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MissJayJay

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A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« on: 14 February 2017, 12:38:14 pm »
Hi all.
First post, so please try and be kind as I know this may seem a silly question / topic, but I do not know who else to ask as my friends and family do not know what I do.
I did some escorting for just over 18 months and it went quite well, but I stopped  three years ago to have my son and move in with my partner etc. When I was last doing this work I was a size 10 and I was 19.
I'm now a size 14, and no matter how hard I try I can't get my saggy skin from my c section and stretch marks on my tummy to go away. But my boobs still look good and so do my legs I think. I want to get back into escorting but I don't know if men will be interested or disgusted  ???, or if I can justify my rate of ?130 p/h anymore?
Does anyone know if there's anything kind of lingerie I can wear that will cover up my stomach? Do you think guys will be okay with me keeping it on to cover it up or would that not work?




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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #1 on: 14 February 2017, 12:56:50 pm »
Guys don't mind! Just take new photos and you'll be fine! As for lingerie, there are lots of suspender belts that cover up more and waspies. Ann summers do a good selection, just have a look on their website and choose one that coveres up more stomach if you are self conscious x

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #2 on: 14 February 2017, 12:59:47 pm »
I'm a size 16 and have had 2 c sections. I wear suspender belts that cover my jelly belly and I never take it off.

Like you, I've got great boobs and legs. Guys love a MILF. Go for it!

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #3 on: 14 February 2017, 01:19:20 pm »
Same as MM, I wear a deep suspender belt that keeps most of the wobblies in! Guys really won't mind, just make sure you have accurate up to date photos and you state your true dress size on your profile.

You will attract the guys who like curves and not attract the ones who don't. Simples :)
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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #4 on: 14 February 2017, 01:21:18 pm »
I am a size 12 bottom but a 16 top and have a saggy tummy but i know my legs, bum and boobs are still ok and the guys do not mind the wobbly bits. I think it makes them less self conscious about their less than perfect bodies

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #5 on: 14 February 2017, 01:32:18 pm »
I have a conspicuous tummy tuck scar as well as vertical scars on my breasts from breast uplift surgery.  I have been escorting for 19 months now and can see myself selling my body for many more years to come.

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #6 on: 14 February 2017, 01:39:10 pm »
I'm a 14-16 and i bought a steel boned waspie corset at Christmas. Best purchase I ever made! It's make my very unshapely figure look like an hour glass one and I never take it off during bookings. If they ask I just say I feel more confortable wearing it, not many do ask to take it off though :)

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #7 on: 14 February 2017, 02:15:32 pm »
I have to be very careful choosing clothes. I'm a size 10 top and size 8 bottom. I have to pick colours and shape which compensates for the bits of me I don't like. I'm honest in my profile about my body and have representative pictures of what I wear and my figure. I feel really self-conscious and guys have told me to stop worrying. I want to buy a new (and very expensive) bra and suspenders which I need to be more confident with clothes off and on.

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #8 on: 14 February 2017, 02:28:16 pm »
As said previously be scrupulously honest with photos and description.
Whether naked or dressed sexy your confidence is key, if you love your body clients will love it too. Nobody is perfect but love your imperfections and clients will be putty in your hands.
All you have to do is smile and give a damn good service.

MissJayJay

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #9 on: 14 February 2017, 02:31:48 pm »
 :) thank you ladies for the suggestions. I'll definitely have a look at waspies / suspender belts when I'm next out. I've never been so self conscious before about a body part before, but hopefully that'll help.

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #10 on: 14 February 2017, 02:33:24 pm »
As said previously be scrupulously honest with photos and description.
Whether naked or dressed sexy your confidence is key, if you love your body clients will love it too. Nobody is perfect but love your imperfections and clients will be putty in your hands.
All you have to do is smile and give a damn good service.

Haha thanks; smiling is something I can definitely do  :)

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #11 on: 14 February 2017, 03:52:45 pm »
Its cliche, but confidence is sexy. I returned after a break - my dress size hasn't really changed, my hair is longer. That's about it. When I came back after another retirement I had lost a significant amount of weight (well over 3 stone, but I do have an hourglass shape so it's hard to judge by dress size) - and I lost clients because of that!

Men like what they like.

I'd love to know the best places for deep suspender belts though - I have laparoscopy scars that I have issues with, and I'd like to hide them.

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #12 on: 14 February 2017, 04:39:29 pm »
Try stockingsdirect.co.uk - they've got some lovely deep ones at reasonable prices.
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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #13 on: 14 February 2017, 05:46:45 pm »
I'm a size ten , nothing really wrong , bought my boobs , no scars apart from them ( tiny) and still worry a bit , personally I think it's normal to be a little apprehensive and I've had a few guys who say I'm too thin and that they prefer a more curvy figure ( I told them I was eating a jam sandwich as we spoke lol) .
Definitely without doubt everyone has a preference and it's not the ideal some of us believe .
Some guys like real women and some like the idea of perfection . I think personally men like real ( personality and shape) .
I think confidence is the key and the ability to put guys at ease , that's mainly what they're after , good luck , it will be the same as before xx

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #14 on: 14 February 2017, 05:57:12 pm »
Yep, confidence and honest marketing are the key. I'm a size 28 and have never had a walker.
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