn]

I guess it just depends, I've had an orgasm from maybe 25% of my total clients ever I don't really orgasm easily it has to be the right set of things happening with the right person who knows how to push my buttons. I enjoy many of my clients though sexually at least half I'd say were pleasurable experiences though sometimes the booking is just doing my routine and it's not very long or I don't really like them much and what they are doing so I fake a reaction for them.

[DDD]

I get a buzz from doing this job, yes I get pleasure sexual pleasure, often even from the 15 minute jobs.

I have not had many booking lasting over an hour but these are tougher for me.

[Sexymilf]

Ive cum quite often ftom clients who actually intervene and dont just want a cock sucking. However i have faked it too to get some over with. Im single tho so my clients are actuallly my real sex life for orgasms x

[Lotus300]

Thanks for your interesting answers.

Im single tho so my clients are actuallly my real sex life for orgasms x

a) Yes I think there is probably a correlation between being single and having sexual fun working. In the periods of my life when I was alone, I had more pleasure than in the periods when I had a spouse.

b) If I see few customers in a week, I tend to have more enjoyment than if I have a lot of customers.

c) And I have more pleasure with my regulars than with new customers.

But I wonder if it's the same for other sexworkers?


 

[Jessiegirl]

Hi,
I am quite new to escorting and so far try to keep a distance between doing my job and not not getting too carried away and losing control during a job.
There is one guy who has seen me a few times now. He loves to go down on me but i try to stop him before he makes me cum. Partly to do with my neighbours as i can be quite loud and they dont know what i do and I dont have a partner.
One time i lost total control and he made me cum and i was very noisy and got embarrassed. After we had sex and he made me cum again and my neighbour must have heard as I was very loud.
Because i dont have a regular sex life apart from escort work I look forward to the next time with him.
Not sure if i should hold back or just go for it and ignore the neighbours.
I find it hard to fake but maybe just my inexperience.

[VoluptuousCurves]

Hi,
I am quite new to escorting and so far try to keep a distance between doing my job and not not getting too carried away and losing control during a job.
There is one guy who has seen me a few times now. He loves to go down on me but i try to stop him before he makes me cum. Partly to do with my neighbours as i can be quite loud and they dont know what i do and I dont have a partner.
One time i lost total control and he made me cum and i was very noisy and got embarrassed. After we had sex and he made me cum again and my neighbour must have heard as I was very loud.
Because i dont have a regular sex life apart from escort work I look forward to the next time with him.
Not sure if i should hold back or just go for it and ignore the neighbours.
I find it hard to fake but maybe just my inexperience.

Who cares, they'll just think you're a goer