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Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Sexual pleasure with men? Or do you fake?
« Reply #30 on: 16 February 2017, 07:32:31 pm »
I know you are right. I just get embarrassed about it and shouldn't care what other people think so much. It's weird though cos I just lose myself and find myself screaming the house down but only realise I'm doing it once I'm about to orgasm. Does feel amazing though and better than most of my exes. Also he is so considerate in and out of bed.

Hahaha when I was like 28 I suddenly found out I loved screaming. Hell, the more I screamed the more I was turned on so I screamed even more!!! I'm not talking small sexy screams I'm talking wild loud screams going on and on.
Once on vacation in a nice hotel the neighbors just called the security. Can't really blame them now that I'm older/wilder. Another time at my bf the neighbors from the house next door called the police:)

I miss that screaming though. The whole liberating part of it felt absolutely amazing though I can't even imagine doing it with a client in a hotel or my flat. It ends up with me swearing a lot when I climax lol. Such a shame.

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« Reply #31 on: 16 February 2017, 08:08:50 pm »
I wouldn't say I enjoy screaming due to the embarrassment but love the pleasure I get. My client keeps saying I shouldn't be embarrassed and just let it out as he likes things to be natural. I suppose it lets him know he must be doing something right.
It doesn't happen all the time though. Today I was more sedate but the orgasm was just as good but in a different way.
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« Reply #32 on: 18 February 2017, 05:21:11 pm »
Hahaha when I was like 28 I suddenly found out I loved screaming. Hell, the more I screamed the more I was turned on so I screamed even more!!! I'm not talking small sexy screams I'm talking wild loud screams going on and on.
Once on vacation in a nice hotel the neighbors just called the security. Can't really blame them now that I'm older/wilder. Another time at my bf the neighbors from the house next door called the police:)

I miss that screaming though. The whole liberating part of it felt absolutely amazing though I can't even imagine doing it with a client in a hotel or my flat. It ends up with me swearing a lot when I climax lol. Such a shame.

I'm a screamer in my personal life as well. I've had partners put their hands over my mouth to make me more quiet, which just works me up more and makes me louder lmao.

I remember there was one time, long before any of this, I hooked up randomly with an ex who dropped me off from a shift after my old job. We were having tea and I thought 'well, why not'. Didn't think anything about it until one of my neighbours gave me this real shit eating grin the next day when he saw me walking down the stairs; it took me about a minute to realise what he was smirking at, then I just turned bright red and scurried away.

Even if I did get off doing this, I couldn't - I'd have neighbours banging my ceiling telling me to shut up ;D

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« Reply #33 on: 26 February 2017, 08:57:11 pm »
I try not to fake it but I'd rather do that than send away a disappointed client. I have a huge desire for sex and never cease to enjoy it. I guess I wouldn't have become an escort and stuck at for so long if I didn't ;) I'm quite sensitive and orgasm easily so it's real maybe 80% - 85% of the time. The rest are either too quick, don't get that far, are rubbish at stimulating a woman or I'm in an off mood.

I'm naturally noisy. Not so much a screamer as loud grunts and moans. I do my best to stay quiet, especially with outcalls, unless the client encourages me. Some do like to hear a girl enjoying herself. It was a constant source of embarrassment for my ex-husband who was always holding his hand over my mouth, but my current boyfriend is fine with it.
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« Reply #34 on: 27 February 2017, 11:20:37 pm »
I'm a screamer in my personal life as well. I've had partners put their hands over my mouth to make me more quiet, which just works me up more and makes me louder lmao.

I remember there was one time, long before any of this, I hooked up randomly with an ex who dropped me off from a shift after my old job. We were having tea and I thought 'well, why not'. Didn't think anything about it until one of my neighbours gave me this real shit eating grin the next day when he saw me walking down the stairs; it took me about a minute to realise what he was smirking at, then I just turned bright red and scurried away.

Even if I did get off doing this, I couldn't - I'd have neighbours banging my ceiling telling me to shut up ;D

Lol! I so get it:) My screaming was just legendary and yeah, the louder I got the more I felt turned on so would get even louder:)

I do think that if I settle down one day I want a house so I can just scream all I want:) Or a soundproof bedroom because the non-screaming version of me is less fun haha

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« Reply #35 on: 28 February 2017, 11:42:18 pm »
I try not to fake it but I'd rather do that than send away a disappointed client. I have a huge desire for sex and never cease to enjoy it. I guess I wouldn't have become an escort and stuck at for so long if I didn't ;) I'm quite sensitive and orgasm easily so it's real maybe 80% - 85% of the time. The rest are either too quick, don't get that far, are rubbish at stimulating a woman or I'm in an off mood.

I'm naturally noisy. Not so much a screamer as loud grunts and moans. I do my best to stay quiet, especially with outcalls, unless the client encourages me. Some do like to hear a girl enjoying herself. It was a constant source of embarrassment for my ex-husband who was always holding his hand over my mouth, but my current boyfriend is fine with it.
I agree. I try my best not to fake but I don't want a client to feel disappointed or inadequate so I do it anyway lol!

I can also be quite noisy when it's going good, the clients who I've faked with would not be able to tell the difference between my real orgasms and my fake ones, I deserve a trophy! Haha!

It's so funny because the ones who are good in bed usually don't realise they are and think they're average, but the ones who consider themselves an Adonis or think they can make every woman squirt and have multiple orgasms are usually shit and do nothing for me so that's when I get my acting skills on!

I had one client who was in his 60s finger me and give me oral, he wasn't that great, I faked the moans, oral can be enjoyable for me even when they don't have a good technique. This client was like "Oh my god you're gushing" I nearly laughed out loud! I did not gush once, I simply get very wet, but nowhere near the same as "gushing". Clueless bless him!  ;D

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« Reply #36 on: 01 March 2017, 06:44:00 pm »
Depends on the person really. I can usually enjoy most bookings though but that also depends on what we're doing and how I'm feeling. Certain activities on certain days with a punter I'm not clicking with can be hard work. Bookings doing things I specialise in and therefor get loads out of are brilliant fun and even though I mainly don't orgasm I still get a lot of pleasure from it all. I wish I could have an orgasm everytime with every punter but it's only happened a handful of times. I never fake it either. Never have done in personal life or as an escort. Just feels wrong to do so.

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« Reply #37 on: 01 March 2017, 07:36:51 pm »
I find it embarrassing to try and fake and try to avoid it.
One client asked me why I wasn't making much noise during a booking. In the end he even asked if I could just fake it.
I tried thinking I was sounding ridiculous. He seemed to be happy though.

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« Reply #38 on: 04 March 2017, 07:23:34 pm »
I rarely get sexual pleasure from a booking. I am not there for my pleasure, I am there to give the client what he wants. And let's be real, some of these guys haven't a clue where to start or what to do. 
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« Reply #39 on: 04 March 2017, 08:18:28 pm »
On average out of 10 guys I would say I fake with 8 and 2 will be genuine.

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« Reply #40 on: 05 March 2017, 03:36:28 pm »
Fake it unless they are showing potential

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« Reply #41 on: 06 March 2017, 08:57:35 pm »
Fake it all the way. I've never had an orgasm with a client and I never want to, the thought of someone who has paid me making me cum makes me feel ill. It's just a job pure and simple - I switch off and go onto autopilot.
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« Reply #42 on: 06 March 2017, 10:20:05 pm »
I only usually orgasm with about three clients and love it. My fave one sees me at least once a week and sex is always amazing.
I don't have a partner so this is all the sex I get so might as well enjoy it when you can.
Most guys don't have a clue and some only last a few minutes.

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« Reply #43 on: 08 March 2017, 02:10:23 am »
I never had and probably never will. I dont really fake it but I moan which some interpret as an orgasm. I try someties. I might try and think of a good sexual experience in my personal life but I feel like that just ruins the good memory for me. I find for orgasms, I have to be genuinly attracted to someone. even then, I need to be attracted to more than their appearance.
But I am surprised in seeing how so many ladies here seem to enjoy it. It would maake the job a hell of a lot easier if i could.

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« Reply #44 on: 08 March 2017, 02:10:44 am »
I never had and probably never will. I dont really fake it but I moan which some interpret as an orgasm. I try someties. I might try and think of a good sexual experience in my personal life but I feel like that just ruins the good memory for me. I find for orgasms, I have to be genuinly attracted to someone. even then, I need to be attracted to more than their appearance.
But I am surprised in seeing how so many ladies here seem to enjoy it. It would maake the job a hell of a lot easier if i could.