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mature helen

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #15 on: 14 February 2017, 06:56:11 pm »
And remember they're not stretch marks they're Tiger Stripes...grrrrr.  ;D

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #16 on: 14 February 2017, 10:06:48 pm »
At a size 26/28 with stretch marks and red skin in one or two places caused by dermatitis I can say I've never had a walker. Men don't care as long as you dress up sexy and are friendly, give them a good service and are confident. Don't worry.

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #17 on: 14 February 2017, 11:11:52 pm »
Just be what you are if you are slim and petite market it, if you are a busty babe advertise it, if you are a big beautiful BBW then shout it out, the worst thing an escort can do is pretend to be something they are not. I'm a mature 58 year old and that's what I market. I may be wearing well but I'm not beautiful, thin, extra busty or anything special but I'm honest about who I am and I like to give a good service so just be honest and be yourself and don't worry about the competition as there are men out there who will find you to be exactly what they are looking for. I remember being told when you walk into a shoe shop there are hundreds of shoes to choose from but not all will fit you comfortably in the same way we cant be a shoe that fits everyone we all have our pros and cons but be honest and punters who like your type will book you.

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #18 on: 15 February 2017, 06:46:54 am »
im a size 20 with a big saggy belly with big saggy boobs and guy don't mind I am a very willing partner if im treated right and in a safe environment
I will do what their wifes wont  ;D

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #19 on: 15 February 2017, 08:03:42 am »
Its cliche, but confidence is sexy. I returned after a break - my dress size hasn't really changed, my hair is longer. That's about it. When I came back after another retirement I had lost a significant amount of weight (well over 3 stone, but I do have an hourglass shape so it's hard to judge by dress size) - and I lost clients because of that!

Men like what they like.

I'd love to know the best places for deep suspender belts though - I have laparoscopy scars that I have issues with, and I'd like to hide them.

Correct, when I'm smaller some clients tell me they don't like it. Others think it's wonderful.

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #20 on: 15 February 2017, 08:45:46 am »
:) thank you ladies for the suggestions. I'll definitely have a look at waspies / suspender belts when I'm next out. I've never been so self conscious before about a body part before, but hopefully that'll help.
Check out 'deep suspender belts' as an eBay search and you'll see loads , mine cost various amounts but they have nice really deep Lacey ones for around 6.99 they're great !

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #21 on: 15 February 2017, 09:03:49 am »
i am a size 20 and trust me my belly is not flat as ive had a c section myself i have been pulling men with this body for years. Over the years i have learnt that every man has a preference some men even tell me am not big enough its all about how you package yourself make sure you do nice nails lashes good make up get yourself nice lingirie on Ebay and also lovehoney for lovely plus size lingirie.

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #22 on: 15 February 2017, 10:11:03 am »
Hey Hun

First of all we are all different and I believe there's work out there for us all doesn't matter on age , size or race . As long as we market our selves right it's all ok . I have never had kids but I have had stomact surgery scars and stretch marks on my bum from all the weight I have lost from when I was younger . I have never had any one comment on my scars or stretch marks part from one guy . I usually wear all in one body stockings . You will be find Hun go for it . We can't be every ones cup of tea there always be the odd idiot who has some thing stupid to say .

But good luck and go for it babe xx

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #23 on: 15 February 2017, 10:21:26 am »

Thanks everyone ;D made me feel a lot less paranoid! I'm taking new photos when the underwear I ordered gets here of course as I don't want to mislead people. Think that's just asking for trouble.
Do you take nude photos that specifically show your bits so that people know, or just honest photos but in underwear that covers it?

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #24 on: 15 February 2017, 10:23:48 am »
Try stockingsdirect.co.uk - they've got some lovely deep ones at reasonable prices.
Thanks for that. I've ordered from them. They're not too badly priced either.

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #25 on: 15 February 2017, 08:59:47 pm »
Thanks everyone ;D made me feel a lot less paranoid! I'm taking new photos when the underwear I ordered gets here of course as I don't want to mislead people. Think that's just asking for trouble.
Do you take nude photos that specifically show your bits so that people know, or just honest photos but in underwear that covers it?

I have a couple of nudes in my private gallery that show everything but since I usually keep my sussie belt on during my bookings, most of my photos include stockings and belt.
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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #26 on: 16 February 2017, 02:22:13 pm »
I have a couple of nudes in my private gallery that show everything but since I usually keep my sussie belt on during my bookings, most of my photos include stockings and belt.

 :) thanks. Good to know.
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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #27 on: 17 February 2017, 12:19:45 pm »
And remember they're not stretch marks they're Tiger Stripes...grrrrr.  ;D

Oh I love that. Cheered me up seeing your post there mature Helen. Think I'll look at my tiger stripes in a different way from now on. Bless. x

Trust us all and look at the saafe website. Escorts come in all shapes and sizes. You have nothing to worry about.

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #28 on: 17 February 2017, 06:24:20 pm »
Just be what you are if you are slim and petite market it, if you are a busty babe advertise it, if you are a big beautiful BBW then shout it out, the worst thing an escort can do is pretend to be something they are not. I'm a mature 58 year old and that's what I market. I may be wearing well but I'm not beautiful, thin, extra busty or anything special but I'm honest about who I am and I like to give a good service so just be honest and be yourself and don't worry about the competition as there are men out there who will find you to be exactly what they are looking for. I remember being told when you walk into a shoe shop there are hundreds of shoes to choose from but not all will fit you comfortably in the same way we cant be a shoe that fits everyone we all have our pros and cons but be honest and punters who like your type will book you.
Great Post M H xx

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Re: A little advice on body size and getting back into escorting ?
« Reply #29 on: 18 February 2017, 07:55:15 pm »
sexy underwear and spray tan should be enough to hide wat your not comfortable with, confidence is more important than anything